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New sub- on a budget - 9/21/2014 6:37:06 PM

Nativesub29

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So as it says I'm a new sub and I'm a college athlete and I don't have much money to spare. I am currently looking for a sub to train me and give me tasks via message and gradually online (gradually cause I want to get to know my mistress I've been blackmailed when I started searching) so to get down to it I'm on a budget and I'm looking for toys I could use that you can find around the how's or get in a normal store that's cheap. I love in a small college town and there is now sex shops and I dot have a cc for online purchase, so I'm looking for ideas for toys and other things that I could eventually be instructed to use by mistress. So if you have any ideas or are potentially interested in being my mistress let my know, thank you!

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RE: New sub- on a budget - 9/22/2014 7:30:05 AM

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Try this thread I started a few months ago. It has some decent suggestions. http://www.collarchat.com/m_4707080/tm.htm

Also, Google your search terms, there is a ton of stuff online.

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RE: New sub- on a budget - 9/22/2014 2:05:14 PM

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You can get lots of inexpensive gadgets at the dollar store: bungee cords, combination locks, dog collars. Also try thrift stores for leather belts, scarves for blindfolds, etc. But you might want to wait until you've actually connected with a dominant, and see what she'd like you to acquire.

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RE: New sub- on a budget - 9/22/2014 2:16:50 PM

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Hope depot is your friend brother.
Start here...

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RE: New sub- on a budget - 9/22/2014 3:09:34 PM

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Thanks you for all the responses! Currently talking to a domme

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RE: New sub- on a budget - 11/6/2014 12:16:18 PM

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Follow the advice that others have given you. It doesn't cost a lot to explore your submissive side.
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RE: New sub- on a budget - 12/10/2014 12:19:45 PM

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Braiding your own bullwhip. I love his handling skills. How to make your own bull whip.

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RE: New sub- on a budget - 12/10/2014 12:50:47 PM

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I am currently looking for a sub to train me and give me tasks via message and gradually online (gradually cause I want to get to know my mistress I've been blackmailed when I started searching....

I dot have a cc for online purchase, so I'm looking for ideas for toys and other things that I could eventually be instructed to use by mistress....

You're looking for a Domme to train you. What do you mean by you've been "blackmailed"?

Most of what you can use are ordinary household items. That's how we got started as a couple. There are some things that can't or shouldn't be improvised, such as insertables.*
You can get a kiddie pair of (unlockable) steel handcuffs. Scarf for cleave gag. Bathrobe belts for ties, although I don't know what works for self-bondage best.
(Don't use your good neckties, just giveaways.)
Wooden clothespins for nipple clamps and mild CBT.
Wooden spoon, wide wooden hairbrush, pingpong paddle for smacking. (To self, substitute with flat, broad items that have a long handle to reach with, such as a NEW, NEVER BEEN USED fly swatter.)
You can get a black leather mastiff collar from the pet store.
You have to see what you're doing, so I wouldn't recommend blindfolding yourself for on-line play.

* Ball gag (oral); starter buttplug (anal). Vibrator (not dildo) for external use only, although it might be tempting to use it internally. Just FYI, and this is just my personal preference in a sub, that he not be broken in to where I can't take his anal cherry in real life, or that he not have overly dilated (stretched) himself.

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