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Spiritedsub2 -> RE: If Women Don't Like penile shots, why do you show your pussy cats (4/21/2014 4:23:09 PM)

I'm one of those who is glad we cannot go back and rewrite or delete our posts. Except for the sock problem, this policy keeps us accountable for what we say. I think you hold the views you posted but are dismayed by the response you encountered, perhaps expected applause or approbation. I'd say, instead, own it. It's you.



MissCalculation -> RE: If Women Don't Like penile shots, why do you show your pussy cats (4/21/2014 4:35:59 PM)

@spiritedsub. I wholeheartedly agree. Let the record show the original intent for all to read.



DesFIP -> RE: If Women Don't Like penile shots, why do you show your pussy cats (4/21/2014 4:39:53 PM)

Apparently it will come as a shock to the op to discover that there are owners, male and female, who like to show off their subs' goodies. They want to know that everybody else has admired and desired that.

Beyond that, no, your rear end is not equivalent to your dangly bits. Nor are our breasts equivalent to a full spread shot.

If you can walk around in summer without a shirt then we should be able to go around in just a sports bra.

And for a real shocker, opie. I grew up on a nude beach. Literally thousands of people have seen my naked ass. It doesn't bother The Man at all.



TiedUpReady -> RE: If Women Don't Like penile shots, why do you show your pussy cats (4/21/2014 4:43:51 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Crouchingtiger77

quote:

I'm sorry to say this, but you don't get to dictate how anyone behaves, what they post or how they handle their account.

There isn't a blanket, universal way for s-types to behave.


You are correct and perhaps a better way to have put this may be:

Would it be a nice idea if women when posting photos to think, would their possible future dom/ domme / master / mistress like to undress and would this then be a type of courtesy to show to who one day may take you under their care and guidance?

maybe there is a better way to word this, not to leave it so close ended and would like suggestions on how you would word it if you were trying to keep it a suggestion in the most cordial of terms?
humm
I don't anything will work but trying


I won't suggest anything to put it in more cordial terms. The way it's worded is the way I intended it. If I had meant your rephrasing, I'd have said that.



NiceButMeanGirl -> RE: If Women Don't Like penile shots, why do you show your pussy cats (4/21/2014 5:22:58 PM)

CrouchingTiger:

1. Isn't 62 a little old to be using passive-aggressive shaming to attempt modifying others' behavior?

2. If a sub/slave is not yours, then it's none of your business what she/he does with her/his body.

3. You didn't start this thread, as you said, to "start a debate." You actually did it to stir up shit. You could at least own your own shit-stirring, I could respect that, but you won't so I don't.

NBMG



kdsub -> RE: If Women Don't Like penile shots, why do you show your pussy cats (4/21/2014 6:04:09 PM)

I admit... oh wrong thread...oh will... I admit I like pussy shots and really like a shot of a slim woman bent over from behind. We are different in this respect...but... Like you I find it hypocritical of women who complain about cock shots but never utter a word about all the spread cunts on this site.

LadyPact once asked me where I see all the spread pussies and asses... I told her where to look and she was honest enough to agree there were many cunt pictures she had not noticed...She also said she did not want to see cocks or spread cunts if my memory serves. And at least her views were consistent.

Unsolicited cock pictures are another thing however. If i want to post pictures of my cock on my profile and it shocks you if you look at them... too bad... but if I send them to you without your permission then i deserve your anger and disdain.

Butch

ps.. anyone want to see [:D]



pompeii -> RE: If Women Don't Like penile shots, why do you show your pussy cats (4/21/2014 6:08:42 PM)

Notwithstanding that women are the more inconsistent sex, it's only the men here who parade their cock shots.
My pet theory, wholly unproven and without any scientific basis whatsoever, is that the men want to show something sexy here, but like a girl putting on makeup for the first time in her life, the men don't have a clue HOW to be sexy.

On the other hand, the women have been practicing the art of being sexy since they were little girls, so they're way ahead of we men by this stage of the game.

It's best if the men just give up trying to be "sexy" per se, but that's preaching to the choir so I'll leave it at that.
DISCLAIMER: Wholly personal opinion. I haven't a shred of scientific evidence for what I believe to be the case.



TieMeInKnottss -> RE: If Women Don't Like penile shots, why do you show your pussy cats (4/21/2014 6:18:42 PM)

I am on both here and Alt. I have noticed that men are more likely to post penis photos. Now remember..in the real world men are also more likely to whip it out if they think it is impressive whereas I have never met a woman that shows off her vagina. Typically, IMHO...men seem to think it will "help"...women are more likely to show their breasts to put them ahead of the competition!

Sadly, I have read a nice profile and seen a decent fully clothed pic of a man that I think I would want to contact but then I will see he has a penis photo and that turns me off instantly; I won't bother to respond to them or to initial a conversation. I wonder how many men would still post penis pics if they realized how many MORE women they could meet if they removed those pics.



catize -> RE: If Women Don't Like penile shots, why do you show your pussy cats (4/21/2014 6:36:59 PM)

``FAST REPLY

Here's the thing; most het men like looking at pussies and tits. This, in turn, makes het men believe woman get excited by looking at a strangers cock, It really doesn't work that way.



Hillwilliam -> RE: If Women Don't Like penile shots, why do you show your pussy cats (4/21/2014 6:40:49 PM)

FR to the OP.


Maybe it's not women posting 'their' pictures.



kdsub -> RE: If Women Don't Like penile shots, why do you show your pussy cats (4/21/2014 6:51:56 PM)

lol... Am I the only perv that once in awhile avails themselves of the browse pictures feature?...Or just click on the profiles section presented?

