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xcumkittenx -> IMPORTANT QUESTION!!! (10/24/2014 12:16:30 AM)

So my Sir wants me to talk to a submissive so i can answer a very important question. Why am i His slut? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!



freedomdwarf1 -> RE: IMPORTANT QUESTION!!! (10/24/2014 2:02:40 AM)

What you are asking is extremely personal and very subjective.
I would posit that nobody can give you an honest answer.

What made you think you were submissive?
Nobody know that except you.

What spark made you think this was the right man for you?
Nobody know that except you.


If you don't know why you are his slut, anything we say is just a wild guess.



DarkSteven -> RE: IMPORTANT QUESTION!!! (10/24/2014 2:29:13 PM)

Please elucidate. Why are you his slut? What part is he emphasizing?

Why are YOU his slut, and not somebody else?
Why are you HIS slut, and not someone else's?
Why are you his SLUT, and not another role?



Greta75 -> RE: IMPORTANT QUESTION!!! (10/24/2014 2:49:52 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: xcumkittenx

So my Sir wants me to talk to a submissive so i can answer a very important question. Why am i His slut? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!


Lol, I would simply tell him, because he CHOSE to have me as his slut?

With exaggerated rolling of my eyes!

And I'd throw it back to him, "Good question, now, why did you CHOOSE me as your slut?"

Sorry, I would start challenging the dom if he asked me questions like that which unless he has told me before why he chose me, and I can repeat what he said, but if he has never told me, then this is a stupid question. The first thing that pops up in my head would, "WHAT??? He don't know why I'm his slut?"

And I don't know why he wants you to ask other submissive this question either, when the only person who knows why you are his slut is HIM, as he made that decision himself.




FieryOpal -> RE: IMPORTANT QUESTION!!! (10/24/2014 4:35:42 PM)

This is coming completely out of nowhere, but I have to ask. Is your Master trying to get you interested in doing something or letting him do something that you don't want to do or are hesitant to try? Do you have clearly defined limits? (If not, then you should.)

I'm wondering if your Sir isn't hoping that another submissive will tell you that you are his slut because it's your job to do whatever he wants. Just saying.

^And what the others have advised.^



Redhusky -> RE: IMPORTANT QUESTION!!! (10/25/2014 1:23:13 AM)

only you know the answer, try asking yoursefl
but instead of just asking "Why am i His slut ?" ask what does slut mean to you, what do you do for him , how do you act, how do you feel from his action to you, and what are your desires to be his slut




thishereboi -> RE: IMPORTANT QUESTION!!! (10/25/2014 7:38:47 AM)

Are you sure he wasn't just testing you to see if you would do your own work or run to the internet and try to get total strangers to do it for you?



SeekingTrinity -> RE: IMPORTANT QUESTION!!! (10/25/2014 10:22:00 AM)

~FRing it~

Why are you asking a bunch of strangers who do not know you about your identity? How on Earth am I supposed to know why you are his slut? How do I even know if you are a slut?



Bhruic -> RE: IMPORTANT QUESTION!!! (10/26/2014 9:40:56 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: xcumkittenx

So my Sir wants me to talk to a submissive so i can answer a very important question. Why am i His slut? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!



Only you can know that. Your Sir should know that. Asking you to ask another submissive for the answer is tantamount to asking you to come up with a story to satisfy him, rather than the truth. If he seriously thinks someone else can give you that answer, then it demonstrates a fundamental lack of understanding of the psychology of the relationship on his part.

My sub and I talk about this often... and what I am looking for in the answer is an honest look in to her soul, and her psyche. I want to see that she understands the dynamic between us, and understands her role, and why she has taken it on. Look inside yourself, be vulnerable and honest with yourself, and answer him from your heart.



IIapetus -> RE: IMPORTANT QUESTION!!! (10/26/2014 2:38:02 PM)

It may be an 'IMPORTANT QUESTION!!!' to 'Sir', and perhaps even nominally, to you, but it isn't terribly important to everyone else.

Want to discuss your wider motivations for submission? When you deign to share them, we can discuss it. Want to discuss your interest for applying your wider motivations of submission, to your submission to 'Sir'? When you care share that context, we can discuss it. Otherwise, I've got nothing.

Inputs and outputs - rubbish in, rubbish out.



freedomdwarf1 -> RE: IMPORTANT QUESTION!!! (10/26/2014 2:53:43 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Bhruic
...Look inside yourself, be vulnerable and honest with yourself, and answer him from your heart.

You may have something there.
Put that with Steven's questions sheds a new light on the initial OP.

Either the Dom is unsure of himself or inexperienced.
Or, her behaviour is such that he is questioning her role or her loyalty or both.



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