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samdarella -> RE: What is the most important thing a Master can give you? (1/27/2014 3:13:29 AM)
Patience rates up there pretty high. But that's just me.

TieMeInKnottss -> RE: What is the most important thing a Master can give you? (1/27/2014 3:34:41 AM)
Security. I am brave enough to try almost anything if I know that I have a safe place to land if I fail.

Runningkc -> RE: What is the most important thing a Master can give you? (1/27/2014 4:53:43 AM)
Fulfillment. To achieve that, so many of the other things listed (and things not listed) must be reached.

Greta75 -> RE: What is the most important thing a Master can give you? (1/27/2014 4:56:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kana You're missing the words,"Monster cock"...cuz ya know,we all are cognizant of the minor fact that size does really does matter :-) Not too Monstrous! Some women do not like to feel impaled!

Kana -> RE: What is the most important thing a Master can give you? (1/27/2014 2:13:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Greta75 quote: ORIGINAL: Kana You're missing the words,"Monster cock"...cuz ya know,we all are cognizant of the minor fact that size does really does matter :-) Not too Monstrous! Some women do not like to feel impaled! They only say that pre-experience!

directiveerror -> RE: What is the most important thing a Master can give you? (1/27/2014 2:19:46 PM)
well post first time i was even more sure i didnt like being impaled..... it took a few months for me to stop just thinking "fricken owww this hurts more than a flippen tazer"

littleone35 -> RE: What is the most important thing a Master can give you? (1/29/2014 3:40:21 PM)
I would have to say love also. That is what i need the most. Matt's littleone

sexyred1 -> RE: What is the most important thing a Master can give you? (1/29/2014 4:02:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Greta75 quote: ORIGINAL: Kana You're missing the words,"Monster cock"...cuz ya know,we all are cognizant of the minor fact that size does really does matter :-) Not too Monstrous! Some women do not like to feel impaled! Oh, impaled is good, very good!

experiment2 -> RE: What is the most important thing a Master can give you? (1/29/2014 5:01:50 PM)
i would have to say the most important aspects are their attention and control. it clearly shows an interest in you and solidifies your position as a sub/slave.

KayKayKathy -> RE: What is the most important thing a Master can give you? (2/4/2014 3:38:25 PM)
stability I guess. Though it's hard to just name 1 thing.

Darkhaven80 -> RE: What is the most important thing a Master can give you? (2/10/2014 7:31:57 PM)
A lot of those words look satisfying, but I guess I'd pick stability. I don't like people who play with emotions and leave the person a wreck. I like to know that the person is dependable and stable with their emotions - they say what they mean, what they want, they're consistent, they don't play games, they're not wishy washy and eager to leave whenever there's a normal stumble in the relationship. They don't give up too easily, they'll have patience, work together in life for the benefit of the relationship. Not easy to find,I just came out of a 5 1/2 year relationship and it doesn't feel like there was enough stability for me at the end of it. It wasn't a strict D/s relationship at all times, but his emotional unavailability off and on over the years was a big issue.

crazyml -> RE: What is the most important thing a Master can give you? (2/11/2014 3:03:05 AM)
Yep, this is what I was coming round to thinking... quote: ORIGINAL: Runningkc Fulfillment. To achieve that, so many of the other things listed (and things not listed) must be reached. Although Kana was right about the monster cock thing too.

kiwisub12 -> RE: What is the most important thing a Master can give you? (2/11/2014 3:32:46 AM)
For me it would be companionship - because I can get sex and bdsm from a lot of people without feeling as if they would be there for me if I needed them. Companionship is for me a state of comfort with the person I'm with that makes life worth living.

lilcracker -> RE: What is the most important thing a Master can give you? (2/11/2014 3:53:16 AM)
inspiration

RareByrd -> RE: What is the most important thing a Master can give you? (2/11/2014 7:10:11 PM)
Just one word, sheesh. Alright. Other: Holding. I want to feel held. I really relate to the scene in the Secretary where the female protagonist talks about having felt "held" by her Dom, such that even when she was not with him but out in the world alone she felt he was still there with her and allowed her/helped her to do what she needed to do. I've had this feeling--fleetingly, in a relationship that didn't work out--and I want to feel it again. I'm going to be annoying and insist on adding Love, Understanding, Dependability, Stability and Passion though, too, so nyah!!

slavekate80 -> RE: What is the most important thing a Master can give you? (2/11/2014 10:55:03 PM)
Certainty. I like to know that someone will tell me, very clearly, what he likes and what he wants me to do, so I don't have to guess. If a relationship lasts for a long time, then eventually I'll know him so well that it doesn't always need spelled out, and of course there are nonverbal cues even early on (which get more reliable as time goes on). But I am uncomfortable when I don't know what he wants from me and don't know where I stand with him.

JeffBC -> RE: What is the most important thing a Master can give you? (2/13/2014 9:29:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pg4g For anyone in a LTR relationship like me, the answer is probably to be one of two things: Love, or themselves. That... or what OsideGirl said... same same.

WCossey -> RE: What is the most important thing a Master can give you? (2/13/2014 9:45:30 PM)
Keep in mind I am a Master but from what Many here have said I think I have come up with an answer that will hopefully settle this for everyone. Other - Everything. If I am wrong please tell me, as far as I am aware you would have to have several of your list linked to create anything that could even hope to be called a relationship of any kind. So I think everything would be a good answer.

Nakhla -> RE: What is the most important thing a Master can give you? (2/13/2014 11:10:16 PM)
Love But, you know, domly love. Hard-to-escape hugs. [:D]

evesgrden -> RE: What is the most important thing a Master can give you? (2/14/2014 3:42:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl I don't understand this recent influx of threads attempting to force a multi-faceted relationship down to a one level plane. I've noticed this too. An attempt perhaps at compiling the Cliffs Notes How-to Domly Manual.

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