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FieryOpal -> RE: Can a sub be a domme? (3/3/2014 8:27:45 PM)
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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl
I think a more apt description would be: Subs can be service tops.
The ones who say they "like anything" just want you to talk dirty. Why else would they be paying some jacked up price for phone sex? Since they specifically chose a Dominant female, it's possible you're getting vanilla guys who are into a humiliation fetish and are too ashamed to admit it.
That doesn't mean they're all into humiliation, so if you cross the line by a guy not responding favorably to being called a "sissy slut", "ass/anal slut-whore", or "pathetic slave dog," in the course of your conversation, hopefully they'll drop a hint to steer your FemDom sex talk in another direction. Hard to say, since they may be expecting you to read their minds. I would also safely assume they've been watching a lot of porn and want to take the next step to talk to a live female.
Some random suggestions off the top of my head, geared more toward the types of vanilla men I've known:
- Begin by having them imagine knocking on your door, then your answering it decked out in fetish gear holding a riding crop. Order them to undress in front of you, fold their clothes into a neat little pile on a chair or table, then put a collar around their necks. You can lead them with a leash.
- Btw, most of these vanillas get terribly turned on imagining you have a Brazilian wax job. When you or they start on the subject of pussy, segue into face-sitting. Those who are into humiliation will get turned on by being told they don't deserve to eat your pussy, but you'll let them give you a rim job this time around.
- Foot Fetish. This is quite widespread. Includes boot-kissing and shoe fetish. Talk about them taking you shoe shopping to narrow this down. Ridiculously high 7-8" open-toe stilettos (bigger than the size of their dicks), more the black patent leather boots along with fishnet stockings & garters?
Once this has been determined (or excluded), you can proceed with describing your feet in the most attractive terms possible, how your toenails are painted a bright fire-engine red. With those who tell you right off the bat this is what they're into, then other than telling them what to do with your feet, and if they're into boots, describe how you want them to jack off on your boots, and then lick them clean.
- Throw in some bondage elements here and there, having them imagine you've tied them up or tied them to the bed. Be descriptive every step of the way. Mahogany wood bedposts, burgundy silk or satin sheets, what sexy outfit you're wearing, etc.
- Puny Dick syndrome. Either ask them to describe their dicks, or see how they respond to being verbally humiliated about how their dick is probably too small to satisfy you. Further along, this can lead to an imaginary cuckolding scenario.
- Sissification/Forced Feminization + Spanking. Tell them how you're going to make them strip down in front of you (CFNM-Clothed Female, Naked Male), wear girly pink panties while you spank them with your wooden hairbrush. When you're done, make them stand in the corner (wearing a butt plug is optional) for a few minutes, which you can't waste over the phone, so quickly move onto having them describe how this makes them feel, make them thank you for being disciplined, then tell them they can show their appreciation by getting down on their knees and orally servicing you.
- Anal Play. This might be the most difficult to get them to spit out, but often one of their hidden desires. Start off with sticking your finger up their ass, then with having them wear a (starter) butt plug. Graduate to larger size items, a dildo-vibrator, or even a strap-on. Make them imagine you are ordering them to suck on any phallic objects first prior to penetration.
That should get you started. [;)]
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