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barelynangel -> RE: a fake submissive? (12/5/2004 9:17:25 AM)
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I am new here but would like to express my thoughts on this. I do not believe you to be "fake" in anyway for needing more and wanting more. I think it comes down to what you believe a Dom to be. I tend to believe subs should stay away from married men unless they have seriously comtemplated all aspects of what the relationship will be and whether it will be fulfilling for them in the true sense of what they need and expect a D/s relationship to me and understand what they will be giving up for themselves.. If you want to simply have play time and someone to scene with, then go for it because you will get only that. But if you want a relationship... don't expect it from a married man, if his wife does not know. The ones who have a polymarraige can allow for relationships. for most people poly relationships are not easily obtained, its even harder when one party is expecting the other to sneak around with him.
Maybe i am being a little blunt here but its all said in honest concern as i could see your frustration and uncertainty. If he is telling you to get a vanilla boyfriend to take care of the emotional part of what you need, is the relationship with your Dom as he defines it what you want and need in your life?
well wishes.. angel
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