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RE: Are real Dommes extinct? - 7/8/2006 9:13:26 PM   
MistressLorelei


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ORIGINAL: WhiteRadiance

This reply, in my opinion, is the most civil one here. 
The man may be an idiot but there is no need to meet his stupidity and ignorance with rudeness.  Why even bother answering stupid questions?  Direct them to the last thread by the last guy who asked that same question and go get a pedicure or something.
 
Just my redneck cracker jack alabama opinion for what it's worth.. lol



Hmmm.....  Possibly you should have taken your own advice.  The rest of us were rude in our sarcasm,  or in pointing out the obvious disrespecful nature of blanket remarks made by the OP, while your direct and rather mean insults were "civil"?

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RE: Are real Dommes extinct? - 7/9/2006 7:17:48 AM   
WhiteRadiance


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Status: offline 		I do not think the OP was stupid!  If my sarcasmm can be misunderstood, perhaps other's can too? 
 
This is the inherent problem with the written word.



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ORIGINAL: MistressLorelei

quote:

ORIGINAL: WhiteRadiance

This reply, in my opinion, is the most civil one here. 
The man may be an idiot but there is no need to meet his stupidity and ignorance with rudeness.  Why even bother answering stupid questions?  Direct them to the last thread by the last guy who asked that same question and go get a pedicure or something.
 
Just my redneck cracker jack alabama opinion for what it's worth.. lol



Hmmm.....  Possibly you should have taken your own advice.  The rest of us were rude in our sarcasm,  or in pointing out the obvious disrespecful nature of blanket remarks made by the OP, while your direct and rather mean insults were "civil"?

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RE: Are real Dommes extinct? - 7/9/2006 8:14:42 AM   
MistressLorelei


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ORIGINAL: WhiteRadiance

I do not think the OP was stupid!  If my sarcasmm can be misunderstood, perhaps other's can too? 
 
This is the inherent problem with the written word.
 

I didn't recognize the sarcasm.  Yes, the written word can often be very misunderstood (which is why I don't use IM).  I call for a ban on using the written word on all message boards!!

<smiles sarcastically and goes to get a pedicure>



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RE: Are real Dommes extinct? - 7/9/2006 9:04:19 AM   
MistressTaboo


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Status: offline 		He was playing bait the Domme...if I challenge them will they rise to the occasion and tell me off....he just got verbal whipping...just what he was looking for...just like a child who misbehaves just to get some attention...he couldn’t get any replies via email so he went to the forums for it…He’s a SAM. Smart Ass Masochist or a brat…and the best way to punish a masochist is ignore them…   But my word of advice is to stop thinking about YOU and to focus on HER…I get a ton of emails a day…but the ones that actually take the time to read my profile and answer the question there get an answer…but the best sentence a sub can ask is…What can I do to get to know you better? Not will you do this to me or I want to do that for you…Treat people with dignity and respect. We aren’t just bodies to get your rocks off. You want a list of things you want to do and try…go to a pro…you want to serve me, and do what I want (with in reason) then we can talk.

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RE: Are real Dommes extinct? - 7/9/2006 9:13:25 AM   
LadyJulieAnn


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ORIGINAL: Avocation

Are real dommes extinct! A good question. I am beginning to think so. I am a rarther experienced and accomplished houseboy. I have been aquired by 3 differerent ladies,each taking out a revocable,General Power of Attorney on myself. I joined this website and got absolutely no responses whatsoever from even dommes,who had a profile stating they were looking for a slave/houseboy 24/7. I asked for advice in the ask a Mistress section,so far not a single Mistress has made any comment,only two gentlemen,who are not exactly Mistresses and so are not really qualified to answer my question,however decent and well meaning they both may be.


