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Are there dangers from visiting escorts for Dom services? - 3/13/2014 6:35:45 PM   
jameswst


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Status: offline 		I'm interested in visiting an escort as a sub, but I don't want to put myself at risk. Have you heard of anyone getting injured by an escort who didn't know what she was doing?
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RE: Are there dangers from visiting escorts for Dom ser... - 3/13/2014 6:52:05 PM   
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RE: Are there dangers from visiting escorts for Dom ser... - 3/13/2014 6:52:50 PM   
jameswst


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Status: offline 		That sounds like something I wouldn't want to have happen.

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RE: Are there dangers from visiting escorts for Dom ser... - 3/13/2014 6:53:52 PM   
shiftyw


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But obviously.
There are lots of dangerous people, career choice has little to do with anything.

ETA: What I'm trying to say is- seeing a stranger for anything like this- has risks.


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RE: Are there dangers from visiting escorts for Dom ser... - 3/13/2014 7:11:29 PM   
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ORIGINAL: jameswst

I'm interested in visiting an escort as a sub, but I don't want to put myself at risk. Have you heard of anyone getting injured by an escort who didn't know what she was doing?


Why don't you just go see a legit Domme with lots of good reviews?

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RE: Are there dangers from visiting escorts for Dom ser... - 3/13/2014 7:11:50 PM   
stef


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That sounds like something I wouldn't want to have happen.

Don't be so judgmental.

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RE: Are there dangers from visiting escorts for Dom ser... - 3/13/2014 7:27:42 PM   
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If you want to scene with someone, don't rely on a generic variety escort.
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RE: Are there dangers from visiting escorts for Dom ser... - 3/13/2014 9:35:29 PM   
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RE: Are there dangers from visiting escorts for Dom ser... - 3/14/2014 8:50:27 PM   
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You could wake up in a bathtub full of ice with a kidney missing.

Yeah if you are into suburban myths. FYI that is one of the largest internet hoaxes out there.

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RE: Are there dangers from visiting escorts for Dom ser... - 3/14/2014 8:53:26 PM   
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ORIGINAL: jameswst

I'm interested in visiting an escort as a sub, but I don't want to put myself at risk. Have you heard of anyone getting injured by an escort who didn't know what she was doing?


What do you intend to do with the escort? I mean, are you going to her as a do-me sub? I'm sure a Domina would be cheaper, and that bitch already knows what is going on.

Jus sayin
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RE: Are there dangers from visiting escorts for Dom ser... - 3/14/2014 8:59:21 PM   
Lynnxz


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Thanks everyone!



What did you decide?

I NEED CLOSURE!

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RE: Are there dangers from visiting escorts for Dom ser... - 3/15/2014 6:29:17 AM   
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ORIGINAL: stef

You could wake up in a bathtub full of ice with a kidney missing.

Yeah if you are into suburban myths. FYI that is one of the largest internet hoaxes out there.


Sweetie, that was snark, not a genuine warning.

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RE: Are there dangers from visiting escorts for Dom ser... - 3/15/2014 6:34:53 AM   
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I'm interested in visiting an escort as a sub, but I don't want to put myself at risk. Have you heard of anyone getting injured by an escort who didn't know what she was doing?


When I used to go to the nude beach I saw a friend with horrific swelling and bruises on his penis from a woman at a fetish party who didn't know what she was doing.

There are also some god-awful pictures on fetlife demonstrating what can go horribly wrong with candles when the top didn't know what she was doing.

Hire a Professional.

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RE: Are there dangers from visiting escorts for Dom ser... - 3/15/2014 6:41:58 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant


quote:

ORIGINAL: jameswst

I'm interested in visiting an escort as a sub, but I don't want to put myself at risk. Have you heard of anyone getting injured by an escort who didn't know what she was doing?


What do you intend to do with the escort? I mean, are you going to her as a do-me sub? I'm sure a Domina would be cheaper, and that bitch already knows what is going on.

Jus sayin
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The fact that he considers an escort makes me think that he has a few things in mind that a domme won't do... There are some kink friendly escorts and as long as he doesn't want to do something very intricate, he might be fine with one of those.

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RE: Are there dangers from visiting escorts for Dom ser... - 3/15/2014 8:36:35 AM   
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ORIGINAL: NiteWing2000


quote:

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You could wake up in a bathtub full of ice with a kidney missing.

Yeah if you are into suburban myths. FYI that is one of the largest internet hoaxes out there.


Yeah, but....it could still happen. Some nutbag could be reading this right now and.........

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RE: Are there dangers from visiting escorts for Dom ser... - 3/15/2014 11:18:48 AM   
stef


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Yeah if you are into suburban myths. FYI that is one of the largest internet hoaxes out there.

No, really?

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RE: Are there dangers from visiting escorts for Dom ser... - 3/15/2014 11:25:34 AM   
ChatteParfaitt


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Status: offline 		Welcome to the discussion side James.

There are many fem domme sites, MaxFisch is one I tend to recommend. You should be able to find a good one in your area.

How do you find a good one?

Here's a guide to finding a good dominatrix.

http://www.ekatarinaromanovich.com/Ekatarina_Romanovich/How_to_Make_an_Appointment_with_A_Dominatrix.html



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RE: Are there dangers from visiting escorts for Dom ser... - 3/15/2014 2:45:58 PM   
LafayetteLady


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Status: offline 		LC, that's what I was thinking as well. He wants sexual contact as part of the experience and can't find a domme to do that.

Regardless, meeting any stranger for kink activities has some risk. Minimize it as much as you can, OP. If you want an escort, take LC's advice and find a kink friendly one, not your average stree walker.

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RE: Are there dangers from visiting escorts for Dom ser... - 3/15/2014 10:54:47 PM   
mummyman321


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Status: offline 		Google is your friend. If she is established her name and phone number in Google will yield some results. Take a look and see what pops up. Just realize that an escort is not a Domme. So if you are looking for a Domme take Chatte's advice.



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RE: Are there dangers from visiting escorts for Dom ser... - 3/15/2014 11:52:07 PM   
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