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ORIGINAL: iworship10

Hey all, I'm in Kansas city and I'm pretty new to this. I have an extremely dirty, kinky mind and don't get to play as I'd like to. I hope to find someone here who's likeminded and we can be friends and share in our hobbies. I'm very dominant, but I'm equally submissive when it comes to ass worship. I absolutely LIVE for ass worship, being a slave in that capacity is the single most sexually pleasing thing for me. I'm to the point to where I'd even like to be in videos, if that's what it took.

So I ask, are there any females here who share this passion for ass eating? Can you recommend somewhere to go as far as sites or forums to find likeminded people with an ass worship obsession? How would I go about finding producers of said material to let them know that I'm motivated to shoot for them, as much and as often as they need. Travel is not an issue...

Anyway, this is seems like a great site, I'm just throwing this out there and maybe someone see's it :)

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And the forum regulars pounce.... Haha.

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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

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ORIGINAL: iworship10

Hey all, I'm in Kansas city and I'm pretty new to this. I have an extremely dirty, kinky mind and don't get to play as I'd like to. I hope to find someone here who's likeminded and we can be friends and share in our hobbies. I'm very dominant, but I'm equally submissive when it comes to ass worship. I absolutely LIVE for ass worship, being a slave in that capacity is the single most sexually pleasing thing for me. I'm to the point to where I'd even like to be in videos, if that's what it took.

So I ask, are there any females here who share this passion for ass eating? Can you recommend somewhere to go as far as sites or forums to find likeminded people with an ass worship obsession? How would I go about finding producers of said material to let them know that I'm motivated to shoot for them, as much and as often as they need. Travel is not an issue...

Anyway, this is seems like a great site, I'm just throwing this out there and maybe someone see's it :)

I used to date a woman who had a small clips4sale store. We met here, and she told me about the c4s store after a couple weeks, not sure whether I would be ok with it. All her work was solo, and she's closed the page now, but I didn't mind, not that that matters for the point I want to make, which is this.

Video producers get 5 billion offers a month by men who want to be video slaves. As you might imagine, almost all of these offers are not serious, or are serious up to the minute the guys ejaculates and realizes he would have to spend travel money to go to the video shoot. So it's common to require the man to put down a refundable deposit that he only gets back if he shows up, shows ID, and participates in what he promised to participate in.

I've seen at least one CM profile that claims to be run by a successful c4s site, looking for male video slaves. There might be more. There's also a regular male poster here who used to be a regular video slave for different companies, so there's some knowledge on the boards if the video is a particular kink you are into.

Lots of women like having their asses kissed. Even vanilla ones. I think it's one of the easiest fetishes in the world to introduce someone to. So frankly, your best bet might be to date vanilla, get her hot, then flip her over and go down on her ass while fingering her pussy. I'm not sure why you are looking in the fetish world for this, when it's so mainstream.

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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

Hello Iworkship.

Yes, you *can* learn from this. Many have that opportunity, very few have the guts to take it.

Your initial post was totally about you and your fetish. Real time people are far less fetish driven.

The forums here are not like the profile side at all. Think of it as a friendly bar with a wide variety of people in attendance. Would you come in as the new guy and talk about your ass worship fetish?

Of course not. I can tell by your second post you have the social skills to realize how wrong that would be.
Approaching woman here is just like approaching vanilla women in real time (unless you're willing to pay.)

You have to be polite and courteous and try hard not to lead with your dick or your fetish. Let people get to know you and see what a wonderful guy you are, and only bring up your kink when it's appropriate. If you're not sure when that is, check out the stickies in this ask a mistress section.

Welcome to the discussion side.

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ORIGINAL: LittleForDaddy31
My advice is to not be so rude to newbies. I get that there's a clique of like 30-35 of you who post here on a regular basis, but you do have trouble seeing beyond your tea cups here, and it should be called out.

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Well, the thing is, everybody here is kinky in one fashion or another, but girls is still girls.