Of course there are "real" Dommes.  Your idea of "real" is a long list of what you consider her control to involve.  You virtually make it impossible for a Domme to design the experience as she sees fit.  You think that by listing legal terms and naming yourself a "subject person" you are presenting an image that most Dommes would like, but most lifestyle dommes I know enjoy a relationship with someone who can function as a human and who does not set up a contract of rules that she has to follow so that you feel properly controlled.

Be well,
Julie

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RE: Are real Dommes extinct? - 7/9/2006 9:56:57 AM   
SweetDommes


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ORIGINAL: Avocation

Are real dommes extinct! A good question. I am beginning to think so. I am a rarther experienced and accomplished houseboy. I have been aquired by 3 differerent ladies,each taking out a revocable,General Power of Attorney on myself. I joined this website and got absolutely no responses whatsoever from even dommes,who had a profile stating they were looking for a slave/houseboy 24/7. I asked for advice in the ask a Mistress section,so far not a single Mistress has made any comment,only two gentlemen,who are not exactly Mistresses and so are not really qualified to answer my question,however decent and well meaning they both may be.


You know, Holly's answer to guys like you who insist on having a contract drawn up is rather appropriate right now ...

"I don't need a stupid piece of paper to tell me what I can and can't tell you what to do, or to tell me what you are or are not willing to do ... you'll either do what I say or leave."

Not everyone wants contracts because they are a HUGE hassle, and we'd far rather have someone come and serve us because he truly wants to vs someone who serves because of a silly piece of paper.

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RE: Are real Dommes extinct? - 7/9/2006 1:03:44 PM   
kc692


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Status: offline 		OK, I'm confused; was there a post that was deleted, or is this Avocation somehow on my non existent ignore list??

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RE: Are real Dommes extinct? - 7/9/2006 1:29:08 PM   
MistressWolfen


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Status: offline 		I am not sure kc692...I am still in a state of shock that I have to squeeze into a catsuit and wear 6 inch spikes. I am wondering if I could bribe benji to do it and pretend that I fulfilled that Domme function in the handbook?

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RE: Are real Dommes extinct? - 7/9/2006 1:32:58 PM   
WhiteRadiance


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Status: offline 		I think the next "sub" who comes around whining about where all the real dommes are we should all stone him to death with tampons and midol tablets.
 
(I hope you all know I am being sarcastic!)

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RE: Are real Dommes extinct? - 7/9/2006 1:42:34 PM   
LTRsubNW


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ORIGINAL: yourMissTress

For fucks sake!!!!  I'm supposed to have a catsuit and 6 inch spike heels?  I didn't see that anywhere in the manual.  
 


(Well, I for one think if that's not in the manual, that's a grievous error)

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RE: Are real Dommes extinct? - 7/9/2006 1:46:24 PM   
MHOO314


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ORIGINAL: yourMissTress

For fucks sake!!!!  I'm supposed to have a catsuit and 6 inch spike heels?  I didn't see that anywhere in the manual.  
 


No dear Tress, but you DO have 6 inch spikes, perhaps he'd like to meet those, that should change his arrogant attitude!

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RE: Are real Dommes extinct? - 7/9/2006 1:49:23 PM   
LaTigresse


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ORIGINAL: MHOO314

quote:

ORIGINAL: yourMissTress

For fucks sake!!!!  I'm supposed to have a catsuit and 6 inch spike heels?  I didn't see that anywhere in the manual.  
 


No dear Tress, but you DO have 6 inch spikes, perhaps he'd like to meet those, that should change his arrogant attitude!


Priceless!


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RE: Are real Dommes extinct? - 7/9/2006 2:14:10 PM   
kc692


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Status: offline 		Oh dear, I didn't read that rule in the "Weal, Twue, Domme handbook 101"...I think I failed that part, smiles, as I'M  NOT DOING THAT SHIT....smiles, if that's required, I think I gotta hang up my whips and floggers,,,,,dammit, LMAO!

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RE: Are real Dommes extinct? - 7/9/2006 2:32:50 PM   
Lordandmaster


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Status: offline 		I don't see that quote either.  Odd.

quote:

ORIGINAL: kc692

OK, I'm confused; was there a post that was deleted, or is this Avocation somehow on my non existent ignore list??

