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Ollieboomboom -> What's in your slave/submissive/service toy bag? (1/25/2014 11:59:46 AM)
A friend asked me what I had in my slave toy bag. I sent her the list and am sharing here. What's in your service toy bag Pleasure toy bag • Mitts you use usually for the car to buff it (various kinds) • 3 prong massager preferably wood • Manicure set- complete with extra large clippers for toenails • Q-tips • 100% cotton balls. • Shoe shine brush and polish • Scissors to cut threads off his clothes • Lint brush • Warming oil • Body brush • Baby powder Green Mint Alcohol/Peroxide/Regular Alcohol • Hair brush- if he has hair that can be brushed/comb • Moustache brush • Back scratcher- short and long or hand scratchers. • Ear plugs • Blindfold (ear plugs and blindfold are used for sensory deprivation) • Massage cream • Body lotion like Nivea- good quality • Baby scented or Lavender scented Vaseline. • Hand held rocket vibrator ( To be used on perineum-varying strengths) • Hitachi massager( good for whole body and for you ) • Asian wash towel – to bathe him or when you shower him- loofahs lightly • Body washes to bathe/shower him- I like Nivea as they have sensitive skin to refreshing scents. • Extra Large heavy thick towels to dry him. • Flameless candles ( or the real thing if you like) • Peppermint/Lavender/Cedar/Eucalyptus oil. For Baths and massaging oil. (Read up on the oils) • Soft hand ties ( gently restrain of hands with sensory deprivation) • Soft meditative music- no words- just primal music. • Really soft blanket used only for this purpose to wrap him in afterwards. Fire on the Mountain Male Genital Massage (DVD)and Fire In The Valley: Female Genital Massage--Good DVDs to study along with any other good Massage DVD dovie

kalikshama -> RE: What's in your slave/submissive/service toy bag? (1/25/2014 2:13:38 PM)
There is only one thing in my service toy bag - my desire to please [;)]

Ollieboomboom -> RE: What's in your slave/submissive/service toy bag? (1/25/2014 6:24:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kalikshama There is only one thing in my service toy bag - my desire to please [;)] Awesome!!

Blueswordsman -> RE: What's in your slave/submissive/service toy bag? (1/26/2014 1:53:43 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Ollieboomboom A friend asked me what I had in my slave toy bag. I sent her the list and am sharing here. What's in your service toy bag Pleasure toy bag • Mitts you use usually for the car to buff it (various kinds) • 3 prong massager preferably wood • Manicure set- complete with extra large clippers for toenails • Q-tips • 100% cotton balls. • Shoe shine brush and polish • Scissors to cut threads off his clothes • Lint brush • Warming oil • Body brush • Baby powder Green Mint Alcohol/Peroxide/Regular Alcohol • Hair brush- if he has hair that can be brushed/comb • Moustache brush • Back scratcher- short and long or hand scratchers. • Ear plugs • Blindfold (ear plugs and blindfold are used for sensory deprivation) • Massage cream • Body lotion like Nivea- good quality • Baby scented or Lavender scented Vaseline. • Hand held rocket vibrator ( To be used on perineum-varying strengths) • Hitachi massager( good for whole body and for you ) • Asian wash towel – to bathe him or when you shower him- loofahs lightly • Body washes to bathe/shower him- I like Nivea as they have sensitive skin to refreshing scents. • Extra Large heavy thick towels to dry him. • Flameless candles ( or the real thing if you like) • Peppermint/Lavender/Cedar/Eucalyptus oil. For Baths and massaging oil. (Read up on the oils) • Soft hand ties ( gently restrain of hands with sensory deprivation) • Soft meditative music- no words- just primal music. • Really soft blanket used only for this purpose to wrap him in afterwards. Fire on the Mountain Male Genital Massage (DVD)and Fire In The Valley: Female Genital Massage--Good DVDs to study along with any other good Massage DVD dovie This is my kit Don't just look at the blade

Blueswordsman -> RE: What's in your slave/submissive/service toy bag? (1/26/2014 1:56:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Blueswordsman quote: ORIGINAL: Ollieboomboom A friend asked me what I had in my slave toy bag. I sent her the list and am sharing here. What's in your service toy bag Pleasure toy bag • Mitts you use usually for the car to buff it (various kinds) • 3 prong massager preferably wood • Manicure set- complete with extra large clippers for toenails • Q-tips • 100% cotton balls. • Shoe shine brush and polish • Scissors to cut threads off his clothes • Lint brush • Warming oil • Body brush • Baby powder Green Mint Alcohol/Peroxide/Regular Alcohol • Hair brush- if he has hair that can be brushed/comb • Moustache brush • Back scratcher- short and long or hand scratchers. • Ear plugs • Blindfold (ear plugs and blindfold are used for sensory deprivation) • Massage cream • Body lotion like Nivea- good quality • Baby scented or Lavender scented Vaseline. • Hand held rocket vibrator ( To be used on perineum-varying strengths) • Hitachi massager( good for whole body and for you ) • Asian wash towel – to bathe him or when you shower him- loofahs lightly • Body washes to bathe/shower him- I like Nivea as they have sensitive skin to refreshing scents. • Extra Large heavy thick towels to dry him. • Flameless candles ( or the real thing if you like) • Peppermint/Lavender/Cedar/Eucalyptus oil. For Baths and massaging oil. (Read up on the oils) • Soft hand ties ( gently restrain of hands with sensory deprivation) • Soft meditative music- no words- just primal music. • Really soft blanket used only for this purpose to wrap him in afterwards. Fire on the Mountain Male Genital Massage (DVD)and Fire In The Valley: Female Genital Massage--Good DVDs to study along with any other good Massage DVD dovie This is my kit Don't just look at the blade

