Why bother with you at all when you don't even bother to read. Again the sequence of events is wrong. He started followed me out of his apartment and the I told him to put clothes on... he didn't... I was heading to my car to leave... which was parked directly in front of his door. He lives In a brownstone with 2 other tenants. When he got locked out I handed him a shirt from my trunk. And I waited for him to regain entry to his place.
That's it... no more explanation of clear English to idiots who would rather grumble than laugh... not for nothing everyone is in control of their own actions. Even in a D/s relationship. A sub has the ability to not follow what their Domme says. Now I could understand the response if the action was mine... However it wasn't, and just because I can laugh at the incident doesn't mean he won't be paying for it. It just means I won't get the wrinkles and fine lines you end up with because of the continuous grimace you wear for every day life. Shit happens and just because we happen to be into BDSM doesn't mean shit only happens with us. I'm sure vanillas have been caught with their pants down too. This shit makes funny sitcoms for a reason and I doubt the experience was pulled out of thin air. I choose to smile, laugh and not walk around like a sour prick when things don't go as planned. As long as we all learn from it and no one got hurt... why the hell would I choose to be all pissed off and angry. You all can have that. Thanks for being upset for me... lol... so I can laugh about it.
Which action of MINE do you consider to be piss-poor? I'm curious...
Telling him NOT to walk out naked?
Giving him a shirt out of the truck of my car to cover himself?
Staying around until he was safely in his apartment?
Talking with him afterwards about the seriousness of his actions?
Giggling and laughing while I looked back on the incident?
So the progress of this seems to be, the both of you left your house, got in your car, where you gave him a shirt from the trunk and kicked him out to go to his new apartment? Piss poor actions? I'd say all of it!
I'm somewhat doubting the voracity of this, but if it is real its pretty bloody horrifying! You say somewhere that he "followed you naked" so why at that point didn't you stop the games, tell him to stop being fucking idiot and put some clothes on? When you were in the car, why not go and get him some clothes and tell him to stop being a dick?
Then at the other end to send him to a new apartment where you obviously don't (can't) know who the tenants are, so you couldn't know if there were elderly, mentally infirm, or children going to be around.
So you might be laughing and giggling, but I'm fucking horrified.
ETA Just once I'd like to have a post without an ETA!