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New Mistress - 7/5/2006 1:59:54 AM

YourMistress2006

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I am new to the Mistress thing. Just wondering if anyone knew of any free sites to find subs? And is Paypal ok to ask for.. I need instructions here.. LOL

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RE: New Mistress - 7/5/2006 2:51:52 AM

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Welcome Mistress. You are in the right place. There are a number of wise and experienced and highly intelligent Dommes here that I'm sure would be happy to help You. You will also find a number of sub/slaves willing to enlist their services. Once again Welcome.

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RE: New Mistress - 7/5/2006 2:53:06 AM

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If you were planning on setting up as a Prodomme, then you need to do some serious homework as you would in setting up any other professional business. Have a business plan, know how much you can invest (wardrobe and toys are VERY expensive, as is setting up a dungeon space), and talk to a lawyer about your local laws regarding what the legalities are about prodomination, and to an accountant about how to handle paying taxes on what you make.

Talk to local prodommes to get a feel for the skill level out there (after all - you have to have skills worth something to charge), and consider working at a local established dungeon for a period to learn the business.

If you weren't planning on setting up as a prodomme - then you don't need a Paypal account. It's unethical to solicit tributes when you're not providing a tangible service in return.

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RE: New Mistress - 7/5/2006 4:48:54 AM

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OP's profile...

Hello, I am a 23 year old dominant female looking for anyone out there who is looking to serve the one true goddess. I do not expect to be contacted with anyone playing games, I am serious, and need to be treated as such. If this sounds good, get back to me. PAYPAL REQUIRED!

Yup...I think this pretty much says it all. You're gonna win the attention of a lot of fans with a profile like this.

(a side-note: I asked the other day on another thread about how, why when did certain words take on such contemptable meanings with so many... is this one example of that?)

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RE: New Mistress - 7/5/2006 5:19:52 AM

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OP's profile...

Hello, I am a 23 year old dominant female looking for anyone out there who is looking to serve the one true goddess. I do not expect to be contacted with anyone playing games, I am serious, and need to be treated as such. If this sounds good, get back to me. PAYPAL REQUIRED!

Yup...I think this pretty much says it all. You're gonna win the attention of a lot of fans with a profile like this.

(a side-note: I asked the other day on another thread about how, why when did certain words take on such contemptable meanings with so many... is this one example of that?)

Answer: YES

To the OP...Sorry, I don't know of any other free sites where you can find subs. Most of them require Paypal (CM should too for anyone using this site to run a business IMO). Isn't life grand?

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RE: New Mistress - 7/5/2006 5:24:29 AM

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if You find another place, let me know...i'd like to have a different place to find a Mistress.

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RE: New Mistress - 7/5/2006 5:28:03 AM

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ok, yes

But it still doesn't explain why the word would take on such a negative connotation because you would have to be a complete dolt to trust that anything like this as being true.

(my appologies to the OP for using you as an example but this very thing has been a hot topic as of late & your post just happen to fall right in line... no hard feelings, but that's the way it goes around here. You never know what you're gonna get when you start posting. Often these threads take on a completely different direction.)

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RE: New Mistress - 7/5/2006 5:57:53 AM

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Just a little tip....PayPal does not accept "adult" transactions. Just one negative note dropped to them and ZIPPO you have no more PayPal account.

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RE: New Mistress - 7/5/2006 9:13:11 AM

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And if you are going to set up as a pro domme, for gods sake stay away from H&R Block, Liberty Tax Service, or any of their ilk... you will get hammered come tax time.

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RE: New Mistress - 7/5/2006 9:26:50 AM

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This may sound like a silly question.... but I am going to ask anyway.... if you are a new Domme then what do you have to offer someone as a service? Maybe you should be paying them to let you practice and fine tune your skills? I did not mean to insult you but I would like to know the answer....

