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FIND YOUR SEX I.D. Oct 13 2004
LONDON MIRROR
Flic Everett
TODAY is the first day of the rest of your sex life and Daily Mirror expert FLIC EVERETT has compiled a remarkable quiz to revolutionise your most important relationship.
By answering the following questions, you will discover your true sexual identity - and learn how to be more compatible with your partner. If you answer "yes" to a question or statement, note which one of the A-H sex categories it registers in - and that will ultimately determine your "sexual type". If the question isn't applicable, just move on to the next one.
Once you've answered the questions and totted up your category entries, you can discover your sex type, which will unlock the door to your most intimate fantasies - and turn them into electrifying reality.
"Your personality dictates what kind of a lover you are and how you relate to your partner," says Mirror "sexpert" Flic. "Anyone can be physically compatible with someone else - it's just a question of sexual self-knowledge. And understanding exactly who you are - and who your partner is - is crucial to a healthy love life."
HOW YOU CONNECT WITH YOUR LOVER
1. I'm always exhausted at the end of the day. Yes = Category E
2. I tend to put spending time with the kids above spending time with my partner. Y = D
3. We argue more than we used to, often about petty things. Y = F
4. I'd love to have another two hours' sleep a night if I could. Y = G
5. I've put on weight and I'm sure my partner has noticed. Y = C
6. I sometimes fantasise about having an affair. Y = A
7. I feel resentful because my partner doesn't support me enough. Y = B
8. I'm not always good at showing how I feel - I expect my partner to work it out. Y = H
9. I can't remember the last time I had a beauty treatment or bought new clothes. Y = E
10. In bed, there are things I'd like to try that I don't know how to ask for them. Y = F
11. I'm never sure whether my partner is really enjoying it during sex. Y = H
12. I don't feel excited by the idea of sex with my partner any more. Y = F
13. We don't really talk during sex - it's too embarrassing. Y = D
14. We always have sex in the bedroom, with the lights off. Y = E
15. Our sexual routine hasn't really changed since we got together. Y = B
16. I'm not sure what ideas and scenarios turn my partner on. Y = C
17. We don't usually bother with kissing before sex these days. Y = H
18. After sex, one or both of us will go straight to sleep. Y = B
19. I feel that I give more than I get sexually. Y = A
20. We tend to have more sex on holiday, when we're relaxed. Y = D
YOUR SEXUAL ATTITUDES
1. I enjoy a range of sexual fantasies. Y = G
2. I have sometimes dressed up and adopted a role during sex. Y = C
3. I've had sex outdoors, not caring that someone might see us. Y = A
4. I've had sex outdoors but made sure that no one could see us. Y = H
5. I enjoy wearing sexy underwear/outfits for my partner. Y = G
6. I enjoy talking dirty, in bed or on the telephone. Y = C
7. I am comfortable with pornography. Y = A
8. I am intrigued by S&M. Y = G
9. I like the idea of swinging but would never try it. Y = B
10. I like the idea of swinging and I would try it. Y = A
11. I am comfortable talking about my sexual needs with my partner Y = D
12. I am confident about my body and my looks. Y = F
13. I have used, or would be happy to use, sex toys. Y = G
14. I've thought about having sex with more than one partner at the same time. Y = C
15. I like the idea of filming myself during sex. Y = F
16. It's OK for my partner to fancy other people. Y = E
17. I can get very turned on just by thinking about sex. Y = A
18. I find sex an uplifting activity. Y = B
19. I enjoy flirting with my partner. Y = F
20. I like to make sex different every time. Y = G
WHEN YOU'RE IN THE BEDROOM..
1. I like a lot of foreplay before sex. Y = H
2. Sex is mainly a way of showing affection. Y = B
3. The longer a sex session takes, the better. Y = G
4. I can't enjoy sex with someone I don't love. Y = C
5. Kissing all over is very important. Y = E
6. I love to be stroked. Y = A
7. I like the environment to be right before we have sex. Y = D
8. When I feel loving, I usually want to show it through sex. Y = C
9. I like my partner telling me what feels good. Y = H
10. I prefer being touched to touching. Y = F
11. I think sex gets better as time goes on in a relationship. Y = B
12. I believe that sex is best at the start of a relationship. Y = A
13. I would try anything new, as long as I trusted my partner. Y = E
14. If my partner is doing something I'm not enjoying, I say so. Y = D
15. If I'm not getting turned on, I assume it's my fault. Y = E
16. I am at ease sexually in front of my partner. Y = G
17. I know the celebrities or physical types that my partner fancies. Y = H
18. I feel a failure in bed if my partner has to ask for what they want. Y = D
19. I am turned on by reading erotic literature. Y = C
20. I like having sex in different rooms, all over the house. Y = A
YOUR TECHNIQUE
IN THE SACK
1. In bed, I will move my partner's hands where I want them. Y = D
2. It's my partner's looks that really turn me on above anything else. Y = F
3. I like to give and receive feedback - to know if I'm doing it right. Y = H
4. I often like sex to be a bit rough and ready - it's more exciting. Y = E
5. I don't have a favourite sexual position - I like to try everything. Y = A
6. I have a favourite position, which we always end up in. Y = D
7. I read a lot of sex manuals to improve my technique. Y = H
8. I touch my partner the way I'd like to be touched. Y = C
9. Foreplay usually lasts less than 10 minutes. Y = B
10. I don't always have an orgasm but my partner does. Y = E
11. I like to explore and caress every area of my partner's body during sex. Y = A
12. I like to prolong the pre-orgasm build-up as long as possible. Y = G
13. I make a lot of noise when I orgasm. Y = F
14. I like it best when we climax together. Y = C
15. I prefer it when we orgasm separately. Y = B
16. I often keep my eyes open during sex. Y = E
17. I am usually the one who initiates sex. Y = D
18. I like to bring music, food and wine into the bedroom. Y = G
19. I like to have sex at least twice a week. Y = G
20. I like the idea of being admired sexually. Y = F
TIE-BREAKER SECTION
Not sure what type you are yet? Answer these questions.
