StrongAthenaKali -> RE: Finding a boy for My boy - any suggestions? (12/16/2013 3:54:55 PM)
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Now I can see why people who are new to the community get frightened away by so-called "forums" like this. I said "help welcome", not "pedantic and condescending bullying welcome." MistressDarkArt, MariaB, AthenaSurrenders (great name!), RochSub2009, and LadyPact, thank you for your kind and thoughtful replies (and safe sex reminders, which are always welcome). Sometimes it is nice to simply bounce an idea out and see what someone else has tried - particularly when you're feeling like you have run out of creative ideas! I have wonderful and deep connections in our local kink community, but for this particular scene, I would like to branch away from someone my boy and I already know, and the search both online and in-person is going slowly. My difficulty is in finding a submissive or switch man who is comfortable with another man pleasuring him - i.e., would enjoy and feel comfortable with it. Time will surely bring a partner who would enjoy this to my door, through this medium or my local community, and until then I will keep my eyes and ears open! Shame on you PeonForHer, ResidentSadist, RedMagic1, and FrostedFlake. You are the reason good, intelligent people leave the public kink world and retreat to inner circles. Your distrust and superiority are unwarranted and unwanted. I wish you each luck in finding a more civil and collaborative way to communicate here, and in your personal kink community and remember these wise words of wisdom - if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all.
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