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ORIGINAL: Greta75

Wow!
Although they are asking alot, but I am sure they can find someone who would be willing to do some of that, if they keep looking.
I think no matter how crazy the kink is, there is always someone out there that would share the same and be willing to do it. But that is just trying to spot a needle in the haystack, so it takes continuous looking and patience.
Anyway, are sub males always so demanding and whiny? I prefer to take care of a real baby than a full grown man who acts like one.

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I do indulge in findom so they were potential fin subs but no they weren't paying me for the coffee meet or to wear the shoes. And yes I do find a lot of males subs try to top from the bottom or have a very specific idea of how a Domme should act but that's just my experience. The first one I spoke of with the heels was unbelievably pushy too.

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Anyone for nine inch nails then? 

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ORIGINAL: ThePrincessKali

I'm not sure if there's a full moon or something but I think a lot of people are forgetting the fact that porn isn't real life. In the past day I've had a handful of potential subs get very angry because I explained to them that there fantasies were not realistic. One wanted to buy me a pair of heels and I sent him over to my wishlist. Now I'm one for a pretty hair heel, I usually rock a 5-6 incher. And he was mad because the heels I had "weren't high enough." He then sent me a link to a pair of nine inch heels. I told him unfortunately I had no use for those as they weren't practical. He explained he wanted me to wear them out one night and send him photos of me wearing them. I told him there was no way I was going to maneuver my way around a crowded nightclub in nine inch heels and he got all mad ranting how "girls in videos wear them all the time." Next I had another potential submissive I was supposed to meet for coffee at a local mall try to completely change the terms of our meet. He now wanted me to parade him around the mall with a collar and leash while he was shirtless on his hands and knees. I'm pretty sure mall security would have me thrown out 30 seconds in. His reasoning? He had "seen it on a video and wanted to try it." Anyone else get frustrated by the amount of people who completely unrealistic and don't understand the difference between porn and real life?

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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

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I do indulge in findom so they were potential fin subs but no they weren't paying me for the coffee meet or to wear the shoes. And yes I do find a lot of males subs try to top from the bottom or have a very specific idea of how a Domme should act but that's just my experience. The first one I spoke of with the heels was unbelievably pushy too.

When a customer intends to pay for a service, he gets to negotiate for what he wants or not buy the service.

For example, I like really deep massages. I specify this upfront. If the masseuse doesn't deliver, I give her less of a tip than I normally would and don't go back.

Now, if my man were to give me a crappy massage, I'd kiss him and say "Thank you, honey."

What percentage of your clients are actually interested in submission, rather than a fetish delivery service?

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Anyone for nine inch nails then? 

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ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie

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ORIGINAL: ThePrincessKali

Anyone else get frustrated by the amount of people who completely unrealistic and don't understand the difference between porn and real life?

Not me.

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Anyone for nine inch nails then? 

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ORIGINAL: ThePrincessKali

I'm not sure if there's a full moon or something but I think a lot of people are forgetting the fact that porn isn't real life. In the past day I've had a handful of potential subs get very angry because I explained to them that there fantasies were not realistic. One wanted to buy me a pair of heels and I sent him over to my wishlist. Now I'm one for a pretty hair heel, I usually rock a 5-6 incher. And he was mad because the heels I had "weren't high enough." He then sent me a link to a pair of nine inch heels. I told him unfortunately I had no use for those as they weren't practical. He explained he wanted me to wear them out one night and send him photos of me wearing them. I told him there was no way I was going to maneuver my way around a crowded nightclub in nine inch heels and he got all mad ranting how "girls in videos wear them all the time." Next I had another potential submissive I was supposed to meet for coffee at a local mall try to completely change the terms of our meet. He now wanted me to parade him around the mall with a collar and leash while he was shirtless on his hands and knees. I'm pretty sure mall security would have me thrown out 30 seconds in. His reasoning? He had "seen it on a video and wanted to try it." Anyone else get frustrated by the amount of people who completely unrealistic and don't understand the difference between porn and real life?

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ORIGINAL: EdBowie

Isn't that what Folsom Street Fair etc. is for?

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: EdBowie

Isn't that what Folsom Street Fair etc. is for?

Have you been there? Have you walked among the streets?

Have you seen what they do? What the organizers do????

I'll bet that they raise more money for AIDS awareness than some keyboard commandos do in a lifetime.

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Porn isn't real life.