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RE: A Discussion on Submissives With Anal Issues With E... - 3/25/2014 8:35:16 AM   
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RE: A Discussion on Submissives With Anal Issues With E... - 3/25/2014 9:08:03 AM   
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Status: offline 		Dear Josh,

I want to thank you. Thanks to this thread, you have answered an inner question that I had been asking Myself for the last couple of days.

My other half, wonderful man that he is, bought Me a new computer as an anniversary gift. Which means the old one with all of My little funny things bookmarked, has gone to pasture. I was wondering just how long it would be before somebody would come up with a thread that would be so suited for the "Mistress Janice, Mistress" link to come in handy. I now have My answer and it was exactly two days.

Somebody roll the guy the video so I can bookmark it again.


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RE: A Discussion on Submissives With Anal Issues With E... - 3/25/2014 10:05:04 AM   
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What did you get him for a present?

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RE: A Discussion on Submissives With Anal Issues With E... - 3/25/2014 10:12:55 AM   
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Your so spoilt!
What did you get him for a present?

Believe Me. I know. I wish every person who wanted it could have My life. (OK, that and some KFC <grin>)

I gave him what he really wanted. Me.



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RE: A Discussion on Submissives With Anal Issues With E... - 3/25/2014 10:18:07 AM   
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RE: A Discussion on Submissives With Anal Issues With E... - 3/25/2014 11:53:24 AM   
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RE: A Discussion on Submissives With Anal Issues With E... - 3/25/2014 11:57:34 AM   
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ORIGINAL: VideoAdminChi

She posted it on youtube after hearing that Xtranormal was shutting down: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=drcTRzO2wMk

This is so funny! Every time I watch it I almost die laughing!! lol

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RE: A Discussion on Submissives With Anal Issues With E... - 3/25/2014 11:59:43 AM   
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Status: offline 		Ok, but give credit where it's due. It was funny.



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RE: A Discussion on Submissives With Anal Issues With E... - 3/25/2014 4:10:51 PM   
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ORIGINAL: joshua69


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ORIGINAL: searching4mysir

FR

Josh - most people here don't care what gets you off, particularly since we don't know you yet. Most people here are not interested in giving you wank fodder.


What's true for most it true for all? Is that what you really mean? Or is it just true for the for the vocal minority?

Before you get to know someone, you may take some to look at yourself and ask "Is this a person that really I'd want to meet?"



Are you being intentionally illiterate?

There is a reason I used the word "most" and it comes from almost 3 years of experience in these forums. I have yet to see anyone say "oh yes, please give me more of your wank fodder...please tell me more, in graphic detail, about what turns you on", particularly with strangers.


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RE: A Discussion on Submissives With Anal Issues With E... - 3/25/2014 4:20:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		oh yes, please give me more of your wank fodder...please tell me more, in graphic detail, about what turns you on.

There, now you can cross that off your bucket list :)

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RE: A Discussion on Submissives With Anal Issues With E... - 3/25/2014 7:18:27 PM   
MercTech


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Status: offline 		A word choice hit me with a mental speed bump.
The only place I've ever heard the term "cornhole" or "cornholed" (other than Beavis & Butthead) was from clueless homophobic high school jocks.

Now, I know I'm an old fart and often clueless on current pop culture. I have to ask if the term "cornhole" become part of normal gay patois now?

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RE: A Discussion on Submissives With Anal Issues With E... - 3/25/2014 7:28:06 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't see anything wrong with cornholing. It's fun, and I like doing it myself every now and again. Heck, a few years ago a group of my friends from college got drunk and all cornholed together outside a bar -- they had a nice big spot just for cornholing, with seats and everything so people could watch. They used to have cornholing tournaments, too! At my country's fair every year, there's even a cornholing tournament for kids. It's always fun to watch the cute little guys do it, especially since they're little they can't chuck their sacks quite so far and have to cornhole closer together.

Though I don't get what would be so special, better or worse about cornholing from behind. Just seems harder to hit the board to me, why would you want to do something that makes you score less?

Cough.

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RE: A Discussion on Submissives With Anal Issues With E... - 3/25/2014 7:28:31 PM   
ChatteParfaitt


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Status: offline 		Now remember I live in a small town in In that is surrounded by acres of rural farmland. Every now and then we go by the Elks Cub and they're advertising their cornhole night.