1. Could you imagine living without sex? Y = Categories FHBD
2. Could you imagine enjoying sex with someone other than your partner? Y = ACEG
3. Would you enjoy sex without fantasy? Y = DHBE
4. Is good sex essential to your happiness? Y = ACFG
NOW SEE WHAT TYPE YOU ARE..
ADD up your score - mostly A, B, C, D, E, F, G, or H. If you fall between two types, read both categories and choose the one you identify most closely with.
Mostly A: Artist
TO you, sex is a wonderful thing. You want it to be different every time - but always a thing of pleasure. You are generous in bed but expect fulfilment in return. You can also be experimental but sex must conform to your vision, rather than your partner's. You enjoy sensual experiences, fantasies, etc - sex is a vital part of your life.
PROS: Sex with you is a full, holistic experience of sight, scent, taste and touch. You'll try anything you think you'll enjoy.
CONS: You can be reluctant to go along with anyone else's wishes - you want to be in charge, which can intimidate. Your need for new sensations could lead you into an affair.
Mostly B: BuilderR
YOU view sex as part of a loving relationship. You believe intimacy makes the heart grow fonder and that good sex is something that you build between you. You accept that, sometimes, life will take precedence over lust but when you do make love, you put a great deal of effort into pleasing your partner.
PROS: Your sex tends to be very intimate. You're prepared to work at building the relationship and learning what turns your partner on. You offer safety and security to sexual partners.
CONS: You can play it too safe and be afraid to experiment. You tend to put other things before sex, which means it can get sidelined.
FOR you, sex is like a story - how you respond to it all depends on your mood and beliefs. If you feel sexy, you can be a merciless vamp, if you feel fat or depressed, you can't be bothered. You use fantasies to turn yourself on and in bed, you generally take your cue from your partner's behaviour.
PROS: When you feel good, sex can be fantastic. You're never short of an erotic fantasy that can drive your partner wild.
CONS: Your sexual enjoyment is dependent on your emotions - you allow your partner to control the mood and are instantly turned off if anything goes wrong.
Mostly D: Manager
YOU are most comfortable taking control sexually. You assume responsibility for the whole encounter and it's vital to you that your partner has a good time. You use a variety of skilled techniques in bed and are at ease discussing what is and isn't working.
PROS: Your partner's enjoyment is important to you, as is your own. You are very open and able to discuss sexual issues. You also make sex a priority.
CONS: You are controlling, seldom giving your partner the chance to initiate sex themselves. So when and where you have sex is usually down to you and problems become your responsibility.
Mostly E: GrafterMostly F: Actor
YOU are the martyr of sex. Because it really matters to you to be good in bed - and please your partner - you work exceptionally hard at your sexual skills and can spend hours stroking or massaging. You give a great deal when it comes to making love but you don't always get back what you give.
PROS: You offer a lot of sexual enjoyment to your partner and seldom ask for anything in return. You are very skilled at bringing them to orgasm.
CONS: You can get stuck in a rut, relying on the tried and tested, because of your fear of and getting it wrong. You don't ask for enough in return.
SEX for you is a performance. How you look, for instance, can be even more important than how you feel. You're also a master of sexual tips and tricks but you are often afraid to let go and allow yourself to feel genuine passion. You may leave your partner baffled because you're ill at ease expressing what you really want.
PROS: You're a virtuoso when it comes to various sex acts and positions. You love to be watched, which can also be very exciting for your partner.
CONS: You aren't getting enough from sex emotionally and it's impossible for your partner to guess what you need without your help.
Mostly G: Gourmet
SEX is a banquet. You like to try a bit of everything and no flavour is too exotic for you to sample. Sex can be enjoyed for its own sake and while you please your partner, you're also thoroughly focused on your own enjoyment.
PROS: You are open-minded and willing to try anything. You delight in your partner's body and are unselfconscious about your own.
CONS: Your willingness to embrace all sexual options will unnerve some partners. Your drive to experiment with things such as threesomes can cause emotional conflict and may put you in some dodgy situations (one-night stands, or S&M).
Mostly H: Surgeon
YOUR approach to sex is painstaking, meticulous and exceptional in its technique. You know exactly how to press button X to get reaction Y - your partner will always orgasm and you will be able to tell them exactly what to do in order to return the favour.
PROS: You know how to touch your lover to achieve explosive results, you are patient and committed to their pleasure and have read enough sex manuals to be an expert.
CONS: There's not much spontaneity - a quickie wouldn't occur to you. You can be too obsessed with technique to enjoy the passion of the moment.
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