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Outing Yourself By Accident - 8/19/2014 8:49:21 AM

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Somewhat related, I'm moving to Texas next week. So, in preparation for the move, I started to sell a bunch of my stuff on one of the online selling marketplaces (mostly vanilla stuff). One of the items I sold was an old computer. So I went through and deleted all of the documents and personal information I could find so that some family more needy than me could use it for the future. Sold it cheaply and now someone has the computer.

As he drove away with the computer, it dawned on me. I didn't delete any of the photos in my "pictures" folder. Now, as you can probably guess, that pictures folder is filled with nothing but TONS AND TONS of bdsm pictures. The guy was planning to buy a few more things, which means that he's probably going to find that pictures folder and see exactly what kinds of things I'm into.

Now, this isn't as bad as some of the accidental outings I've done in the past, so it got me wondering, any accidental "outings" happen to you as well?

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RE: Outing Yourself By Accident - 8/19/2014 9:01:00 AM

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Two words: Canadian Customs

Between 1998 and 2000, I drove tractor trailer OTR. I roamed all over the US and up into Canada. Kept some gear and BDSM pictorial magazines in my truck with me. I was with an ex at the time and got my first trip up to Calgary. Well, he had a criminal issue from 10 years previously that precluded him from entering Canada. Before I could continue on into Calgary to deliver my load, I had to submit to a full on Customs inspection. Including taking a drug dog all through the inside of my truck. The jerk officer didn't even bother wiping off his muddy boots before climbing up into my truck and tracking mud all over INCLUDING on my comforter and pillow. After what seemed like hours, the Canadian Customs officer called me into the office. My pictorial magazines were on the desk in front of him and I sat to have a lecture about how the magazines were being confiscated because bringing that type of thing into Canada was a huge no-no.

I've never returned to Canada since that day. I figure Im entered in their computer system as some sort of deviant

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RE: Outing Yourself By Accident - 8/24/2014 10:08:10 AM

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This is something I live a bit in fear of, at least fo it happening in certain circles. I have good friends that...well I honeslty don't know if they're mentally capable of handling something like that, it's so.....outside of their world I think their heads would explode.

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RE: Outing Yourself By Accident - 8/24/2014 6:02:50 PM

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ORIGINAL: FriendlyMuppet

Somewhat related, I'm moving to Texas next week. So, in preparation for the move, I started to sell a bunch of my stuff on one of the online selling marketplaces (mostly vanilla stuff). One of the items I sold was an old computer. So I went through and deleted all of the documents and personal information I could find so that some family more needy than me could use it for the future. Sold it cheaply and now someone has the computer.

As he drove away with the computer, it dawned on me. I didn't delete any of the photos in my "pictures" folder. Now, as you can probably guess, that pictures folder is filled with nothing but TONS AND TONS of bdsm pictures. The guy was planning to buy a few more things, which means that he's probably going to find that pictures folder and see exactly what kinds of things I'm into.

Now, this isn't as bad as some of the accidental outings I've done in the past, so it got me wondering, any accidental "outings" happen to you as well?

I found that family. I purchased all those photos.

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RE: Outing Yourself By Accident - 8/26/2014 8:20:38 AM

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I accidentally sent a very explicit text full of kink and sexual content to a friend right under my husband's name. I expected a text back from my husband and instead I got a text from my friend saying WTF??? Me being clueless simply asked her what. She quoted the text I sent her and I nearly died. I sent back OMG that was not meant for you, but my husband. She sent back ROTFLMAO that is so going on facebook. Then when I was really dying my husband texted me asking why my friend was laughing her ass off at me. I told him I was dying that was why. I was imagining her putting the entire text on facebook, but thankfully she only wrote, That awkward moment when your best friend accidentally sends you a kinky, sexually explicit text meant for her husband. I was confused until I found out she hit the wrong name, now I am laughing too hard to stand up straight. LOL so that is how my best friend in the vanilla world found out how kinky we were.

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RE: Outing Yourself By Accident - 8/26/2014 8:49:16 AM

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I'm pretty good at hiding my things and keeping them tucked away from family and friends but somehow my rubber whip and a pair of handcuffs eluded that. I almost died when my niece held up the rubber whip and asked in her squirrely voice, "Is this an exercise thingy?" All I could say was "uh huh" unconvincingly. I tried to stop my eyes from bugging out of my head and to keep breathing normally (so she couldn't detect that I was COMPLETELY freaking out on the inside) as she pretended it was Rapunzel and did an entire skit with the darn rubber whip. When the cuffs were found I blamed them on my brother, but it was not cool when she was playing cops and robbers with her friends using said cuffs. Somehow it's JUST HER always finding things. At least I didn't have a coronary when it all took place because I felt like I was literally screaming on the inside, LOL. My kink life and vanilla life are usually completely and totally separate so it really threw me for a loop.

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RE: Outing Yourself By Accident - 8/26/2014 10:42:10 AM

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Seriously Muppet, you didn't think to delete your pic file the VERY FIRST THING of all? Tsk, tsk.

Hope the dude (whose contact info you probably didn't exchange) didn't purchase your p.c. for his kids to do their homework on.

My sub and I were sex-texting (not the same as sexting with pics, this is strictly textual) while he was getting off work, before his commute back home. We were so wrapped up with getting one another hot & horny (with more than the usual risqué content), that I didn't notice a text message had come in from a new doctor, who was confirming my appt. Why this doctor sent me a text himself from his private cell, I still don't know, but I certainly wasn't expecting it. I didn't look at the From line and hit Reply, and I could have died of embarrassment once I realized what I had done a few minutes later. I ended up cancelling with him because there was no way I would have been able to look him in the eye.

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RE: Outing Yourself By Accident - 8/26/2014 11:51:31 AM

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I'm pretty good at hiding my things and keeping them tucked away from family and friends but somehow my rubber whip and a pair of handcuffs eluded that. I almost died when my niece held up the rubber whip and asked in her squirrely voice, "Is this an exercise thingy?" All I could say was "uh huh" unconvincingly. I tried to stop my eyes from bugging out of my head and to keep breathing normally (so she couldn't detect that I was COMPLETELY freaking out on the inside) as she pretended it was Rapunzel and did an entire skit with the darn rubber whip. When the cuffs were found I blamed them on my brother, but it was not cool when she was playing cops and robbers with her friends using said cuffs. Somehow it's JUST HER always finding things. At least I didn't have a coronary when it all took place because I felt like I was literally screaming on the inside, LOL. My kink life and vanilla life are usually completely and totally separate so it really threw me for a loop.

LOL!! I was visiting with the same friend I accidentally texted. She has a friend in another town and she told me she went over to her house and there was handcuffs on the couch. That was not unusual since he is a police officer but she said she picked up a horse whip and blushed. Her friend giggled and said "oh we just got that the other day and were going to try it out." She rolled her eyes at me and said they were just as kinky as I was then said she was surrounded. Ha!!

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RE: Outing Yourself By Accident - 8/29/2014 8:48:05 AM

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It's not really an issue for me since I am already open about who I am anyways.

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RE: Outing Yourself By Accident - 9/3/2014 6:05:45 PM

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I out myself so accidentally in the real world to bdsm tendencied people.I feel like sometimes we can sniff out each other. I do my best to hide it, but I get to involved in obeying. Has anyone else ever felt that way/noticed that?

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