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Redhusky -> is...128 Basic Slave Rules ? (8/22/2014 12:16:19 AM)
I bet you read this . The question is , for a new slave that has no experience at all is this the best way to start a 24/7 relationship. It's not about me, it's about a friend who found a master and already give 120 rules that are from the 128 but edited to his own pleasure. Already he gave rules like he should be bed at 10pm. They both dont know each other like less than a day. They didnt have any negotiation, yet. No adjustment period So what does the community think ?

AthenaSurrenders -> RE: is...128 Basic Slave Rules ? (8/22/2014 12:27:43 AM)
I think the idea probably makes them both horny and at the moment they are both acting out a fantasy. If and when they decide they do want to include Dom/sub interactions in their lives they will both quickly realise how impractical it is and start figuring out their own path. I wouldn't worry yourself about it. Like you said, they don't know each other yet and it's unlikely this will get much further than some sexy conversations.

Redhusky -> RE: is...128 Basic Slave Rules ? (8/22/2014 12:29:43 AM)
I'm more worried for my friend , what if this master is one of them that will abuse a newbie.

Gauge -> RE: is...128 Basic Slave Rules ? (8/22/2014 12:41:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Redhusky I bet you read this . The question is , for a new slave that has no experience at all is this the best way to start a 24/7 relationship. It's not about me, it's about a friend who found a master and already give 120 rules that are from the 128 but edited to his own pleasure. Already he gave rules like he should be bed at 10pm. They both dont know each other like less than a day. They didnt have any negotiation, yet. No adjustment period So what does the community think ? Well, if they haven't found out if they are compatible with each other and they have launched into a list of 120 rules after one day, I would tell your friend to run for the hills and never look back. But hey, who am I to judge?

AthenaSurrenders -> RE: is...128 Basic Slave Rules ? (8/22/2014 1:05:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Redhusky I'm more worried for my friend , what if this master is one of them that will abuse a newbie. Unfortunately since your friend is an adult he gets to make his own mistakes. There are abusive people in all corners of the world and not all of them make it obvious from the outset. Attempting to initiate 120 rules after 1 day is like wearing a sign around your neck that reads 'totally clueless, possibly dangerous'. If your friend can't see that there's really nothing you can say that will stop him getting himself into trouble.

Redhusky -> RE: is...128 Basic Slave Rules ? (8/22/2014 1:15:07 AM)
I just hope his desire to be owned wont cloud rational thinking. When i asked how much you desire to be owned (this was before he got owned, one week ago). I asked he will do this and that (the most extreme thing i asked, permanent stuff ) and he said if this he needs to do to get owned , he will do it. i asked stuff just to see how far he will say he will go this is a chatlog we had , names removed [2014/08/15 12:15] Me:that Domme will put you to work , no sexaul fun, no TV, no computer, no game, no drink except water , and so on [2014/08/15 12:16] He: depends how desperate i am [2014/08/15 12:16] Me: that Doom belive in actual slave training , that a slave has no luxury & comfort that free persons have [2014/08/15 12:16] He: ok I just hope if situation like this come, he will think before deciding

stef -> RE: is...128 Basic Slave Rules ? (8/22/2014 1:17:22 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Redhusky So what does the community think ? What community? I think it's a joke, as is the author of the rules.

Gauge -> RE: is...128 Basic Slave Rules ? (8/22/2014 1:23:38 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Redhusky I just hope his desire to be owned wont cloud rational thinking. When i asked how much you desire to be owned (this was before he got owned, one week ago). I asked he will do this and that (the most extreme thing i asked, permanent stuff ) and he said if this he needs to do to get owned , he will do it. i asked stuff just to see how far he will say he will go this is a chatlog we had , names removed [2014/08/15 12:15] Me:that Domme will put you to work , no sexaul fun, no TV, no computer, no game, no drink except water , and so on [2014/08/15 12:16] He: depends how desperate i am [2014/08/15 12:16] Me: that Doom belive in actual slave training , that a slave has no luxury & comfort that free persons have [2014/08/15 12:16] He: ok I just hope if situation like this come, he will think before deciding Well, your concern is noble, however your friend gets the last word on whether or not he is willing to submit to this person. It sounds like a potentially scary situation. No one should ever be that desperate to be owned, no one. Desperation is a poor reason to make a decision like this because it will lead to mistakes, and if your friend is new to all of this, he is likely nowhere near ready for a 24/7 arrangement like the one you described. You can tell him to be cautious, use his head, but if he is hell bent on making a mistake, there is nothing that you can do but watch it happen.

Redhusky -> RE: is...128 Basic Slave Rules ? (8/22/2014 1:29:58 AM)
Sorry.

Redhusky -> RE: is...128 Basic Slave Rules ? (8/22/2014 1:33:03 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Gauge Well, your concern is noble, however your friend gets the last word on whether or not he is willing to submit to this person. It sounds like a potentially scary situation. No one should ever be that desperate to be owned, no one. Desperation is a poor reason to make a decision like this because it will lead to mistakes, and if your friend is new to all of this, he is likely nowhere near ready for a 24/7 arrangement like the one you described. You can tell him to be cautious, use his head, but if he is hell bent on making a mistake, there is nothing that you can do but watch it happen. Thats why i'm worried. Without knowing each other , his master is already giving rules than is already changing his lifestyle.

subrosaDom -> RE: is...128 Basic Slave Rules ? (8/22/2014 1:52:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Gauge quote: ORIGINAL: Redhusky I bet you read this . The question is , for a new slave that has no experience at all is this the best way to start a 24/7 relationship. It's not about me, it's about a friend who found a master and already give 120 rules that are from the 128 but edited to his own pleasure. Already he gave rules like he should be bed at 10pm. They both dont know each other like less than a day. They didnt have any negotiation, yet. No adjustment period So what does the community think ? Well, if they haven't found out if they are compatible with each other and they have launched into a list of 120 rules after one day, I would tell your friend to run for the hills and never look back. But hey, who am I to judge? I disagree. Running is too slow. I recommend a Lamborghini.

Redhusky -> RE: is...128 Basic Slave Rules ? (8/22/2014 3:06:35 AM)
After reading the logs and having a hot shower. I think i overreacted. I think i got the best answers to his question as possible do to in fact he just fantasied being a slave, has no experience and didnt do to much research/reading. Can anybody close this discussion. I dont want to case more drama and boring stuff. :3

LookieNoNookie -> RE: is...128 Basic Slave Rules ? (8/22/2014 6:30:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Redhusky I bet you read this . I bet you're wrong.

DesFIP -> RE: is...128 Basic Slave Rules ? (8/24/2014 8:58:53 PM)
Right now he thinks he'll do anything. After a couple of weeks he'll change his mind. Unfortunately you can't force someone to think rationally. But if this is all online nonsense, then let him have his fun. And if the worst thing is an early bedtime and an early wake up, then where's the harm?

windchymes -> RE: is...128 Basic Slave Rules ? (8/24/2014 11:00:30 PM)
Yeah, let him have his twitterpated fantasy. He'll get tired of it in a day or two and come home.

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