There are women freely presenting their pussies and butts for view... they are doing it for the same reason men do... hoping the pictures get them a response to their profile.

I wish those that spew this we women are not as gross as you heathen men would just go check it out and see the truth... all women are not like you...in fact a good portion are not...They are just as perverted as us guys.

Butch



MistressDarkArt -> RE: If Women Don't Like penile shots, why do you show your pussy cats (4/21/2014 7:59:19 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: kdsub


I wish those that spew this we women are not as gross as you heathen men would just go check it out and see the truth... all women are not like you...in fact a good portion are not...They are just as perverted as us guys.

Butch


We may indeed be perverted where and when appropriate, Butch, but in general we are not as tasteless and crass as the general male populace on the CM side.

Please see post #2 of this thread by CrazyML (quoted here):

quote:

Hmm...

I think you'll find that outside the bevvy of fakes and stolen pictures, relatively few of the genuine subs are parading their la-lahs on their profiles.


I would also apply that statement to women in general here, of any stripe.



kdsub -> RE: If Women Don't Like penile shots, why do you show your pussy cats (4/21/2014 8:03:14 PM)

Well I am glad to know there is an appropriate time to be perverted... I was starting to worry about my soul there for awhile...[8D]

Butch



LookieNoNookie -> RE: If Women Don't Like penile shots, why do you show your pussy cats (4/21/2014 8:09:06 PM)

You actually said "pussy cats".

(He actually said "pussy cats").




SweetAnise -> RE: If Women Don't Like penile shots, why do you show your pussy cats (4/21/2014 8:47:46 PM)

To the OP: Crouching Tiger...Hidden Dragon? [:D]Doesn't matter though...no one can be told what or what not to do but if it isn't your preference don't talk to them. Pretty simple. And it is called a VAGINA or vaginal shot. [:)]



FieryOpal -> RE: If Women Don't Like penile shots, why do you show your pussy cats (4/22/2014 1:53:24 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: kdsub
<snip>
ps.. anyone want to see [:D]

Hey Butch, is there a time limit on this offer or has it already been rescinded? [8D]



CynthiaWVirginia -> RE: If Women Don't Like penile shots, why do you show your pussy cats (4/22/2014 3:18:33 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Crouchingtiger77

First, I like keeping things a bit clean at times, but to the point.
I understand why women don't wish to see a cock photo, they've
seen them and there is nothing special about it.

But,
second point, Same is true about a woman's pussy, her vagina, or her back side for that matter.

It does not need to be shown nor is it desired. It does not a thing for me.

Why?

Because main reason, it is the Dom's right to undress, to disrobe his sub, slave, and it is the wrapping then the unwrapping of same package which is part of the allure.

If you are a true sub or slave and you have shown your pussies / vaginas or asses and yes breasts as well, hang your collective heads in shame for taking away from whom would or may be your future master, dom, mistress or Domme their right to unwrap and disrobe for their own pleasure.

Heck, all you know, they may not wish at first to undress, derobe you. Tsk on all you for so taking that right away from your dom / master


1) The women complaining about cock shots...are not the ones showing off their anus, vulva, or gaping post-sex vaginal pix.

2) Not everyone frequenting BDSM sites is into D/s or M/s. (Some are just here to look at dicks, asses, pussies and tits so they can have a nice happy wank.)

3) Some people are exhibitionists, and/or want to post pix of something they feel was an accomplishment. (If ya don't believe me, go over to Fet to my slave's profile and look at all the pix he wanted to post, lol. The little slut.)

4) Most of the female naked shots (and some of the very well hung cock shots) are copyrighted, taken from professional porn movies and magazines. Do a Google search of the pix and you'll see this for yourself.



windchymes -> RE: If Women Don't Like penile shots, why do you show your pussy cats (4/22/2014 5:13:50 AM)

Saying "all" subs and slaves should not show their naked parts until they get a master is like saying all women should save their virginity for their husbands. Sure, some may choose to do it that way, but like in real life, the new master or husband either accepts the sub/slave or wife the way she is or keeps looking until he finds the veiled or pure one he is looking for.



smileforme50 -> RE: If Women Don't Like penile shots, why do you show your pussy cats (4/22/2014 5:31:38 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Apparently it will come as a shock to the op to discover that there are owners, male and female, who like to show off their subs' goodies. They want to know that everybody else has admired and desired that.[\quote]

I've talked to MANY Doms on here who have told me that if I were to become their slave, they would want me to post pics of my "parts" on my CM profile. Notice that the relationship didn't go any further after that.....

quote:


Beyond that, no, your rear end is not equivalent to your dangly bits. Nor are our breasts equivalent to a full spread shot.

If you can walk around in summer without a shirt then we should be able to go around in just a sports bra. [\quote]

Bravo! This is SO true. There was a court case in Delaware a few years ago....3 guys who were going through sex-reassignment surgery to become women were on a Delaware beach topless and a bunch of women complained, but the police wouldn't arrest them because they were men. The men still hadn't finished *all* of the scheduled surgeries, but they did all have new breasts.

And for a real shocker, opie. I grew up on a nude beach. Literally thousands of people have seen my naked ass. It doesn't bother The Man at all.




Spiritedsub2 -> RE: If Women Don't Like penile shots, why do you show your pussy cats (4/22/2014 7:09:38 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: catize

``FAST REPLY

Here's the thing; most het men like looking at pussies and tits. This, in turn, makes het men believe woman get excited by looking at a strangers cock, It really doesn't work that way.

Maybe this nugget of truth should be posted right next to the button we push to upload pictures into our profiles.



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