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RE: How to turn a master on - 3/7/2014 3:41:27 PM   
crazyml


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Status: offline 		I'll be honest and admit that questions like this irritate me. I can only tell you the kind of thing that turns me on... and you should be focusing on what turns your partner on...

For me...

Yeah, the robe, martini, hummer combo is a trusted favourite.

A coquettish look that signals promise.

A languid smile

"That" perfume.

A passionate discussion.

A glimpse of panty in the restaurant

A text saying "please will you fuck my ass?"

There are many more, most of which my ideal partner would figure out for herself.

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RE: How to turn a master on - 3/7/2014 4:07:22 PM   
freedomdwarf1


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ORIGINAL: quickiemy
Of course I know what turns him on. What I need is different ideas and fresh turn ons from other masters point of view.

It's a very subjective and loaded question.

Everyone is different and responds differently to different things.
What works for one doesn't work for another.

So it won't matter whatever we come up with - we don't know your master.
Just pick anything from a porn movie and see if it works.


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RE: How to turn a master on - 3/7/2014 4:10:48 PM   
Lynnxz


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Status: offline 		I like to text him naughty things when I'm out of reach, so that when we DO get together, the contact is instant and explosive.

However, as everyone has said, everyone is different.

Hell, he gets turned on when I practice assessments, etc for school on him. Go figure.

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RE: How to turn a master on - 3/7/2014 4:10:53 PM   
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ORIGINAL: quickiemy

I know, what a sub/slave should do is to wait until the owner asks for the pleasure. I was wondering what the possible turn ons that a sub/slave can do to arouse his master/owner?


Find and flip his "on" switch?

ETA: Posted this before I read post #17!

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RE: How to turn a master on - 3/7/2014 5:49:50 PM   
BLKHRDBULL


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RE: How to turn a master on - 3/7/2014 5:55:23 PM   
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ORIGINAL: BLKHRDBULL

Its not the job of the sub to worry about it because its about what we wants



"What turns you on Master?"

"NOTHING. DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT!! THIS IS ABOUT WHAT I WANT!!"


Seems legit.


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RE: How to turn a master on - 3/7/2014 5:56:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm still confused by the fact that the op assumes he/she isn't allowed to ask/beg for play/sex. Because it doesn't work like that here.

He enjoys knowing I want him and want play. He might not be in the mood right then, but that doesn't mean he wouldn't enjoy hearing me ask for it.

Did you ask him if you're allowed to ask for it or did you assume this from watching too much porn? As far as what turns him on, ask him that.

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RE: How to turn a master on - 3/7/2014 10:36:51 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

I'm still confused by the fact that the op assumes he/she isn't allowed to ask/beg for play/sex. Because it doesn't work like that here.

He enjoys knowing I want him and want play. He might not be in the mood right then, but that doesn't mean he wouldn't enjoy hearing me ask for it.

Did you ask him if you're allowed to ask for it or did you assume this from watching too much porn? As far as what turns him on, ask him that.

Id suggest you to know more before judge. I said this is the agreement between us. He told me that he is not enjoying having questions, and I understood it.

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RE: How to turn a master on - 3/8/2014 7:24:06 AM   
Musicmystery


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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ


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ORIGINAL: quickiemy


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ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze


quote:

ORIGINAL: quickiemy

I know, what a sub/slave should do is to wait until the owner asks for the pleasure. I was wondering what the possible turn ons that a sub/slave can do to arouse his master/owner?



Why don't you think about what usually turns him on, you know stuff like what you do or wear when he initiates sex? If you do know a person a little bit (since he's your master I think you do know him a bit) you would also have noticed what turns him on and use that?


Of course I know what turns him on. What I need is different ideas and fresh turn ons from other masters point of view.


Why?

[My] Master wouldn't like it if I did that.
In His view, if He wants something different or fresh, He teaches me.


That was my question too. Just seems silly.

If you're looking for porn stories, use Google...no shortage!

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RE: How to turn a master on - 3/8/2014 11:29:56 AM   
AnimusRex


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Wear something sexy.
Do things for him that he likes....cook him a great meal,keep the house clean, run the errands, make him all his favorite things.
Show and tell him how special he is.
Be obedient and pleasing.


This works for me. Hell, the sexy outfit isn't even necessary.

Some men get wildly aroused as surrender and deference, and little acts of submission.
Speaking for myself, being pressured to perform is annoyingly manipulative. I am already so easily aroused that if I am not hard, its because I have reasons not to be.

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RE: How to turn a master on - 3/8/2014 11:54:29 AM   
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ORIGINAL: quickiemy
Id suggest you to know more before judge. I said this is the agreement between us. He told me that he is not enjoying having questions, and I understood it.

If that is the agreement... then don't ask.

The one and ONLY person that can answer your question is your master.
If you can't ask and he is not giving you the ideas...... there is nothing more to be said.

That would be one huge red flag to me.

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RE: How to turn a master on - 3/8/2014 1:39:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		Haha....we were talking about something similar this morning.... I was listing stuff, the last thing I said was "doing all your dishes"...BINGO...that was the one that makes him groan in satisfaction. Can't even mention it over the phone...gets him too turned on.

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RE: How to turn a master on - 3/8/2014 10:21:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		If you don't know what turns your Master on then you don't know him very well at all. Maybe start paying more attention to him and not yourself.


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RE: How to turn a master on - 3/9/2014 1:59:02 AM   
bachus


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ORIGINAL: littlewonder

If you don't know what turns your Master on then you don't know him very well at all. Maybe start paying more attention to him and not yourself.



That is an excellent suggestion, try reading your Master. Try little different things to arouse him, see how he reacts and take it from there.

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RE: How to turn a master on - 3/9/2014 3:52:52 AM   
ARIES83


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Status: offline 		Well if someone asked me what they could do to turn me on...
That would be a pretty good turn on.

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RE: How to turn a master on - 3/9/2014 10:09:00 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Well since you claim to understand and accept that you aren't allowed to ask him anything, I see no reason to try to get around that by being manipulative and using things that work on others. Why aren't you okay with what he said, not to ask anything, and wait for him to tell you what he wants you to know?

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RE: How to turn a master on - 3/9/2014 1:00:31 PM   
kalikshama


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Id suggest you to know more before judge. I said this is the agreement between us. He told me that he is not enjoying having questions, and I understood it.


By "no questions" do you actually mean you are not allowed to question his decisions, for example, if he says "there will be no brussel sprouts in this house" that's final?

Or do you actually mean no questions at all; you are not allowed to ask "what would you like for dinner?"





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RE: How to turn a master on - 3/9/2014 9:16:24 PM   
FieryOpal


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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Well since you claim to understand and accept that you aren't allowed to ask him anything, I see no reason to try to get around that by being manipulative and using things that work on others. Why aren't you okay with what he said, not to ask anything, and wait for him to tell you what he wants you to know?

Probably because he's only 24 and this is a fishing expedition because he doesn't have a Master yet, has only been looking for play partners on here for a week, and this incommunicado nonsense is his explanation for why he has to ask for ideas on a BDSM discussion forum.

See http://www.collarchat.com/m_4651938/tm.htm ("Sharing a sub with other dom"), aka Newbie's Guide to Working the System.

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