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ThePrincessKali -> Homework slave? (1/17/2014 3:26:55 PM)
I have been active in the online BDSM community for a couple years and have never encountered anyone that wanted to be a " homework slave" until very recently. And all of a sudden I've been bombarded with requests from potential subs asking if they can be a homeowner slave for me. I find it odd because I'm not a student. I finished school a few years ago. I make no mention of being a student in my page. If anyone participates in it I would be curious about how it works. When I was I school my Professors would of known if I handed in a paper or project that wasn't my own because it would have a completely different tone. And what about being a homework slave is exciting? Thanks.

Ilyrium -> RE: Homework slave? (1/17/2014 7:16:18 PM)
Is it a joke?

ResidentSadist -> RE: Homework slave? (1/17/2014 8:43:18 PM)
You said they want to do your homework and then be a homeowner for you. Does the slave want you to buy them a house for doing your homework? Seems pricey if you ask me.

ThePrincessKali -> RE: Homework slave? (1/18/2014 5:10:23 AM)
Ah auto correct lol it was supposed to be "homework slave" both times.

MasterCaneman -> RE: Homework slave? (1/18/2014 8:02:37 AM)
I see profiles like that every once in a while when I lurk the other side. Basically, it's a twist on the findomme thing, only instead of clothes or shoes, the girls want subs to do their homework for them. Very specific in what's needed, too, if I recall correctly. I always wondered what would happen if they get a taker, only to discover it's the instructor who gave out the assignment in the first place. Awkward!

graceadieu -> RE: Homework slave? (1/19/2014 9:35:56 AM)
I'm guessing it's basically findomme/pro-domme for people (college students or recent graduates) who don't have any money. The spring college semester is starting soon, so these guys are probably hoping some dommes out there are students who are about to start back up.

Apocalypso -> RE: Homework slave? (1/19/2014 10:40:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ThePrincessKali When I was I school my Professors would of known if I handed in a paper or project that wasn't my own because it would have a completely different tone. On top of which, unless you somehow manage to get a homework slave who has/is studying at least within the same school (and preferably the same specific subject), there's no way they'll know what they're talking about in an essay. At best, this is going to lead to handing in substandard work. At worst, getting hit with a plagiarism charge. As to why it's coming up more at the moment, a lot of HE institutions are about to go into exams.

johnn02003 -> RE: Homework slave? (1/19/2014 3:27:14 PM)
Some subs like to be set homework, real academic or ones the Domme has created for the purpose of tasking . Until recently there was a site called homework slavery which largely consisted of two types of task setter: findoms and girls (plus some guys) who just wanted their homework done. It was pretty active but closed when ( I presume) the owner didn't continue to pay the monthly upkeep on the site (the group was offered out for about 8 dollars a month).

RedMagic1 -> RE: Homework slave? (1/20/2014 5:34:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: graceadieu I'm guessing it's basically findomme/pro-domme for people (college students or recent graduates) who don't have any money. That's my assessment too. Homework slave is one of a few fetishes that seem to be rising because of the growth of online BDSM. Another example is Forced Intox, which was only a marginalized fetish (still is I suppose) until it began to be popular as a tool of online findom.

