LadyConstanze
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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze He reacted pretty strongly when I repeatedly told him that it is not a great idea and it's damned near stalkerish and certainly underhand, I'm now a meanie, he's playing the victim card and I just think the worst of people, blah blah. I don't think he's dangerous, just seems to be incapable to understand that while he might see it as a romantic gesture, a woman would not perceive it as such. Hopefully he's not dangerous, but if he can't understand why this would make a woman uncomfortable or scared, it makes me wonder what else he wouldn't understand. If he goes through with it and gets rejected, for example, will he continue to pursue her because of his inability to comprehend her viewpoint?There's a fine line between clueless and dangerous. Aside from the stalkerish tones, it sounds like he hasn't considered that she might not be logging on for a good reason, like she's now in a relationship. I imagine the boyfriend wouldn't interpret his actions in a kindly way either. I think he sees it as romantic, being so smitten with her that he wants to send flowers for several days before revealing himself...
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