smileforme50
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ORIGINAL: tj444 quote:
ORIGINAL: PeonForHer This was opined in a thread recently by a female friend of mine. Or, at least, that was how I read her post. Frankly, I don't know. I *have* had female friends tell me that they know when one of their fellow lady-pals has started on a course of regular bonking because they've started to look, variously, 'blooming', 'happy' and 'bouncy'. One frequently-heard, weird little observation, is that one can tell a woman who's started bonking regularly by her complexion. Rosy cheeks are the order of the day. it has to be the right boinking by the right boinker.. imo.. much more so for women than men.. For me, the wrong boinker is worse than no boinker, so I would rather not bother boinking in the first place.. I am pickier now than when I was younger.. I want something substantial and long term, so that requirement has considerably reduced my sex drive.. its still there, simmering under the surface.. but right now my mind rules it (in men it tends to be the little brain that rules).. I agree with tj on this completely. I couldn't have said it better myself. Quality is more important than quantity. Like lw mentioned, I've also gone through a couple of what most people would call "extended" periods of celibacy, and I was perfectly happy because at those times I had other things in a busy life to occupy my time and mind. Right now....I'm not here because I have sex on my mind all the time. I think about it occasionally.....but not all the time. There is a lot more to life and a relationship (even a D/s relationship) than just sex. A fulfilling sexual relationship is a wonderful thing with the right person, but it's also important to have a fulfilling relationshp with that person when you are both dressed. I'm here because I want to interact with other people who have the same interests that I do, and because I'm always interested in learning from people who have more experience than I do.
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