From: Dallas/Ft. Worth, TX
It depends on the gravity of the situation. For example, if I don't like a friend's new haircut, and she asks me what I think, I might tell a white lie to spare her feelings. If, on the other hand she is madly in love with a guy, not seeing red flags, and asks if she should move in with him, I would tell her the truth. The second situation could ruin her life.
Appreciating what you have, or striving for more?