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RE: Are real Dommes extinct? - 7/9/2006 2:37:53 PM   
wnts2Bapet


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Status: offline 		Hmmmmmmmmm, is it  possible to say that there are players on here, as on other internet functions, both Dom/me and submissive/slave that are just players and fakes? Having been out of the lifestyle a while myself and then coming back into it, it is difficult to find someone. Unfortuneately, I have had the bad luck of only finding the Domme players who aren't serious. However, I shall perservere. <grins> have a great day ya'll.

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RE: Are real Dommes extinct? - 7/9/2006 2:59:32 PM   
iliv2servher


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ORIGINAL: MistressTaboo

He was playing bait the Domme...if I challenge them will they rise to the occasion and tell me off....he just got verbal whipping...just what he was looking for...just like a child who misbehaves just to get some attention...he couldn’t get any replies via email so he went to the forums for it…He’s a SAM. Smart Ass Masochist or a brat…and the best way to punish a masochist is ignore them.


That's exactly what I was thinking.  But then this type of behavior is nothing new around here.  They come here seeking attention and somehow they get it.  Does this bring out the Domme in those ladies who have taken the bait?  You be the judge.

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RE: Are real Dommes extinct? - 7/9/2006 4:30:57 PM   
LadyMorgynn


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Status: offline 		AMEN to Miss Tessa and John Warren, and everybody else!

Fact is... only the "fake" subs are out there looking for "real" Domme's.  The real subs may be still looking for the right one, but at least they know we are here and aren't whining all over the forums about how all the Domme's are phonies or pro's.

< Message edited by LadyMorgynn -- 7/9/2006 4:57:57 PM >

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RE: Are real Dommes extinct? - 7/9/2006 4:38:21 PM   
LadyMorgynn


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Status: offline 		I dunno, but personally I plan to have my female slave wear 6 inch spike heels... and a catsuit too!  And there won't be anything DOMME about her!

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ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

Wait.  I have 6 inch spike heels.  Does that make me a real Domme, or just a confused sub?

Yours,


benji


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RE: Are real Dommes extinct? - 7/9/2006 5:14:48 PM   
LadyMorgynn


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Status: offline 		According to his profile, he just joined today!  Must have posted first, then read the entire thread and quickly backed off.  And who can blame him?

He sounds familiar though... some "owned" slave type really blasted me when I first came online here, starting out seeking a 24/7 slave, for not being "real" because I'd never come up against "real slavery" and wanted to talk about it before signing right up with legal papers, etc.  I was intrigued by the idea, and wanted to discuss it more, but he flew into a rage and sent me an awfully vicious email... so I blocked him and he got mad about that, and made a new profile and sent me another email telling me how his feelings were hurt and I wasn't real, yada yada.  I'm not saying it's the same guy, but reading his profile gave me a real feeling of deja vu.

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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

I don't see that quote either.  Odd.

quote:

ORIGINAL: kc692

OK, I'm confused; was there a post that was deleted, or is this Avocation somehow on my non existent ignore list??



< Message edited by LadyMorgynn -- 7/9/2006 5:32:56 PM >

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RE: Are real Dommes extinct? - 7/9/2006 5:15:32 PM   
kc692


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ORIGINAL: wnts2Bapet

Hmmmmmmmmm, is it  possible to say that there are players on here, as on other internet functions, both Dom/me and submissive/slave that are just players and fakes? Having been out of the lifestyle a while myself and then coming back into it, it is difficult to find someone. Unfortuneately, I have had the bad luck of only finding the Domme players who aren't serious. However, I shall perservere. <grins> have a great day ya'll.


It is also possible to say that there are players in real life also, ya either takes your chances or get out of the game.  Unless you keep on the lookout, only safe thing yet is to quit the  search.

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