FriendlyMuppet -> RE: Homework slave? (1/20/2014 9:47:00 PM)
I'm a college professor and some years back while I was new to teaching at a university, I remember one of my students discovering my lifestyle and then getting the idea that it might be fun to force me into giving her good grades and essentially become her homework slave. While I'm almost always submissive in most relationships with women, this was probably the one time I halted all attempts to move this forward as I realized that it was completely inappropriate. When I informed her of this, she actually got all upset and tried to escalate it further to my administration (which I had already informed of before I ever responded to her initial email she had sent, basically covering my behind beforehand). It was an awful situation that didn't get any better, and if my administration hadn't been as open minded as they were, it probably could have derailed my career. I mention this because there are people out there who treat this sort of activity as some kind of fantasy, and over the years I've actually read a lot of "fantasies" of this where young girls blackmail their professors and then it's treated as some huge dominating thing (the English kind of go full steam on this fantasy and some of their Victoria and Domina magazines over the years used to make a real bdsm fantasy out of this concept). It's why I mention it because for a lot of people it's still a huge fantasy, but it should be pointed out that the fantasy is basically very nonconsentual, yet it still shows up and guys keep asking about it, as if it should be okay because it gets them sexually excited. It's part of why I no longer associate my regular identity with my bdsm identity any more. For those who already know me as a lifestyle submissive, I am fine with them knowing all about me, but they're usually not the kind of crowd that buys into this sort of blackmail thing. What I've discovered is that this usually comes from people who are outsiders of the lifestyle, sort of peeking in, yet convinced because they saw it on the Internet, they're somehow experts on it, kind of like the women on the profile side of these boards who purport to be financial doms, yet most people looking at their profiles can tell they have absolutely no experience being dominants.

MalcolmNathaniel -> RE: Homework slave? (1/20/2014 11:59:46 PM)
It seems backwards to me. Isn't the Dom/me supposed to teach the submissive? The submissive doing homework while the dom/me remains ignorant seems.....opposite.

FriendlyMuppet -> RE: Homework slave? (1/21/2014 8:20:00 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MalcolmNathaniel It seems backwards to me. Isn't the Dom/me supposed to teach the submissive? The submissive doing homework while the dom/me remains ignorant seems.....opposite. It's a service fantasy that fulfills an immediate need/desire. The longer term effects are never taken into consideration, which is why it has mainly existed as femdom porn and something you see being demanded by those types of financial dommes who basically have no experience at actually being dominants. (Note: This isn't a criticism of financial dominants, as there are those who do cater to that fantasy; there are also a lot of them who are basically clueless wannabe dominants who think it's a way to make quick cash and really aren't into the lifestyle in any way).

xxblushesxx -> RE: Homework slave? (1/21/2014 10:34:57 AM)
This one is huge. My younger characters are often asked to act out something along this line. (or the opposite! lol) It is a shame when people get fantasy confused with reality and ruin/attempt to ruin lives in the process. I'm glad things worked out for you. quote: ORIGINAL: FriendlyMuppet I'm a college professor and some years back while I was new to teaching at a university, I remember one of my students discovering my lifestyle and then getting the idea that it might be fun to force me into giving her good grades and essentially become her homework slave. While I'm almost always submissive in most relationships with women, this was probably the one time I halted all attempts to move this forward as I realized that it was completely inappropriate. When I informed her of this, she actually got all upset and tried to escalate it further to my administration (which I had already informed of before I ever responded to her initial email she had sent, basically covering my behind beforehand). It was an awful situation that didn't get any better, and if my administration hadn't been as open minded as they were, it probably could have derailed my career. I mention this because there are people out there who treat this sort of activity as some kind of fantasy, and over the years I've actually read a lot of "fantasies" of this where young girls blackmail their professors and then it's treated as some huge dominating thing (the English kind of go full steam on this fantasy and some of their Victoria and Domina magazines over the years used to make a real bdsm fantasy out of this concept). It's why I mention it because for a lot of people it's still a huge fantasy, but it should be pointed out that the fantasy is basically very nonconsentual, yet it still shows up and guys keep asking about it, as if it should be okay because it gets them sexually excited. It's part of why I no longer associate my regular identity with my bdsm identity any more. For those who already know me as a lifestyle submissive, I am fine with them knowing all about me, but they're usually not the kind of crowd that buys into this sort of blackmail thing. What I've discovered is that this usually comes from people who are outsiders of the lifestyle, sort of peeking in, yet convinced because they saw it on the Internet, they're somehow experts on it, kind of like the women on the profile side of these boards who purport to be financial doms, yet most people looking at their profiles can tell they have absolutely no experience being dominants.

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