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fatguyinca -> "Anal leash" help and ideas (4/12/2014 8:13:03 AM)

I'm somewhat new to this place so hopefully I'm posting my question in the correct place.

Last night I gave my sub a task where she basically had to tie a string around a doorknob on one end and to an anal plug on the other end. She then had to lap up a bowl of milk placed right at the end of her reach without letting the plug get pulled out.

It was pretty fun, she said she enjoyed the feeling of being on a leash.

So, given that info, I'm wondering if anyone has any ideas on similar things I can make her do to get that feeling of being on a leash.



poise -> RE: "Anal leash" help and ideas (4/12/2014 8:21:46 AM)

Why can't it be as simple as buying a leash and putting it on her?

Also, and as an aside to your question, are you aware that your profile states that you're the submissive?



Chwilfrydig -> RE: "Anal leash" help and ideas (4/12/2014 9:41:41 AM)

Hi fatguyinca,

In the movie Ferris Bueller's Day Off, Ferris built an ingenious contraption in his bedroom to make it appear he was sick in bed. You could use this for inspiration.

Other ideas, just off the top of my head:

The string could be attached to her hair dryer after she washes her hair. Then command her to dry her hair.

It could be attached to the button of a blouse. Command her to dress. Then command her to undress.

Tie the string to the overhead light and command her to run in circles below it on her hands and knees.

A really long string could go from her to the door to the window and then back to her. Use screw eyes on the door and window (not on her) so the string runs free. Then you could command her to open the door, open the window, now close the door, now shut the window and so on.

I could do this all day - do you want more ideas? Are these the kinds of things you're looking for?


ETA - Oops, thought I was replying to the OP. And to correct grammar.



fatguyinca -> RE: "Anal leash" help and ideas (4/12/2014 4:19:19 PM)

Chwilfrydig,

Those are exactly things I'm looking for. Thanks a bunch!

And yes, if you've got more ideas I'd love to hear them.



Chwilfrydig -> RE: "Anal leash" help and ideas (4/12/2014 5:55:56 PM)

Before I come up with more ideas, may I ask you what she liked about being on this leash? Was it just a fun, sexy activity or did it make her feel more secure and submissive? The ideas I listed are more for the first reason.

If she liked it because it made her feel more secure under your dominance, then you might consider moving from a string to a leather leash or even a chain. Have her hook it to the door knob or bed frame, and command her to kneel quietly for a set period of time and think about what her submission to you means. Then you could move on to the fun stuff. [;)]



CelticPrince -> RE: "Anal leash" help and ideas (4/18/2014 2:10:23 AM)

I am with poise!

CP



assmaster75 -> RE: "Anal leash" help and ideas (7/10/2014 2:15:27 PM)

You should use an inflatable plug with a leash on it. It she pulls then the plug with come out at fill size, thus causing it to hurt. This is what a leash is supposed to do.



Arturas -> RE: "Anal leash" help and ideas (7/11/2014 6:09:19 AM)

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So, given that info, I'm wondering if anyone has any ideas on similar things I can make her do to get that feeling of being on a leash.


I take Star to dinner in a collar and short fine chain. To a nice place, a family place. Make her also wear a radio controlled bullet for that extra spice to the meal. It's amazing how accepted this is, a lovely submissive in slut uniform and collar and chain.



JstAnotherSub -> RE: "Anal leash" help and ideas (7/11/2014 11:55:08 AM)

Just because folks don't tell you that you are a jerk for bringing them into your kink, it doesn't mean that it is well accepted.



Arturas -> RE: "Anal leash" help and ideas (7/11/2014 12:28:50 PM)


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ORIGINAL: JstAnotherSub

Just because folks don't tell you that you are a jerk for bringing them into your kink, it doesn't mean that it is well accepted.


I said accepted and it was. Collared women can be seen and are accepted in public places.

It's regrettable that you must post an insult to a Dom and his submissive for being in the BDSM lifestyle not only online, in the club, in the bedroom but also while sharing a romantic dinner. Having dinner in collar and short leash is a good way to meet the OP's goal IMO. I can tell you Star enjoys both collar, my love and dinner with me. The bullet control I did enjoy also.