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RE: New Mistress - 7/5/2006 10:37:46 AM

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I've nothing against having a guy serve physically (by cooking, cleaning, doing the laundry) or financially (by doing things with/for you if he is able and a gentleman who takes care of his lady); but being so new, your profile screams "I've just discovered a new way to get money off of horny men."
Again nothing wrong (in my opinion) with anything happening between consenting adults, but I wonder if paypall is the first thing you ought to be learning about. Have you picked up many books, gotten dominant friends to talk to and learn from? M

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RE: New Mistress - 7/5/2006 10:44:52 AM

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I will point out to you that if you can fart on demand and can stand a chapped spincter and labias, and on top of that, don't wash your feet, the world is your oyster.........

That doesn't even take much MARKET RESEARCH to find that out.

If I was to turn pro- that would be my playspace.

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RE: New Mistress - 7/5/2006 10:52:36 AM

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I will point out to you that if you can fart on demand and can stand a chapped spincter and labias, and on top of that, don't wash your feet, the world is your oyster.........
Ronne

Ron, you're crazy!

LMAO, M

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RE: New Mistress - 7/5/2006 12:37:06 PM

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail
I will point out to you that if you can fart on demand and can stand a chapped spincter and labias, and on top of that, don't wash your feet, the world is your oyster.........
Ronne
Ron, you're crazy! LMAO, M

Yes, crazy! But you know, the man's also too accurate. lol

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RE: New Mistress - 7/5/2006 2:06:43 PM

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OMG..........laughing so hard I am crying here! I was getting bored with the thread as it moved down........feeling kinda snarky and sarcastic, agreeing with the whole scamming money off horny guys comment.......THEN.......Ron you are the BOMB!!!

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RE: New Mistress - 7/5/2006 2:08:59 PM

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Thing is, bois will be lining up drooling with their pathetic dicks in one hand and credit card in the other just because she is willing to engage them. Its kind of like Britney Spears and Jerry Springer. Just because I dont get it at all doesn't mean most of American isn't into it so maybe I'm wrong and everyone else is just fine. And how does somebody get to be the One true Goddess at 23? That is some Evelyn Woods speed path to Deity Enlightenment. People who truly believe in and understand FemDom usually don't toss around the term "The One True Goddess" lightly because of Whom that refers to. I've never seen anyone claim to be Her before. Charles Manson claimed to be Jesus, tho.

Just go watch some other sites for a while and see the same scripts over and over. Copy them. Redundant, predictable "force me to: dressuprestrainmespankmebendmeovermakemeyourbitchsissymaidsucksomeotherguyoffcallmenames **yawn** These guys who pay are just bottoms looking to be Topped, not submissives interested in worship, service or LTR. Half of them are already in relationships. That doesn't require skills. Anyone can do it, its simple. Its role playing and is not at all what this lifestyle used to be about. Back in the day this would be considered vanilla people fronting, playing weekend warrior games for a sexual thrill. This used to be about Trust, Respect and Realness. Now its about PayPal and men in panties jerking off all their lives.

Wonder how many 23 year olds knows what The Goddess represents. What FemDom really is. Bet they all know who Jerry Springer is.

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RE: New Mistress - 7/5/2006 2:22:19 PM

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For free articles and information try http://www.femsupreme.com/village/

Great for women and men.

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RE: New Mistress - 7/5/2006 3:30:49 PM

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I am new to the Mistress thing. Just wondering if anyone knew of any free sites to find subs? And is Paypal ok to ask for.. I need instructions here.. LOL

Are you serious? You are new to this and you're asking about PayPal? Who on earth is going to pay you for anything? If you have talked with any prodommes you would know that professional domination is not a way to get rich quick. You need to pay dues and learn what it is all about before going forward with a financial plan.

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RE: New Mistress - 7/5/2006 9:05:38 PM

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Wayyyy too much TV being watched here.

And too many porno sites.

Geeze this place is becomming worse by the day. But its like a bad soap opera, I cant turn it off.
HERE COMES THE WITCH AND MIDGET!

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RE: New Mistress - 7/5/2006 9:24:54 PM

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Funny, in the 11 years now that I have been in the lifestyle... Ive never been drawn to set up paypal account for it...
If your looking to be part of the Domme thing (that still looks funny when I type it) then maybe you should try and get some experience and make sure its something you actually ENJOY before you see how much you can make off it.

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