MistressTheaZ
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Joined: 7/17/2005 Status: offline
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ORIGINAL: cloudboy --snip-- Clearly there is a pull between personal and commercial interests when involving oneself in these two worlds. --snip-- Good points, Goddess DG, and to echo cloudboy's thoughts... I began seeking out SM when I was legally able to do so, through a local leather organization, (and previously, just through books and the internet.) I was always drawn to it, feeling I was different in some way but not knowing quite why. My own relationships and interests didn't seem to correspond with friends and siblings, and I couldn't reconcile it... Beyond learning and playing with a local club, I began a Mistress Apprenticeship as a ProDomme through that time. However, My interactions were hardly limited to the dungeon; playing on a locally-recognizable level opened doors to parties, events and opportunity for a higher degree of involvement in the local community as well, and I enjoyed participating frequently. While there were many ProDommes I knew who had little to no interest overall in participating in the scene, giving back, or furthering their own skills and personal growth within the Lifestyle, I think We can set aside those with a primary motivation of money only out of consideration within this discussion. I wouldn't take back any of the years I spent as a ProDomme. It furthered My skills to a great degree, gave Me a wider appreciation for players of all labels at all levels, and brought Me many wonderful friends. That said, I disliked the nature of the commercial environment - churning out what sometimes could be likened to roleplay 'McSessions' - for the sake of higher profit. I felt rushed along and left feeling, at times, empty be constrained to such an one-dimensional connection with My playmates. After a time, I began to lose any sense of enjoyment with management rushing Me out of one session early and into another...walking into a room to meet a kneeling, nude stranger I know only as joe, say, with about 45 minutes to proceed diving into this mystery sub's psyche and constructing a scenario accordingly. *sigh* I prefer to play with a personal playmate only these days, and while it's definitely world's apart from 'working' as a ProDomme, I personally feel the enjoyment and anticipation has returned to a much greater degree than I could have found professionally. To have the freedom to enjoy really knowing someone on a three-dimensional basis: to give, to trust, to feel? Wouldn't trade it back. Best, ~Thea
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