JstAnotherSub -> RE: "Anal leash" help and ideas (7/11/2014 12:37:46 PM)

That was not an insult.



InHisHeart -> RE: "Anal leash" help and ideas (7/11/2014 1:01:42 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Arturas

I said accepted and it was. Collared women can be seen and are accepted in public places.


Yes, collared women can be seen in public, some people will accept it, some won't. Unless you ask the person or they comment on it, no one knows if others seeing it are accepting of it or not but as long as nothing being done is illegal and you're not hurting anyone by what you do then it doesn't matter what others think.



Arturas -> RE: "Anal leash" help and ideas (7/11/2014 1:27:37 PM)

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ORIGINAL: InHisHeart


quote:

ORIGINAL: Arturas

I said accepted and it was. Collared women can be seen and are accepted in public places.


Yes, collared women can be seen in public, some people will accept it, some won't. Unless you ask the person or they comment on it, no one knows if others seeing it are accepting of it or not but as long as nothing being done is illegal and you're not hurting anyone by what you do then it doesn't matter what others think.



So you agree women are free to wear their collars in public. Are they not brave to do so? I do think so. Especially the first time. I remember that night well. I think she enjoys her collar most when in public. I think it is less a kink thing than a freedom to be yourself. I think if a submissive is wearing her collar in public she is living her lifestyle rather than pushing a kink. She is experiencing the freedom the OP is discussing in a way that lets her be herself, just as anyone does when being true to themselves. For example, a transvestite woman in public is not pushing her kink on someone but is instead being true to herself. Back to Star, she is not pretending to be a submissive, only on a forum for instance, but is one wherever she travels, even to dinner with her one.



amaidiamond -> RE: "Anal leash" help and ideas (7/11/2014 1:28:54 PM)

"To a nice place, a family place."

So in front of kids?

I wear a 24/7 metal collar but it looks like jewelry - what happens when a small child asks questions?




Arturas -> RE: "Anal leash" help and ideas (7/11/2014 1:39:42 PM)


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ORIGINAL: amaidiamond

"To a nice place, a family place."

So in front of kids?

I wear a 24/7 metal collar but it looks like jewelry - what happens when a small child asks questions?




I would answer my child honestly in terms one should prudently use with children. After all, Star is not wearing or doing anything kinky and/or illegal. She is not bound to the chair and forced to eat like a dog. That would be a problem. But a collar, high heels and short skirt is not. So, any child's question can be handled as well as any question about anything out of the ordinary.

Where did you get your collar?



GotSteel -> RE: "Anal leash" help and ideas (7/11/2014 1:43:05 PM)


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ORIGINAL: InHisHeart
Yes, collared women can be seen in public, some people will accept it, some won't.


Frankly on account of the goths, emos, punks and metal fans I don't think the general public gets that collar means collar. They're so commonly worn as a fashion accessory. Unless it's a collar that screams BDSM, should be fine. The leash on the other hand......



Moderator7 -> RE: "Anal leash" help and ideas (7/11/2014 1:43:05 PM)

Please go back to the original topic. If you wish to continue your discussion you will need to start a new thread. Thank you.



Arturas -> RE: "Anal leash" help and ideas (7/11/2014 1:48:44 PM)

.. deleted to remain on subject. Thanks.



amaidiamond -> RE: "Anal leash" help and ideas (7/11/2014 1:49:23 PM)

Sorry mod 7



GotSteel -> RE: "Anal leash" help and ideas (7/11/2014 1:51:35 PM)


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ORIGINAL: fatguyinca
So, given that info, I'm wondering if anyone has any ideas on similar things I can make her do to get that feeling of being on a leash.


Well if she likes the feeling of being on a leash you could always just put her on a leash. If you're looking for a more secure anal leash here's a butt plug that will lock into the ass and a leash can be attached to the lock:

http://store.fetishfactory.com/product_details/150246/locking_flower_butt_plug.html

P.S. It sounds like the two of you are into pet play, there are forums on fetlife.com with a lot of resources about that kink specifically where you could get ideas.



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