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New Sub/Slave wants to feel violated. - 4/13/2014 1:27:42 PM

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My current sub and I are about to meet and new woman who desires to join us in a poly situation. That being said the idea came up for me perform a full body inspection as I did with my current sub when we meet. Today while talking to her she said she is very excited for me to inspect and touch her wherever and however I want. She is a little on the thick side but still very sexy. I asked if she had any concerns about the inspection. She wrote back that she was mainly concerned I would not be pleased with her weight but then added that she would very much like to feel Violated or Molested during it.

What I am here to ask is beyond some of the basics like man handling her, sliding fingers or toys in her orifices, exploring her body, pinching and squeezing, etc do any of you ladies have any additional ideas. If you have no experience with a situation like a consenting body inspection then I would like you to think what would make you feel violated, molested, owned even. Please reply soon we both meet her Wednesday evening 4/16/2014.

RE: New Sub/Slave wants to feel violated. - 4/13/2014 1:37:12 PM

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Grab her by the chin and make her look you straight in the eye and thell her "you may never again do that without permission". Hair yanking. throat grasping, spraying with vinegar and water to dissenfect her then making her stand outside, dusting her with baking soda, hosing her off for the grand finale.

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RE: New Sub/Slave wants to feel violated. - 4/13/2014 1:55:52 PM

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Don't actually manhandle her. Meaning, don't touch her. Use only utensils or light tools (not toys specifically for sex) to prod at her and spread her apart. Touch her only after the inspection.

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RE: New Sub/Slave wants to feel violated. - 4/13/2014 2:03:30 PM

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What I am here to ask is beyond some of the basics like man handling her, sliding fingers or toys in her orifices, exploring her body, pinching and squeezing, etc do any of you ladies have any additional ideas. If you have no experience with a situation like a consenting body inspection then I would like you to think what would make you feel violated, molested, owned even. Please reply soon we both meet her Wednesday evening 4/16/2014.

Go slow, and be verbal. Don't use words like "fat," "large," etc., because those would probably break bad. But do say things like, "Spread your legs and touch your toes." Then sit behind her in a chair, so you have a good view. "I'm sitting behind you in a chair while you're naked and touching your toes. What do you think my view is like? What do you think I can see?" She mumbles something like, "everything." Heightens the embarrassment, while still in a safe space because you're enjoying what you see.

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RE: New Sub/Slave wants to feel violated. - 4/13/2014 2:18:46 PM

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I already had plans like this. Definitely now going to refer to her weight at all. She desires to get into humiliation as long as I never make it about her weight. I figured I would sit on the couch with her in the middle of the room. Tell the new one to stand still, have my 1st sub undress her. Go through some positions, on all fours have her pull her ass cheeks apart. On her back with her legs spread. At somepoint finger her and take a sniff, offer that same finger to my 1st sub and say " What is your opinion" presumable it will smell fantastic like a good pussy should. Tell sub#1 taste it and let me know if it is acceptable. A few other things to include making the new woman suck my finger or thumb before slide it into her ass and rub her clit at the same time until she cums. Then put the ass finger/thumb into her mouth. She is into sucking cock after anal so this should not freak her out.

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RE: New Sub/Slave wants to feel violated. - 4/13/2014 2:20:43 PM

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Don't actually manhandle her. Meaning, don't touch her. Use only utensils or light tools (not toys specifically for sex) to prod at her and spread her apart. Touch her only after the inspection.

I might have to consider something like this. We are meeting at her house so maybe I will have to dig through the kitchen drawers before hand. I figure using her own kitchen tools will be more embarrassing especially the next time she cooks a meal for family members.

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RE: New Sub/Slave wants to feel violated. - 4/13/2014 2:21:59 PM

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...or have a pail of warm water handy and a washcloth and wash her (or have your sub wash her) as part of the inspection.

I like this question.

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RE: New Sub/Slave wants to feel violated. - 4/13/2014 2:22:36 PM

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Grab her by the chin and make her look you straight in the eye and thell her "you may never again do that without permission". Hair yanking. throat grasping, spraying with vinegar and water to dissenfect her then making her stand outside, dusting her with baking soda, hosing her off for the grand finale.

Well she lives in an apartment so outside nude and hosing down wont realy work and I want her to feel violated, humiliated, and/or molested not like she is disease infested but I like where you head is at might do something like this after she is owned by me

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RE: New Sub/Slave wants to feel violated. - 4/13/2014 2:24:07 PM

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...or have a pail of warm water handy and a washcloth and wash her (or have your sub wash her) as part of the inspection.

I like this question.

Nice I like this. Maybe after my sub smells and tastes my finger from her pussy tell her to wash her pussy.

