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RE: Is it logical that slave is humiliated - 2/23/2014 1:52:36 AM

sunshinemiss

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A true slave want only to serve every MASTERS need and desire. The slave should want to serve and doing it gladly.

So if MASTER want to humiliate the slave, the slave would serve and gladly.

Logically so can not be a slave to be humiliated.

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Hi!
Welcome to the discussion. Everybody has an opinion. Not everyone will agree. Usually we ask a question here. I don't understand your question. Maybe your question is this:

A master wants to humiliate the slave. the slave doesn't want that. The slave wants to obey. So the slave takes the humiliation. The slave is happy to serve master.

Is that correct?

"Slaves" are not truly slaves. That is illegal. Submissive people can have preferences. You want to have a relationship with a dominant person, yes? You can choose a different person. You can say no to a "master". You can ask for things you like and want. You can insist to receive things you enjoy. You can choose. It is a big misunderstanding for new people. Many new people don't know this. Many new people think, "submissive people can't say no, can't ask for things, must happily say yes." That is not true. That is only fantasy. You make choices that are best for you.

best wishes,
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RE: Is it logical that slave is humiliated - 2/23/2014 2:03:21 AM

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I read it more as 'the Master humiliates the slave, however because the slave just loves to serve, it doesn't feel humiliating, he's happy to be taking whatever gets dished out'.

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RE: Is it logical that slave is humiliated - 2/23/2014 5:25:28 AM

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ORIGINAL: AthenaSurrenders

I read it more as 'the Master humiliates the slave, however because the slave just loves to serve, it doesn't feel humiliating, he's happy to be taking whatever gets dished out'.

I did, too. And I think English isn't the OP's native language so he had a little trouble stating it to get his point across. I think he meant it kind of like one of those 'what came first, the chicken or the egg?' type things that there is no right or wrong answer for, but it still makes you chuckle a little. Or a Catch-22. Or whatever, I'm having trouble stating it to get my point across, too, lol.

But that's just me and the way I look at things.

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RE: Is it logical that slave is humiliated - 2/23/2014 2:16:25 PM

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Hmmmm...
Is the slave a living, breathing human being with emotional reactions to emotional stimuli, much like other normal living breathing human beings?
Then yes, it is possible to humiliate him or her. They may enjoy it or not, or bear with it or not depending on their kinks, but I'd say it is possible for them to feel humiliation, regardless of your logic.

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RE: Is it logical that slave is humiliated - 3/1/2014 6:04:47 AM

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Humiliation is a feeling generated for whatever reason the humiliated has come up with.

Logic goes out the window in sexual-emotional relationships.

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