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RE: Poly Families - 4/19/2004 5:33:57 PM   
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Thank you for bearing out my suspicions stormi, and your Master will surely be proud of you for making him look so good also. You now know my experience is in dealing with trolls, not being one.

Sorry but you'll have to find a better way than that to distract from your own activities.

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RE: Poly Families - 4/19/2004 5:37:29 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ProDomme

http://www.collarme.com/forum/Top_10_perverta_ID%27s/m_5634/tm.htm


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If you can find ANY troll post on this message board from me, please quote it here. I won't hold my breath



LOL, nice try!

I'm still breathing...

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RE: Poly Families - 4/19/2004 5:40:04 PM   
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damn

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RE: Poly Families - 4/20/2004 12:18:00 AM   
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I think the expectation that jealous wont exist is a fantasy.. It does.. Its how you deal with it.. poly is about committment, duty and loyalty. Its a commitment you make.. its your duty to participate fully through acting in your relationship's best interest, through open communication and through holding your tongue when you cant say something productive. Its about being loyal to your family members through word and deed.. Its probably one of the most difficult life choices a person can make. Its not all free sex and love its god damn hard work.. and the rewards at time seem incredibly nebulous.. but there are those moments when things are all in swing and you can not imagine your life without those people you are committed too.

With understanding that there are times when jealous will rise its ugly head and you need to acknowledge that .. take a deep breath.. try and figure out why its happened.. and talk about it with your partner.

< Message edited by Sylverdawn -- 4/20/2004 12:19:27 AM >


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RE: Poly Families - 4/20/2004 2:17:03 PM   
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Sylverdawn are you of a poly home or family?
Because when it comes to love and commitment
in the Poly Homes Ive been in Ive never seen nor
experianced none of the above and it is a fact that
I have been My whole life in Poly and I can tell you first
hand that in the three generations that I have been
blessed to see lived and run have never had such
a thing as jealousy within its grasp that is a totally
mono type feeling and reaction that I have seen out
side of Our Homes in Mono relationships tho and not
one that if the Home and People within are truly poly
ever feel or experiance. I know for sure I have not.

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RE: Poly Families - 4/20/2004 2:58:21 PM   
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quote:

have seen out
side of Our Homes in Mono relationships tho and not
one that if the Home and People within are truly poly
ever feel or experiance.


Yes I am in a poly relationship ... stormi is my husband's girl.. and Im happy that you are so perfect as never to have felt jealous ... Im glad for you .. I thinkin you probably dont know what goes on inside someone head unless its your own.. so dont tell me what is or is not truly poly.. You dont have the right to judge me or my choices..

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RE: Poly Families - 4/20/2004 3:03:03 PM   
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quote:

stormi is my husband's girl..


well that explains a lot.

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RE: Poly Families - 4/20/2004 3:41:56 PM   
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HAHAHAHAH
Silverdawn it was YOU whom first layed assumptions out and prejudged all.
quote:

I think the expectation that jealous wont exist is a fantasy.. It does

I told You what I personally had seen and experianced thru out My 45 years of being of a POLY Family and Home and seen first hand other Familys POLY Homes and Familys work, and WORK WELL I MIGHT ADD,
and ALL of them were Poly so yes I will tell You and I dident judge anyone else except those mono relationships that I have known of and seen first hand that dident work because of jealousy period! My words had nothing to do about You in the least Woman and Im glad to think that You feel I am perfect because I do not look at My self as such but its nice to know that You do, and I think You have issues.LOL.

and iwillserveu you might not be suplicant but you sure have a cute nose and I envision it up in My.....................well never mind.....~smiles~


yes zuchtstute1969 try emailing again it seems that no matter how many slaves I have checking the mail it still gets filled faster then anyOne of Us can get to it! try this email instead: [email protected]

Your comments Lady Beckett rang true to My ears in My Lifeliving.