Kana -> RE: What's in your slave/submissive/service toy bag? (1/26/2014 5:38:32 AM)
I'm not gonna outline everything in the bags (That's right-plural) but Mouse but a gimp hood for Xmas. It's all sorts of awesome

Ollieboomboom -> RE: What's in your slave/submissive/service toy bag? (1/26/2014 10:40:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Blueswordsman A blade is hot....spider knife maybe- knife play? HOT!! quote: ORIGINAL: Blueswordsman ] This is my kit Don't just look at the blade [/color][/font] [/size]

Ollieboomboom -> RE: What's in your slave/submissive/service toy bag? (1/26/2014 10:42:29 AM)
Bags are wonderful...it's the cleaning of all the items that I don't like....however, it has to be done. quote: ORIGINAL: Kana I'm not gonna outline everything in the bags (That's right-plural) but Mouse but a gimp hood for Xmas. It's all sorts of awesome

DesFIP -> RE: What's in your slave/submissive/service toy bag? (1/26/2014 10:54:38 AM)
Gimp hoods are a no go here. I don't mind the eyes and mouth covered but not letting me breathe is something else. They never have sufficient opening for the nostrils. Since we live together, the bags aren't mine or his. But lots of stuff I'm not supposed to touch. He doesn't think I can put the ropes away untangled. Considering they tangle when he does it, I'm not sure I could do worse. However this rule really dates from me organizing the bag for him when all the stuff I dislike somehow got into the pocket he never remembers about. I didn't hide anything. It's not my fault if he forgets that pocket on the back of the bag.

sexyred1 -> RE: What's in your slave/submissive/service toy bag? (1/26/2014 11:01:24 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kana I'm not gonna outline everything in the bags (That's right-plural) but Mouse but a gimp hood for Xmas. It's all sorts of awesome I was with a guy years ago who I had great fun with. One day he pulled out a gimp hood from the toy bag. I never said no before, but I did then. I broke up with him because that hood freaked me out so badly.

Ollieboomboom -> RE: What's in your slave/submissive/service toy bag? (1/26/2014 11:12:33 AM)
LOL Des, did he ever realize you were being so naughty?... and I agree on the gimp hood... hard limit. quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP Gimp hoods are a no go here. I don't mind the eyes and mouth covered but not letting me breathe is something else. They never have sufficient opening for the nostrils. Since we live together, the bags aren't mine or his. But lots of stuff I'm not supposed to touch. He doesn't think I can put the ropes away untangled. Considering they tangle when he does it, I'm not sure I could do worse. However this rule really dates from me organizing the bag for him when all the stuff I dislike somehow got into the pocket he never remembers about. I didn't hide anything. It's not my fault if he forgets that pocket on the back of the bag.

DesFIP -> RE: What's in your slave/submissive/service toy bag? (1/26/2014 11:22:25 AM)
When he asked I explained that all the wooden spoons and stingy paddles were in that pocket together. Neatly organized by how they felt. He hadn't told me how he wanted them organized. And he laughed when I said I didn't hide anything, I just rearranged them. He did however make a point of pulling them out first next time. I like thud, not sting. So I put the heavy thuddy hairbrush on top. Just as a reminder to use it.

MsMJAY -> RE: What's in your slave/submissive/service toy bag? (1/26/2014 11:42:14 AM)
Thank you for posting this and I hope you don't mind if I steal this list. Most of the male submissives I meet have no toy bag and no toys. I am going take a cue from you and make a list of things I would expect a serious submissive to have in his own bag/ "Service Bag." Then I am going to post that list in my journal. This is a great topic and I hope that more people who identify as submissive will contribute their lists as well.

Kana -> RE: What's in your slave/submissive/service toy bag? (1/26/2014 1:44:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Ollieboomboom Bags are wonderful...it's the cleaning of all the items that I don't like....however, it has to be done. quote: ORIGINAL: Kana I'm not gonna outline everything in the bags (That's right-plural) but Mouse but a gimp hood for Xmas. It's all sorts of awesome Uuuggghh-you have no idea.I was looking at the hodge-podge mess that is our bag and decided on the spot we needed a new one to separate the schtuff in. As for Gimp Hoods-I understand that they're not for all,but I love em (They are so dehumanizing-turn a gal into a piece of anonymous faceless fuck meat instantly. Mouse likes em because she finds sensory deprivation relaxing-she drops right into subspace mucho fast in hoods

littlewonder -> RE: What's in your slave/submissive/service toy bag? (1/26/2014 1:54:17 PM)
Oh yeah, I think the hood is probably the best buy for a toy I ever did. [;)] And yeah, the bag was a complete mess but I've been organizing it since then and I'm looking for a dresser or drawers or something to organize it in since we really don't go out to play all that much these days. If we do go out we can just throw the stuff we want in the bag pretty quickly.

