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RE: A new Dom seeking answers! - 4/16/2014 7:09:39 PM

Chwilfrydig

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I'm still thinking about this whole thread, and I want to clarify something I said in my previous post. I listed things that would attract me to a potential partner.

In order to then choose to enter a relationship with that person, a whole 'nother set of personal requirements would kick in. Like being a good communicator, kind, able to make me laugh, empathetic, open-minded, able to make me laugh, primal, able to pick their damn socks off the floor, able to make me laugh and so on.

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RE: A new Dom seeking answers! - 4/16/2014 11:18:36 PM

yournewsextoy

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hello i find this lifestyle a fun and very erotic of which i am willingly to try new things i want to be controlled,i want pain and get humiliated

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RE: A new Dom seeking answers! - 4/16/2014 11:43:06 PM

norahS

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Do many Doms have an age limit. Meaning is there an age of the sub that you think is too young, or too old, to take on as a new sub? Or is there a range of years between you and the new sub that limits who you will play with?

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RE: A new Dom seeking answers! - 4/16/2014 11:58:28 PM

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Do many Doms have an age limit. Meaning is there an age of the sub that you think is too young, or too old, to take on as a new sub? Or is there a range of years between you and the new sub that limits who you will play with?

As I've aged my age limits have kept pace. At 62, I tried a 22-year-old "slave" that had no clue. He was clue-less about life in general. Not to tar the Connected Generation with that brush, but he could've been my Grandson. (He jumped my bones since that's what he wanted - a Grandfather. OOPS! Not this guy, y'know?)

Current restrictions are 34-54. That is 10 to twenty 20 years younger. Might be flexible at both ends, but shared world-view is important to ANY relationship. BUT in BDSM terms - ABSOLUTELY no older than I am since I'm the Dom..

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