Thordom. as You can see even in a Alternate Inviroment Poly is bashed to a certain point and even those whom claim to be of a working Poly Home
(alltho I would tend to disagree on this point reading both Owers and slaves words of the same Home) it will be a uphill endevor for sumone whom has not had pryor experiance in such. I would suggest however to look up the Poly Homes in Your area and contact The Head of the Home and state Your desire to start such and ask if You could enter the Home for Learning and Observation say for a week or so and if They are of the mindset as Me and Mine have been would welcome You to come and watch how the Poly Family works and get a taste of it and a chance to ask questions and see how issues are handled first hand.

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RE: Poly Families - 4/20/2004 7:09:32 PM   
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No.. I think is a statement of opinion not statment as a fact. However
quote:

one that if the Home and People within are truly poly
ever feel or experiance.
that is a judgement presented as a statement of fact. Perhaps english wasnt your first language.

< Message edited by Sylverdawn -- 4/20/2004 7:14:23 PM >


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RE: Poly Families - 4/20/2004 7:11:24 PM   
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Dread and yes I have issues.. with people who spout nonsense.. who present themselves as more than they are and who are eejits.. perhaps you fall into one or more of those catagories.. but that is not for me to judge.

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RE: Poly Families - 4/20/2004 7:17:08 PM   
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and Estrict I would love to drop a note to your Master..unfortunately I cant find a profile to which to send it so perhaps if you might ask him to send me a mail at [email protected] I would like a small word with him.

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RE: Poly Families - 4/20/2004 7:38:40 PM   
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quote:

and Estrict I would love to drop a note to your Master..unfortunately I cant find a profile to which to send it so perhaps if you might ask him to send me a mail at [email protected] I would like a small word with him.


You are correct Sylverdawn, he doesn't have a profile. He rarely comes online, and his only email address is his business one which I have no intention of giving out. Feel free to write him at [email protected]. I can assure you he will read what you write, though not that he will respond to it. That is something for him to decide.

Sandy

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RE: Poly Families - 4/20/2004 7:59:40 PM   
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opps, wrong place...sorry

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RE: Poly Families - 4/20/2004 9:35:59 PM   
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Sylverdawn
I dont know about others here on Collarme
but for Me personally I feel the tension between
You and Your Hubby/Master and His slave in the
words I read right here written by all of you and
that is NOT the way I see or know of any True
Poly Family acting or feeling as Poly work out any
disagreements to a satisfactory end as a loving
group and quite frankly I dont see any love or
respect enimating from anyone of you........ sorry
I call em like I see em...You dont like it, well to bad
ooh yea and kudos for You in realizing that English
is My 4th language learned.

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RE: Poly Families - 4/21/2004 6:35:54 AM   
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and Dread if I cared what you thought about me or mine.. that might make a difference. I dont care what you think.. . I love and am I loved.. it is simply enough ..I wont go to the bother of dignifying your less then worthy remarks and now I am done with you.

< Message edited by Sylverdawn -- 4/21/2004 6:36:31 AM >


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RE: Poly Families - 4/21/2004 6:41:19 AM   
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Ok in reading the post, there is something that needs to be clarified.
The main fact that no one knows what goes on inside our home. We are very
close, we are there as a FAMILY. So a quick **** *** to all those who think they
know what they speak of and don't.

As a slave, this girl's focus will always .......... always be with Master. Dawn and stormi
are FRIENDS, and tho it's hard for your small minds to beleive that maybe someone in
this lifestyle will be honest enough to say something is hard work, we unfortunately live
by that code....HONESTY

For those of you and know there will be no finger pointing ..... there are those that are already handling that quiet well and making rash statements or judging should remember there is 3 fingers pointing back at them. Should know..... that infact......Master's relationship with stormi began with Dawn's blessing. It should also blow your minds that it was Dawn who said "the drive is getting to be too much for both of you and it's hard for both of you at the end of the weekends." We ALL felt that the Master/slave relationship is here to stay with Master and stormi. SO Dawn suggest and begin immediately looking for homes.