The issue is this:

They know you want something off them.  They pretend you don't or shouldn't...it should be a surprise.

Leading with a kink, rather than a relational, whole person schtick is perceived as desperate,  and uncouth.

(But basically, nothing wrong with what you want, and your enthusiasm for it).

It is like strutting into a bar outta nowhere, at a table full of women, leaning WAY THE FUCK IN, grabbing up a boob, and whispering in her ear, howz about it......and you ain't got the other hand full of diamonds.

The approach as well as the imagined course of events you pursue there, is dime a dozen and they are hit on that venue perhaps every other millisecond.   They really are all for your end goals, believe me, they aren't all lesbians (and there is nothing wrong with that, you hit one of those by mistake, be polite, become buddies if they are otherwise interesting,  and move on....) so that they need men as well, and many think all that nasty shit we come up with (for the most part) is kinda cute. They can git their tits sucked off their chest, or a chapped pussy or a drooling wet ass about any old time they want to, and so that is of no real value to them.


So, a little polish a little poise, a little waltzing, a little talking, a little cuddling and kissing, a little attention.....you know the drill.

Now, many women here are gonna give me shit, prolly for putting it like that, but insofar as guy stuff goes, you go with that model, and leave the kink way at home for some time.......get to know, understand and relate to the human being in there with the badonka ass........and you will do okie dokie.

Any social and political faux pas you have made is not so onerous that it can't be quickly forgotten, with a little relaxed shooting the breeze from your side.

That's hella advice right there, even if it is not widely agreed as such.

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ORIGINAL: LittleForDaddy31
My advice is to not be so rude to newbies. I get that there's a clique of like 30-35 of you who post here on a regular basis, but you do have trouble seeing beyond your tea cups here, and it should be called out.

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ORIGINAL: LittleForDaddy31

My advice is to not be so rude to newbies. I get that there's a clique of like 30-35 of you who post here on a regular basis, but you do have trouble seeing beyond your tea cups here, and it should be called out.

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ORIGINAL: iworship10

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Well, the thing is, everybody here is kinky in one fashion or another, but girls is still girls.

The issue is this:

They know you want something off them.  They pretend you don't or shouldn't...it should be a surprise.

Leading with a kink, rather than a relational, whole person schtick is perceived as desperate,  and uncouth.

(But basically, nothing wrong with what you want, and your enthusiasm for it).

It is like strutting into a bar outta nowhere, at a table full of women, leaning WAY THE FUCK IN, grabbing up a boob, and whispering in her ear, howz about it......and you ain't got the other hand full of diamonds.

The approach as well as the imagined course of events you pursue there, is dime a dozen and they are hit on that venue perhaps every other millisecond.   They really are all for your end goals, believe me, they aren't all lesbians (and there is nothing wrong with that, you hit one of those by mistake, be polite, become buddies if they are otherwise interesting,  and move on....) so that they need men as well, and many think all that nasty shit we come up with (for the most part) is kinda cute. They can git their tits sucked off their chest, or a chapped pussy or a drooling wet ass about any old time they want to, and so that is of no real value to them.


So, a little polish a little poise, a little waltzing, a little talking, a little cuddling and kissing, a little attention.....you know the drill.

Now, many women here are gonna give me shit, prolly for putting it like that, but insofar as guy stuff goes, you go with that model, and leave the kink way at home for some time.......get to know, understand and relate to the human being in there with the badonka ass........and you will do okie dokie.

Any social and political faux pas you have made is not so onerous that it can't be quickly forgotten, with a little relaxed shooting the breeze from your side.

That's hella advice right there, even if it is not widely agreed as such.

Hella advice indeed, appreciate the knowledge from you guys, I'm harmless, just a little ignorant to this whole thing.

@LittleForDaddy No worries, glad I got set straight nice and early. But I think I'm gonna have to edit this or something to get it off the front page haha ima be looking like a douchebag wow