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DaddySatyr -> RE: Maybe this is a dumb question..... (7/21/2014 10:05:55 PM)


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ORIGINAL: smileforme50

From your original response:

"I may like the journal postings. I may like the profile, itself. I may like the photos. Whatever but if a lady is more than (for me) 100 miles away, it isn't going to happen so what is the point in "approaching" them? "


So....exactly WHAT isn't going to happen? What do you need to be within 100 miles of a woman before "it" can happen? You said: "Now, if you wanted to say that I thought that there was no possibility of a relationship with anyone more than 100 miles away, that would be accurate".

So ....you won't contact a woman who lives more than 100 miles from you because "there was no possibility of a relationship". You mean you can't be FRIENDS with a woman who lives more than 100 miles from you? Isn't "friendship" a relationship?



You're funny but I'll entertain you, just once more ...

Yes, I require face-to-face possibility even to go so far as to call someone a "friend". Now, it's a word that gets misused quite a bit and you can use it any way you like but to me, "friend" is a very special relationship. I have three.

Here's where you re-define your straw man:


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ORIGINAL: smileforme50

Which brings me back to my original point that you claim is a "straw man argument". It sounds to me like you don't think there is any point to having a nonsexual friendship with a woman. Which is why I said that it sounds to me like all you care about is getting laid.



Can you show me where I said there was no point in having a non-sexual friendship with a lady? Can you show me where I typed the word "sex"? I realize that it's frustrating when people don't want to fit into the neat little boxes you wish to place them in.

I realize it's even worse for you when they point out where your assumptions have run afoul.

Unfortunately, you're attempt to re-build your straw man into one that's easier to defend has failed. As a public service message to you: You need not respond. I'm done with you and you're on hide but, hey! You can always just respond to me and then straw man another imagined response if that's what gets your knickers moist.







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blacksword404 -> RE: Maybe this is a dumb question..... (7/22/2014 3:37:36 PM)


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ORIGINAL: smileforme50


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ORIGINAL: blacksword404


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ORIGINAL: smileforme50

Why do people check you off as "Favorites"....so that they show up on your "Admirers" page.....

.....and then never make contact with you?

Someone told me once that he does it as a way to keep track of which profiles he has already seen and decided he wasn't interested. But if you decide that you're NOT interested in someone after you read his or her profile.....wouldn't it make more sense to "block" them?


I've favorited a profile when the profile is long but I want to read it or the journal. If I don't have the time I'll favorite it and come back later.


That's an idea......but then once you finish reading the profile and decide that you aren't interested.....why not uncheck the box and remove them?



I usually do. I've just looked and I have 4 people checked. One I became friends with. The other three I have no idea who they are.
Likely I forgot to uncheck them. Judging by the last times they were online it was years ago. I haven't thought about them. And they haven't thought about me. So it's not an issue.

I don't think it's that big a deal.




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