That does not mean that we are not all still human, with human emotions.
None of us were raised where bed hopping was the norm, or where multi's were the norm.
Sometimes the words used are the words used to help others understand better even tho they may seem too strong to some.

Other than posting that WE agree, among our home, that 3 strong personalities are working hard to make sure that our relationship is one of those that last longer than as someone pointed out here the normal of 1.5 yrs. Does not mean that ALL poly homes are easy or hard. It means that with Master and Dawn being Dom, and stormi being very dominant in her job yet slave to Master that at times it's hard work.

It's hard work to adjust to living a little different. Having been on stormi's own for the first time and having stormi's home in order the way it suited stormi without anyone to put the glasses in the wrong place or not fold towels like stormi wished, and living that way for 3-4 yrs, stormi had to make some adjustments. WE ALL MADE ADJUSTMENTS.

Master & Dawn have had to adjust to the fact that stormi is very active in the leather community and sometimes it means alot of hard work for her. They do not begrudge that.
The jump in to help. stormi is a perfectionist when it comes to representing Master, Dawn, and the Leather family/community she belongs to. It's evident if you ever get away from the computer world of fantasy and have attended one of the last 4 Beyond Vanilla's, or SouthPlains LeatherFest. Because of that, stormi has had the HONOR (do any of you understand that word?) to serve as hostess of some of the most attended parties/receptions in Dallas as well as Vendor Coordinator of Beyond Vanilla and a Master/slave judge co-contact for the International Master/slave judges one year.

The thing that puzzles the hell outta stormi, is exactly where some of you who have NEVER
met us, been to our home, seen us in crisis get off making the attacking judgemental remarks that you make.

Not one post from Master (BTW, his post was on OLD GUARD and He's only POSTED ONCE), Dawn or stormi has been a post that said ALL POLY families are this way or that.

The references here towards all of us can not be concluded by anyone as anything other than personal attacks against people you do not know. We have not in one statement declared that we are experts or that our way is the only way.

Bottom line is this, remember that when you speak and claim you are this that or another, REMEMBER people in glass houses should never throw stones. You would be surprised sometimes to hear what others say about some of the ones doing all the judging and finger pointing here. Sometimes being Dom of someone or Topping someone in play does not mean you are good, and judging by the things that have been said about some of those here, it explains alot.

Thanks for reminding all of us..... to be grateful of the family and friends who understand that like marriage most relationships require attention and work and that not everyone is smart enough to know that to reach the higher levels of laughter, joys, love and experience one must work at it.

Leather PRIDE, HONOR, and RESPECT,
stormi
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RE: Poly Families - 4/21/2004 8:04:53 AM   
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hahaha LOVE IT!

Need I say more??

hahahaha!



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RE: Poly Families - 4/21/2004 8:57:02 AM   
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One lesson that is taught and never learned by some and it is evident here, is that name, honor and pride mean something and that to have those with class is an oddity to several.

If you hurt someone in play, If you damage someone, word does get around.

Thankfully stormi has never had the displeasure of meeting any like that. Reading their words is enough to show that all the education and so called experience is not enough.

In Leather Service,
stormi
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RE: Poly Families - 4/21/2004 5:11:37 PM   
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For what it's worth, look at www.lovemore.com and if nothing else, I believe they have some good links on there for polyfidelity interests, which is what it seems like you're after.

ZM

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RE: Poly Families - 4/22/2004 7:20:02 AM   
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I dont know who the sum you speak about are
in your rude generalization but if you think I
would ever let My slaves speak in such a manner
to ANY Dominant in the manner you do, you are
the one thats rudely mistaken. They would not ever.
And as for My Name,Honor and Pride I have much
and My name is well known and appreciated in the
Circles it is carried. I do not have a need for your
acceptance nor would I have any desire to be a
part of your kind of Poly. I prefer My respectful Own.
Where I come from slaves ask permission to speak
and their words are always spoken in a positive manner
or not at all because sumthing negitive would show bad
face to their Owners collar.

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