orgasmdenial12 -> RE: What's in your slave/submissive/service toy bag? (1/26/2014 1:56:19 PM)
I love my hood, I was wearing it last night and got many compliments on it :-) My toy bag (and by toybag I mean - my flat) includes: My cage My spanking bench My bondage frame Tohiti Cane Manilla Cane - stripped Manilla Cane - Unstripped Tiger Cane Dragon Cane Senior kooboo cane Junior kooboo Cane Red riding cropy Purple riding crop Sjambok Leather strap Long handled martinet Short handle martinet Birch - authentic Birch - faux PVC Paddle Leather & Suede paddle Thick tawse Thin tawse Bullwhip Chain leash Nylon leash Bit gag Panel gag Penis gag Cock gag with breathing tube Dental gag Loop thing (dunno what else to call it - thick loop of material with a handle that hurts like a mofo) Nylon Collar Studded Collar Standard Collar Posture Collar Controller hood with panel gag, cock gag and ring gag Silver Clover Clamps Black clover clamps Bell nipple clamps Claw nipple clamps Magnetic nipple clamps in small, medium and large Bondage Tape Head harness anal hook Extendable spreader bar 8 keyring clips 6 keyed alike padlocks Wrist Cuffs Tiger Balm red Tiger Balm white Chinese balm Eucalyptus balm Chill Balm Hot (spicy balm) Latex gloves Medium diogol plug Large diogol plug Dildo Assorted washing pegs Pinwheel Knife - small Knife - large Glass plug

Kana -> RE: What's in your slave/submissive/service toy bag? (1/26/2014 2:46:23 PM)
The irony here is that nowadays we have so much stuff I have trouble keeping track of it all,yet usually when we play it's just a few things.When I was younger I liked to use every toy in the bag (It felt almost like a challenge). Now I pick a few that fit my mood and go to town with those. I think Mouse has also forgotten that I have a tube full of striking implements at home in addition to all our other gear

littlewonder -> RE: What's in your slave/submissive/service toy bag? (1/26/2014 4:01:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kana The irony here is that nowadays we have so much stuff I have trouble keeping track of it all,yet usually when we play it's just a few things.When I was younger I liked to use every toy in the bag (It felt almost like a challenge). Now I pick a few that fit my mood and go to town with those. I think Mouse has also forgotten that I have a tube full of striking implements at home in addition to all our other gear I have selective memory. [8D]

Ollieboomboom -> RE: What's in your slave/submissive/service toy bag? (1/26/2014 4:38:44 PM)
For my service bag I'll add in things to take with etc...eg, bootblacking. I have some toys of my own, but I'm usually the one cleaning the main toy bag. Hmmm, haven't seen many classes that teach that anymore. Back to the Hoods--I like the Ostrich hood...it's a riot really. Something about the gimp hood causes me to panic. Yet, I'm fine in a coffin or a box. Here's the ostrich hood. It's used for sleeping they say. [image]local://upfiles/1752508/B1B7EA3EC94D4B1E8E752F3D9445A590.jpg[/image]

Ollieboomboom -> RE: What's in your slave/submissive/service toy bag? (1/26/2014 4:40:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: orgasmdenial12 I love my hood, I was wearing it last night and got many compliments on it :-) My toy bag (and by toybag I mean - my flat) includes: My cage My spanking bench My bondage frame Tohiti Cane Manilla Cane - stripped Manilla Cane - Unstripped Tiger Cane Dragon Cane Senior kooboo cane Junior kooboo Cane Red riding cropy Purple riding crop Sjambok Leather strap Long handled martinet Short handle martinet Birch - authentic Birch - faux PVC Paddle Leather & Suede paddle Thick tawse Thin tawse Bullwhip Chain leash Nylon leash Bit gag Panel gag Penis gag Cock gag with breathing tube Dental gag Loop thing (dunno what else to call it - thick loop of material with a handle that hurts like a mofo) Nylon Collar Studded Collar Standard Collar Posture Collar Controller hood with panel gag, cock gag and ring gag Silver Clover Clamps Black clover clamps Bell nipple clamps Claw nipple clamps Magnetic nipple clamps in small, medium and large Bondage Tape Head harness anal hook Extendable spreader bar 8 keyring clips 6 keyed alike padlocks Wrist Cuffs Tiger Balm red Tiger Balm white Chinese balm Eucalyptus balm Chill Balm Hot (spicy balm) Latex gloves Medium diogol plug Large diogol plug Dildo Assorted washing pegs Pinwheel Knife - small Knife - large Glass plug ~breathing becoming rapid-mouth starting to dry out- oh what sweet triggers and memories~ Thanks for sharing. whew lawd....err, YUM.

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