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HI! I'm Tom - 3/21/2014 9:18:42 PM

toml721

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Hi, I'm a sub, looking for a Goddess. I already know a few ladies here from other sites but here to make new friends and most of all LEARN LEARN LEARN.!! :))

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RE: HI! I'm Tom - 3/21/2014 9:37:51 PM

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Hello and welcome to the boards, Tom.

< Message edited by MasterCaneman -- 3/21/2014 9:38:15 PM >

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RE: HI! I'm Tom - 3/22/2014 6:04:04 AM

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Welcome, tom! This is a great place to read and learn. Ask a Mistress has many threads that will help you avoid a lot of the pitfalls that male subs seem to fall into. Glad you joined us.

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RE: HI! I'm Tom - 3/22/2014 9:28:09 AM

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Hi Tom. Welcome!!

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RE: HI! I'm Tom - 3/22/2014 9:45:08 AM

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Welcome to the forum. I'll second the suggestion to dig through the archives. The Search feature can be a bit clunky, but if you're patient you can dig up past threads on just about any topic. The Ask A Mistress section has a FAQ at the top of the page that has some excellent links, especially if you want help with crafting a profile and first message that stand out from the crowd.

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RE: HI! I'm Tom - 3/22/2014 11:00:38 AM

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Hello and welcome Tom its nice to have you join us.

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RE: HI! I'm Tom - 3/22/2014 7:48:42 PM

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HI! everyone thanks for all the welcomes. I was here several years ago but as a DOM. A few years ago I did some soul searching and came to the conclusion I'm no Dom. I can switch if motivated but I need a mistress to start us off. I still have fetishes and hard limits but My basic wants and needs have changed. Does that make sense ??

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RE: HI! I'm Tom - 3/22/2014 8:41:55 PM

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Growth and change occur throughout a person's entire life. Sure, why not? Whatever makes you happy, makes you happy.

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RE: HI! I'm Tom - 3/23/2014 12:22:38 AM

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Tom,

I totally understand switching the side of the kneel you're on. I started out as a sub & now I'm a Domme. No problem with changing at all.

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RE: HI! I'm Tom - 3/23/2014 6:35:02 AM

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growth and learning to find one's self.

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RE: HI! I'm Tom - 3/23/2014 7:58:35 AM

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Welcome to the fun side of CM Tom. Please stick around and join in our discussions.

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RE: HI! I'm Tom - 3/23/2014 9:52:30 AM

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I plan to. Thanks for the invite. I do want to learn from those who know more than I do about all this.

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RE: HI! I'm Tom - 3/24/2014 4:06:20 AM

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Welcome Tom.
You may consider the idea that some of your friends may already have profiles on collarme.
Enjoy the forums.

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RE: HI! I'm Tom - 3/24/2014 4:35:55 AM

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Hi Tom!!!!
Welcome!
Join in the convo.

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RE: HI! I'm Tom - 3/24/2014 8:29:46 PM

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Thanks TDMdommek. :)) I've got into another convo about chastity belts for men. Its been interesting

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