Ahhhhhhhh the jokes I get from himself when they have their cornhole sign up.

What the hell is a cornhole night, anyway?

ETA: I swear to God the above post came in while I was posting.







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RE: A Discussion on Submissives With Anal Issues With E... - 3/25/2014 7:33:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

Now remember I live in a small town in In that is surrounded by acres of rural farmland. Every now and then we go by the Elks Cub and they're advertising their cornhole night.

Ahhhhhhhh the jokes I get from himself when they have their cornhole sign up.

What the hell is a cornhole night, anyway?


Eh, I might as well ruin the joke. It's horseshoes for rednecks. Well, bigger rednecks. It's kind of like Schlitz is the beer for people too trashy for Old Milwaukee. Take two plywood boards, cut a hole in them and prop them up, and throw canvas bags full of dried corn at them. Scoring is determined by whether you can land a bag on the board, or throw it into the hole.

Yes, it's much more fun when you're drunk.

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RE: A Discussion on Submissives With Anal Issues With E... - 3/25/2014 10:52:20 PM   
NiceButMeanGirl


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Status: offline 		As long as I and Pinky(i.e. my strap-on) are on the giving end, I like cornholing. lol Otherwise, it's a hard limit for me.

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RE: A Discussion on Submissives With Anal Issues With E... - 3/26/2014 3:21:47 AM   
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ORIGINAL: NiceButMeanGirl

As long as I and Pinky(i.e. my strap-on) are on the giving end, I like cornholing. lol Otherwise, it's a hard limit for me.

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I'm curious. You've said before you started as a submissive, is this correct? If so, was it a hard limit as a submissive?

Please feel free not to answer, if it's none of my business. I know its a bit off topic but I was wondering if it became a hard limit due to the dominance factor.

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RE: A Discussion on Submissives With Anal Issues With E... - 3/26/2014 5:46:52 AM   
ChatteParfaitt


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RE: A Discussion on Submissives With Anal Issues With E... - 3/26/2014 8:08:13 AM   
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Status: offline 		So that is what cornholes means in english. In my language it is something you can get when you try electrowelding on nonferrous metals.

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RE: A Discussion on Submissives With Anal Issues With E... - 3/26/2014 10:17:25 AM   
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RE: A Discussion on Submissives With Anal Issues With E... - 3/26/2014 11:33:51 AM   
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ORIGINAL: joshua69
Say, do you like to get cornholed?
So, a simple question for those of you subbies that are so inclined: Why, in your own words, do you like to be taken from behind by your Mistress or Master? What does it really mean to you?


Yes. But after an anal rape in the late 90's I was so traumatized that I stopped doing it until just last summer. So it was about fifteen years of denying that aspect of my sexuality because of the trauma involved with it. I enjoyed the single time I did it last summer, safer sex rules applied of course, even though it was a one night stand with an acquaintance met online.

Why do I like it? And you ask in particular about the position of being taken from behind? The pelvic floor is a powerfully equipped area for sensation play, so obviously I enjoy the sheer explosion of sensation that it produces in this core area of my body. I like the submissiveness of it, in particular when the act is combined with various permutations of bondage and sensory deprivation. I like that it can be achieved with any number of different toys in all shapes and sizes and styles that produce a wide variety of sensations. I like that it can be established with a toy, in combination with other forms of stimulation, and then my dominant can come at me from another direction completely and often by surprise, or just leave me impaled and bound, then objectify me for a couple of hours while doing whatever it is she/he desires.

What does it really mean to me? For me, now, it is a vital step in recovery. I am reclaiming an aspect of my sexuality that was once integral for me. I need it to be integral again. I am overcoming bad associations, flashbacks, rape triggers, nightmares and a metric fuck-ton of other bad shit by taking the practice back up. I've recently acquired a wonderful new dildo, fabulously soft, and a nice eight inches and thick. It is the same as my favorite one from before the incident. I have been practicing with it and have really been rediscovering the pleasure I get from anal stimulation. It is a process, and I look forward to the day when it comes without any of the automatic negative though patterns, or at least the day when they are so easily brushed aside that they are mere annoyances rather than impediments to my being who I fully am in my sexuality.


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