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ORIGINAL: theshytype

I believe porn has diluted some minds into thinking it's "normal" for women to go down on other women.
A fantasy, fueled with the images, has turned something into alleged reality for some.

You don't like it, don't do it. Find someone who shares the same interest, or lack of.

To be honest, I'll have to say it had somewhat diluted my own. I do have the desire, and assumed many men would be approving. Apparently not true since the last two men I had relationships with wouldn't allow a threesome.

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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal

[sm=agree.gif] FightingChains, and welcome. Without exception, everyone is entitled to establish their Soft & Hard Limits and make them known ahead of time.

Without further adieu, OP, let me just throw this out there partially based on the responses posted thus far:

- Any man who claims to have never tasted his own cum before is a bold-faced liar. (Out of curiosity, if nothing else. And why wouldn't you want to know how you would taste to another?)

- If you act as if your own ejaculate is disgusting, then don't expect your partner to feel differently. How did it make (generic male) you feel when someone spit out your cum, refused to swallow, or made a face as if you tasted nasty?

- There are vanilla men who are not squeamish about kissing a woman who's just given them head. Should a Dom be less manly?

- I've known vanilla men who had no qualms about going down on me (again) AFTER they'd already come inside of me, ones who had never heard of cream pie. These were men who loved the taste of a woman au naturale, sweat and all, because they were spontaneously passionate lovers.

- If I were with a new partner who exhibited signs of prissiness, I'd drop him like a hot potato.

- As for woman-on-woman action, I had experimented twice when I was much younger with my best friend, and it did not turn me on being with another female. (Couldn't help but note that I tasted better than she did, and there are dietary factors which contribute to taste and smell. Don't eat garlic, onion, or curry if you're not with someone who shares your culinary tastes. The same with fermented drink such as beer.)

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ORIGINAL: ARIES83

smileforme50,

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ORIGINAL: smileforme50
But why isn't a woman allowed to feel (essentially) the same way?

You can feel however you want smile, if you don't like it don't do it.
Everyone of my long term partners has swallowed, and if they didn't, then they didn't make it to long term.
In my case, if you don't like doing it, then we are not compatible.

One of my partners said I tasted "pepperminty" so that may be a factor in me finding that most girls will swallow without much drama.

I'm not under any delusions, obviously there are a lot of girls would find it gross (I've only met three but I'm assuming there are more). However, its a personal preference and there are a lot of girls that do like doing it...

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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

It's been my experience men fall into one of two categories, those who have (of course) tasted their own cum and have zero problem with kissing after a blow job or whatever.

Then there are those who treat sperm as a biohazard.

I tend to like the former and not get on with the later.

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ORIGINAL: smileforme50

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ORIGINAL: ARIES83

smileforme50,

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ORIGINAL: smileforme50
But why isn't a woman allowed to feel (essentially) the same way?

You can feel however you want smile, if you don't like it don't do it.
Everyone of my long term partners has swallowed, and if they didn't, then they didn't make it to long term.
In my case, if you don't like doing it, then we are not compatible.

One of my partners said I tasted "pepperminty" so that may be a factor in me finding that most girls will swallow without much drama.

I'm not under any delusions, obviously there are a lot of girls would find it gross (I've only met three but I'm assuming there are more). However, its a personal preference and there are a lot of girls that do like doing it...

However.....just to clarify.... I'm not saying I don't want to give a man oral..... I'm Saying I don't want to do it on another woman. Are you saying that's woman who doesn't want to give another woman oral wouldn't make it long term with you?

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I can deal with a guy who treats his cum like biohazard....but it drives me crazy if he does that.....yet expects me to have no qualms about me sticking my head into another woman's pussy. C'mon guys....at least don't be hypocrites if I say I don't want to do it.

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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

It's been my experience men fall into one of two categories, those who have (of course) tasted their own cum and have zero problem with kissing after a blow job or whatever.

Then there are those who treat sperm as a biohazard.

I tend to like the former and not get on with the later.

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ORIGINAL: Blonderfluff

I have always swallowed. Always. I think I just love all the messy, sweaty, sticky things that come with good sex. I've never been with anyone who treated their own ejaculate as a "Biohazard". I actually find the idea of that kinda funny. Really?? That to me seems very hmmm...anti- sexy!! There is nothing better than lying there afterward, panting, sticking to each other, and reeking of sex.

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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant

Hmmm... didn't know that was sexy. I'm just a primal fucker that shows my appreciation INTENSELY!

but, thanx for noticing

xoxoxoxo
Exiled