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RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there..... - 3/20/2014 7:57:42 AM   
angelikaJ


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I just am not able to see the comparison between a guy tasting his own and you going down on another women.

You find the idea gross.
But it has nothing to do with what she might taste like.
The idea is repellent to you.

And if it is a hard limit then it is a hard limit.
After you have stated that once, when a guy brings it up again, then he has proven that the 2 of you are incompatible as partners.
You don't need to justify it.
It simply is a hard limit for you.


You don't see the comparison?? Really?

I'm giving the (straight) guys a bit of a break because I know they would all totally freak out if I suggested the true comparison of them blowing another man....I already KNOW that none of them would admit to doing that. But it irritates me that most of them are so repulsed by the mere mention of them performing a homosexual act. Yet they think that women should be willing to go down on each without any hesitation.

It's doesn't matter that it's a hard limit for me. I'm just asking THEM to not be such hypocrites.


They don't know they are being hypocritical.
They only know one thing: that to them, gal on gal is extremely hot.
So trying to approach it with any sort of logic isn't going to work.
Logic can't apply: the blood flow is being diverted to other places.


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RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there..... - 3/20/2014 9:36:03 AM   
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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

They don't know they are being hypocritical.
They only know one thing: that to them, gal on gal is extremely hot.
So trying to approach it with any sort of logic isn't going to work.
Logic can't apply: the blood flow is being diverted to other places.


For whatever it's worth, an LGBT-friendly psychotherapist I know told me that she has observed that straight males who have a gal-on-gal voyeuristic fetish often have suppressed/repressed bisexual tendencies which they have found consciously acceptable to project in this manner.

In other words, it's acceptable to get turned on by seeing two females together performing sexual acts and to be fascinated by this prospect, but not two males. That hits too close to home per homophobia, hence the seeming hypocrisy. In some cases, the voyeuristic male is actually identifying with one of the females. She says it's not uncommon for this type of male to choose a female avatar he can hide behind or to impersonate a female on line.

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RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there..... - 3/20/2014 10:05:25 AM   
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ORIGINAL: FieryOpal


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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

They don't know they are being hypocritical.
They only know one thing: that to them, gal on gal is extremely hot.
So trying to approach it with any sort of logic isn't going to work.
Logic can't apply: the blood flow is being diverted to other places.


For whatever it's worth, an LGBT-friendly psychotherapist I know told me that she has observed that straight males who have a gal-on-gal voyeuristic fetish often have suppressed/repressed bisexual tendencies which they have found consciously acceptable to project in this manner.

In other words, it's acceptable to get turned on by seeing two females together performing sexual acts and to be fascinated by this prospect, but not two males. That hits too close to home per homophobia, hence the seeming hypocrisy. In some cases, the voyeuristic male is actually identifying with one of the females. She says it's not uncommon for this type of male to choose a female avatar he can hide behind or to impersonate a female on line.


And what about the men who are not turned on by it? They gay as well? Quacks.

If you don't like dicks, you're gay. If you don't like swallowing cum you're gay. If you like swallowing cum you're gay. If you like seeing two hot naked women have sex and make all sort of noises, you're certainly gay.


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RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there..... - 3/20/2014 11:01:55 AM   
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And what about the men who are not turned on by it? They gay as well? Quacks.

If you don't like dicks, you're gay. If you don't like swallowing cum you're gay. If you like swallowing cum you're gay. If you like seeing two hot naked women have sex and make all sort of noises, you're certainly gay.


What does men who are NOT turned on by watching two women getting it on have to do with anything?
The same could be said for people who don't get into watching pornography. Being fixated on watching other people engage in sexual activities, or getting a sexual charge out of watching others (Peeping Tomming) is being voyeuristic.
People who aren't voyeuristic don't get any thrill out of it.

Nobody said that a man who's homophobic IS gay himself. A phobia is a fear, which could stem from any number of pathologies. That would be reaching....

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RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there..... - 3/20/2014 6:30:50 PM   
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Meh. I think therapists like to use homophobia as an excuse for nearly everything. I take it all with one big giant huge boulder of salt.


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RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there..... - 3/20/2014 6:59:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ


They don't know they are being hypocritical.
They only know one thing: that to them, gal on gal is extremely hot.
So trying to approach it with any sort of logic isn't going to work.
Logic can't apply: the blood flow is being diverted to other places.



Yeah...I know....I'm learning. I just asked because I wanted to know if it was just the guys in my little corner of the cosmos....or if it was universal.


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RE: About Cum....A question for all the men out there..... - 3/21/2014 4:57:53 AM   
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All MM needed to know was did I like giving head & did I swallow. He found a very enthusiastic response to both. I swear I have never seen an entire movie. What he calls a *tiny kiss* had me laughing after about 3 days. I love burying my face in snootch grass, but dayum lemme come up for air & work the kinks outta my neck.

He's equal opportunity, goes down on me after. He's also careful of his diet. And I drink a lot of pineapple juice. He'll to the yes, he's come into contact with his cum , and I've tasted mine. BIG WHOOP!! I'm not about to make a federal case out of it or break out the bio-hazard suits. It's all a part of life, deal & chill.

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