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LadyPact -> RE: are there any fantasies you've abandoned once you've tried them in real life? (12/23/2013 4:56:44 AM)
I've never been a rope person, so I don't even count that. I thought saline infusions were going to be cool as hell. Well, it is cool to look at the finished product. (Male.) Here's the problem. Unlike when you pump saline into a female's labia, where all of the nerve endings get additional sensitivity until the saline absorbs into the body, when you do the same to the male scrotum, he isn't worth a damn from a sexual standpoint. In other words, if you're the female top and this activity turns you on in any way, you'd better have another person to actually have sex with.

Spiritedsub2 -> RE: are there any fantasies you've abandoned once you've tried them in real life? (12/23/2013 10:32:11 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TallullahHk Oh man, there was this one time, I got married. Boy, did that suck. This one made me laugh out loud. The one I thought of was "love".

anniezz338 -> RE: are there any fantasies you've abandoned once you've tried them in real life? (12/23/2013 10:48:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TallullahHk Oh man, there was this one time, I got married. Boy, did that suck. lol this. It broke me of the habit.

littlewonder -> RE: are there any fantasies you've abandoned once you've tried them in real life? (12/23/2013 6:38:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kana Hell, maybe I should do it to Mouse, see if we get a different sort of response uumm...I'll save you the time. The response would be the same. [sm=hellno.gif]

littlewonder -> RE: are there any fantasies you've abandoned once you've tried them in real life? (12/23/2013 6:50:22 PM)
casual sex. Threesomes girls micromanagement contracts

DomDolf -> RE: are there any fantasies you've abandoned once you've tried them in real life? (12/25/2013 1:06:16 AM)
Edge play with a pistol back in 2002... I'm too safety conscious and all I could think about while doing it was "what if", which took the fun out of it for me. She seemed to enjoy it, but never again.

Takecharge13 -> RE: are there any fantasies you've abandoned once you've tried them in real life? (12/26/2013 2:35:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Missokyst Forced anal. In fantasy it is hot to think of having someone just flip me over and take it. But when the reality occurred, arriving at my BF's house and being taken without lube or mental energy made me hurt inside and emotionally shut off. It was his favorite thing to do and I ended things after about a month even though we were otherwise compatible. Forced anal can be fun, but surprised and dry is not the way to go. It is best to engage in butt plug training for awhile prior to acting out your fantasy. I had a sub who enjoyed anal submission including being surprised and taken immediately, but to do this you should go to the meeting with a butt plug already inserted, She said it made the trip more enjoyable and when she arrived she could be taken immediately.

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: are there any fantasies you've abandoned once you've tried them in real life? (12/26/2013 3:37:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact Well, it is cool to look at the finished product. (Male.) Here's the problem. Unlike when you pump saline into a female's labia, where all of the nerve endings get additional sensitivity until the saline absorbs into the body, when you do the same to the male scrotum, he isn't worth a damn from a sexual standpoint. In other words, if . This made me laugh out loud. M

FieryOpal -> RE: are there any fantasies you've abandoned once you've tried them in real life? (12/28/2013 7:01:15 AM)
A MFM threesome was a terribly disappointing experience. There's always going to be a partner you prefer over the other, so the other person becomes a third wheel. Every time I saw that other guy afterwards, all I could think was "pencil d!ck, the bug fvcker." quote: ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist quote: ORIGINAL: AlluraVogue I always thought that it would be terribly exciting to have sex in a movie theatre. I am sorry you didn't like your sex in the theater experience. It can be a lot of fun. I hope you give it a whirl again sometime. Not full intercourse, but in having my sub go down on me discreetly. At a cinema with VIP seating where there are huge, plush black leather recliners, I am SO tempted and can't even concentrate on watching movies up on the silver screen there anymore. Have only had foreplay at the movies in the past, and I kinda want to step it up a notch. Hopefully, this won't turn out to be a bust.

crazyml -> RE: are there any fantasies you've abandoned once you've tried them in real life? (12/28/2013 8:42:11 AM)
Sploshing. Wasn't really a "hawt fantasy" but it seemed like it mit be fun. Cold baked beans everywhere, not sexy.

MasterCaneman -> RE: are there any fantasies you've abandoned once you've tried them in real life? (12/28/2013 8:51:48 AM)
I don't know how I could forget, but the 'long-term confinement' thing I'd wanted to do with a willing playmate. Knew a girl who had to lay low for a few days (owed money to a room mate), we'd played together before, and she was up for it, at least to say she'd done it. We both had a weekend free so we gave it a whirl. It lasted about ten, maybe twelve hours before we both got bored, and spent the rest of the time playing video games and getting baked. Not a total bust, but not what either of us expected to happen.

Greta75 -> RE: are there any fantasies you've abandoned once you've tried them in real life? (12/29/2013 4:50:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MalcolmNathaniel If I may be so bold: it's probably poor technique. During the process of tying there should be rope slithering all over the subs body, constantly tickling. Of course it can get a little old if you use rope is just too fricking long that it takes hours to draw a single loop through. I've made that mistake in the past. :-( On the other hand, if all the knots are tied just right every movement you make will, um, jiggle in all the right places. It takes a little practice and a lot of reading to know precisely how to do that though. A rope dress takes some time to tie but if I put this one knot, in just the right place, you'd be in waves of bliss just to be sent to clean the floor. That's assuming that you like being restrained. I do like being restrained, but yea, i was hoping for those tingling feelings, waves of bliss, but I didn't get all that. The second guy I tried this with was even more experience though, because i can tell with the speed he does everything. My x used to do alot this intrisic bondage with his x-sub who loves it, so he was taught by her on how to tie it correctly where it's suppose to work wonders. I think maybe it's just not doing anything for me. Too bad I can't experience you tying me up to feel the difference since you're too far away.

Lynnxz -> RE: are there any fantasies you've abandoned once you've tried them in real life? (12/29/2013 7:05:10 AM)
Rape play didn't go so well. Through no fault of his, I panicked, and nearly kicked him out of the bedroom window.

kiwisub12 -> RE: are there any fantasies you've abandoned once you've tried them in real life? (12/29/2013 3:03:20 PM)
Girl on girl with me on the bottom. I enjoy looking at pictures of women and boobs and kink.com type porn, so thought that I was bi. My late dom organized another woman to play with me - and turns out that I am completely straight. Irrevocably in fact. She went down on me and I orgasmed, but it wasn't because it was a woman, it was because she was playing with nerve endings that actually preferred men. le sigh I still like looking at women, but know that that is all that is going to happen. that and cattle prods. My late Sir used on on me, I burst into tears immediately , and that was that! After he died, I sold that prod because I didn't want anyone to get any ideas. lol.

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