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RE: i want to be trained byba mistress online or throug... - 4/13/2014 2:28:08 AM

ThePrincessKali

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ORIGINAL: al1986

Any suggestions

Pay someone. Seeing as your a complete stranger and not someone I'm in a relationship with I have absolutely no desire to train or dominate you online. It does nothing for me. So if you want an online session your best bet is to pay someone. Or try to meet a dominant woman, get to know her on a vanilla level, court her, and then once the relationship becomes sexual discuss your fantasies. But it seems your looking for some instant gratification so you should probably just get your wallet out.

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RE: i want to be trained byba mistress online or throug... - 4/13/2014 3:35:25 AM

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the dick pic is a big turn-off for most women. I have zero interest in a man's body parts unless I am in a relationship with him.

quoted for truth....also, if I would be in such a search, I would next to mentioned "hun" speak, avoid text speak....sometimes in a letter to a friend it can happen that I do it in a few moments, like FFS or so, but if your text gets a lot just text speak, I would not be bothered if I would be a domme....as that appears to me pretty lazy...and why bothering getting in touch with a guy who can't even be bothered to write with proper words for the most time, in replies...

but that's just me....good luck...

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RE: i want to be trained byba mistress online or throug... - 4/13/2014 6:05:06 AM

thishereboi

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And stop calling people hun.

Why? I checked his profile, and he's from northern NJ. There and around the Philadelphia area, it's a common greeting in everyday conversation there. It means nothing and isn't meant to be condescending. Stop speaking for everyone. You could ask him not to call YOU hun. If he actually talks to you.

It may be a everyday greeting where he is from but right now he is online and according to the thread title, he is looking for an online relationship. He also seems to be asking for help with this. So where is the harm in suggesting he doesn't use that term? Personally I think it was good advise. When you are online the only thing you have is your words. I also think a good spell checker would help in this case along with a few lessons on sentence structure.

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RE: i want to be trained byba mistress online or throug... - 4/13/2014 4:38:03 PM

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I agree with the condescending pet names. But I sense that OP wasn't referring it in that manner.
I say things like "hello love" or "yes daaaaaarling" but if it's offensive or offending a certain person, I wouldnt do it.
I think the OP wouldn't do it either if he thought it offensive. At least I hope not.

Now to answer the question first asked....
OP training through text isn't impossible but very hard, especially if you don't know the Domme.
Tone is very important and until you are familiar with her tone and inflections, it would be hard to understand her commands.
But, if you're just wanting a cut and dry version, find one of these young fin ducks who need money and arrange that. Good luck to you.

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RE: i want to be trained byba mistress online or throug... - 4/13/2014 10:28:57 PM

LafayetteLady

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The OP is about 20-30 minutes from me. "Hun" is NOT a common term used by anyone to strangers other than. Waitresses.

OP, I realize you meant no offense, but still not endearing to most. Also since this is a written forum, leav the text speak for your phone. Here, in this medium, we are limited to how you wrrite and what you say to get an impression. Text speak doesn't give a good impression.

Good luck and if you have questions, feel free to shot me a cmail on the other side.

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RE: i want to be trained byba mistress online or throug... - 4/16/2014 1:41:47 PM

MissAelle

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Weeeeell... I'm not exactly the most experienced person on here but I know how I feel about stuff, and how I feel is that using terms like "trained, collared and owned" makes it look like you've got this porn-induced fantasy you're going for, rather than something more serious. To me, they feel like very vague terms. What exactly do they mean to you? Maybe try and flesh out what you actually want a bit more and go for that. Not a laundry list of your fetishes, of course, because no one likes that kind of thing, but yeah.

(And I don't like pet names when it's not someone I know. It's demeaning. Just my two cents.)

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