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RE: New Sub/Slave wants to feel violated. - 4/13/2014 2:24:07 PM

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ORIGINAL: Kaliko

Don't actually manhandle her. Meaning, don't touch her. Use only utensils or light tools (not toys specifically for sex) to prod at her and spread her apart. Touch her only after the inspection.

I might have to consider something like this. We are meeting at her house so maybe I will have to dig through the kitchen drawers before hand. I figure using her own kitchen tools will be more embarrassing especially the next time she cooks a meal for family members.

Have her dig through the drawers when you get there. :)

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RE: New Sub/Slave wants to feel violated. - 4/13/2014 2:26:37 PM

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Careful not to insult, though.....that fine line and all.

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RE: New Sub/Slave wants to feel violated. - 4/13/2014 2:31:14 PM

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Careful not to insult, though.....that fine line and all.

Oh I will be sure not to offend her.

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RE: New Sub/Slave wants to feel violated. - 4/13/2014 2:53:09 PM

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Where did all the suggests go. I am still interested in hearing other ideas and not just from those who have already put some up but some new people as well

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RE: New Sub/Slave wants to feel violated. - 4/13/2014 3:01:02 PM

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As a warm up, consider having her "display" (runway walk, model poses as directed by your submissive Tyra Banks style) before you do the hands on, and/or incorporate display as the clothes come off before you get to the more intense hands-on.

RedMagic is right about lots of verbal feedback. Keep it essentially neutral, ie. "My, my, look at that", and she'll take it the way she wants to.

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RE: New Sub/Slave wants to feel violated. - 4/13/2014 5:59:18 PM

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Grab her by the chin and make her look you straight in the eye and thell her "you may never again do that without permission". Hair yanking. throat grasping, spraying with vinegar and water to dissenfect her then making her stand outside, dusting her with baking soda, hosing her off for the grand finale.

Now, that gives me flashbacks of having to do body cavity inspections at a Navy brig.
Some of the guys that had been living on the street in drug town needed a scrub down with lysol.

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RE: New Sub/Slave wants to feel violated. - 4/14/2014 7:53:48 PM

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Just be carefl with the anal fingering thn sucking thae same finger don't want to make her sick. Like E coli or somethng like that.

Matt's littleone

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RE: New Sub/Slave wants to feel violated. - 5/12/2014 1:15:25 PM

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I'm confused as to some of the fantastical plans here. Have her stand there naked and have your sub tell her to "assume the position," with her hands on her head and her legs slightly spread. Stand in front of her and look her in the eyes until she looks away. If she doesn't then grab her throat quickly and look a bit bored/annoyed as your sub tells her that "little whores/slut/etc" (if she's a bit bigger she'll like the little comment) is only to look downwards as she is inspected. Walk around her slowly a couple times and have your sub do the touching (presenting a breast for you to inspect, grabbing an ass and letting it jiggle, opening her mouth, checking teeth, etc). During this time I would only touch her maybe once or twice. Revisit her tits and grab one, weigh it in your hand, then pinch her nipple hard and quick until she winces sharply. Have the sub tell her to bend over and spread her cheeks. Anytime she wants to say something have it said in third person, "Thank you sir/master for for taking time to inspect this slut's little holes (eg).
I liked the idea above of your sub smelling/tasting her off of your finger, although I would smell as well (not taste). I would then have your sub rub her clit until orgasm on all fours. After she is standing back up would have her bent over and slap her ass raw.

This might be a bit jumbled or nonsensical but I'm typing on my phone so everyone can suck it up.

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RE: New Sub/Slave wants to feel violated. - 5/12/2014 6:41:24 PM

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If some stranger who hadn't earned my trust called me a whore on the first time, I'd throw them out and never talk to them again.

Not everyone is into humiliation and degradation. It's always wiser to talk to the other person and find out what they're looking for in order to ensure a pleasurable outcome so that there might be a second play date.

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RE: New Sub/Slave wants to feel violated. - 5/12/2014 11:15:42 PM

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He's inspecting her naked the first time; they have laid out a hard limit. Violated and molested. Owned. Seemed to be a reasonable enough assumption. You should read the whole thread.

Obviously the list is there to be farmed for ideas, not necessarily taken as gospel.

It would also be more constructive for you to actually respond to the OP and provide a suggestion than commenting solely on your dislike with a word used in my post. I'm annoyed that I needed to comment in response to your poorly constructed one.

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RE: New Sub/Slave wants to feel violated. - 5/12/2014 11:37:26 PM

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It would also be more constructive if you left your attitude at the door, MatchurLimitsdom.

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