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SubSlutSlave11 -> Truth and lies (1/3/2014 10:30:54 AM)

This is a heads up as to NOT just take someones word, about anything. If they claim something, you SHOULD check to make sure that "something" is true (accurate, up-to-date, etc.). I won't call him out bc that's not my style, but I can't speak for anyone else. Aside from being let down (both sexually and mentally), Im hoping I don't have herpes type 1. I didn't have it, but now, unsure. That's how honest I am. I am done with journal, account in general, but I hope he sees what an asshole he is. Don't worry, you're name isn't worth my breath...



anniezz338 -> RE: Truth and lies (1/3/2014 12:30:53 PM)

I'm so sorry about your bad experience. Get tested right away and move forward using more precautions. Good luck to you.



SubSlutSlave11 -> RE: Truth and lies (1/3/2014 12:40:39 PM)

Awe, thank You! I am trying, but stuck in 'rage'. But You have made me smile, thanks :)



sexyred1 -> RE: Truth and lies (1/3/2014 12:46:28 PM)

Yeah, rage is a tough place to be stuck in. I get it.

Hope it works out ok.



FelineRanger -> RE: Truth and lies (1/3/2014 12:59:29 PM)

I'm so sorry to hear about what has happened to you. My biggest question for myself when I screw up or put myself into a bad situation is "What did I miss or ignore that I got here?" So I ask the question to you, what did you miss or ignore that got you here? Someone else may be able to learn from you and dodge that bullet.



SubSlutSlave11 -> RE: Truth and lies (1/3/2014 12:59:42 PM)

Thanks, sexyred1... I am glad that it isn't odd that I am stuck. Being stuck, sucks! Thanks, again. :)



sexyred1 -> RE: Truth and lies (1/3/2014 1:00:50 PM)

Rage takes time to get over and even when it does, it can flare up again. Be kind to yourself.



SubSlutSlave11 -> RE: Truth and lies (1/3/2014 1:06:00 PM)

Hello and Thank You, FelineRanger.... I messed up. I believed what he said, bc of he seemed like a stand-up guy, and that was where I went wrong. he said he was 'clear' but then tells me afterwards that he may have herpes!! WTF?!? (ha) I told him that piece of information would have been great to know up front. he is so blasé about it, that is what gets me. And he was really lucking in being able to fuck me, that's for sure (not my type). But he seemed one way, and turned out the other. It's all on me, I am just stuck in feeling angry.



SubSlutSlave11 -> RE: Truth and lies (1/3/2014 1:07:35 PM)

Thank You! I appreciate Your kindness and not judging. :) I hope You are treated like a princess. :)



sexyred1 -> RE: Truth and lies (1/3/2014 2:04:33 PM)

Jeez, he is such a dick. No wonder you are so mad, I would be too. But, it does not mean you got for sure unless you were already tested.

And thanks, I was not treated like a princess by my ex, so I am seeking someone who will.




SubSlutSlave11 -> RE: Truth and lies (1/3/2014 4:11:21 PM)

Awe, well his loss is Another's gain. I do hope you find what you're seeking. You seem cool, and if I were into chicks, I'd at least try. ;). Thanks, SexyR :)



kalikshama -> RE: Truth and lies (1/3/2014 8:11:09 PM)

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I believed what he said, bc of he seemed like a stand-up guy, and that was where I went wrong. he said he was 'clear' but then tells me afterwards that he may have herpes!! WTF?!? (ha) I told him that piece of information would have been great to know up front. he is so blasé about it, that is what gets me.


I get tested every few years but I don't think I've ever seen herpes included on the panel. So his latest test may well have been "clear."

However, the way he mentioned it to you, sounds like he knew him having it was a possibility.

Fingers crossed that you didn't contract it.



littlewonder -> RE: Truth and lies (1/3/2014 8:44:58 PM)

If you didn't use a condom, start using them. It's stupid not to and I would think in this day and age any person above the age of 12 would know this.

Maybe next time before having sex, take awhile to get to know the person for awhile. What's the rush, especially if you have had poor man judgment in the past?



EventideFortuna -> RE: Truth and lies (1/3/2014 8:49:16 PM)

littlewonder,

Herpes can be transmitted with condom use. In fact there are very few STDS that can actually be prevented by condom use, while use does bring down the risk it doesnt negate it is able to be transmitted



MAINEiacMISTRESS -> RE: Truth and lies (1/3/2014 8:57:43 PM)

Exactly. If it can grow on a penis, it can grow on anything nearby that the penis flops against, including the thighs, scrotum, and belly...not to mention the mouth of the cockgobbler who last serviced it. Genital herpes doesn't care where it grows.
YUCK!


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ORIGINAL: EventideFortuna

littlewonder,

Herpes can be transmitted with condom use. In fact there are very few STDS that can actually be prevented by condom use, while use does bring down the risk it doesnt negate it is able to be transmitted




tj444 -> RE: Truth and lies (1/3/2014 9:23:03 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SubSlutSlave11

This is a heads up as to NOT just take someones word, about anything. If they claim something, you SHOULD check to make sure that "something" is true (accurate, up-to-date, etc.). I won't call him out bc that's not my style, but I can't speak for anyone else. Aside from being let down (both sexually and mentally), Im hoping I don't have herpes type 1. I didn't have it, but now, unsure. That's how honest I am. I am done with journal, account in general, but I hope he sees what an asshole he is. Don't worry, you're name isn't worth my breath...

Quite a few people get cold sores.. (of course if it can be spread to the genitals under certain circumstances).. Stats say about 60% of the population has it, which means 6 out of 10 people you know/meet every day carry the virus even if they don't show signs of it.. (many of those contracted it as kids, btw)..

"herpes type 1 causes sores around the mouth and lips (sometimes called fever blisters or cold sores)"
http://www.webmd.com/genital-herpes/pain-management-herpes

"The HSV-1 strain, commonly known as oral herpes and/or cold sores is very common. In fact it is estimated that around 60% of those over the age of 12 have herpes simplex virus type 1. It is also thought many are infected as a child from kissing and sharing drinking glasses with relatives who are infected. It is a highly contagious virus that can be spread without even knowing you are infected. "

http://www.afterh.com/ContentPage_id_11.aspx



littlewonder -> RE: Truth and lies (1/3/2014 10:34:40 PM)


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ORIGINAL: EventideFortuna

littlewonder,

Herpes can be transmitted with condom use. In fact there are very few STDS that can actually be prevented by condom use, while use does bring down the risk it doesnt negate it is able to be transmitted


That may be true but I'm betting this is not what took place with the op. I get the feeling they said "Yeah, we're clear so let's have sex without the condoms". I mean come on, someone tells you something it MUST be true so don't bother taking precautions, especially if they are someone you just met. And I'm of the opinion that if someone did something like this, then they have no right to complain. Take responsibility for yourself.




EventideFortuna -> RE: Truth and lies (1/3/2014 10:43:41 PM)

So you can read minds? What are the lotto numbers for tomorrow?



SubSlutSlave11 -> RE: Truth and lies (1/4/2014 5:20:42 AM)

Thank You very much, Eventide... You rock! :)



SubSlutSlave11 -> RE: Truth and lies (1/4/2014 5:25:27 AM)

Ummm, I knew the guy for a year... We DID USE condoms, but of course, guys 'can't feel..blah' (as I said, knew him for a year). I have ZERO problem getting dates. I am bored of 'vanilla' and NEED to do what I need to do.

So, I don't mind you giving opinions, but don't assume anything... people may do the same about you. :)
quote:

ORIGINAL: littlewonder

If you didn't use a condom, start using them. It's stupid not to and I would think in this day and age any person above the age of 12 would know this.

Maybe next time before having sex, take awhile to get to know the person for awhile. What's the rush, especially if you have had poor man judgment in the past?





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