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FieryOpal -> RE: Curious (11/2/2014 9:01:07 AM)
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[sm=welcome.gif] Do stick around on this side and read some of the discussion threads. Like shiftyw suggested, ask for profile advice and how best to approach a Domme with your intro contact message. Meanwhile, make sure to read our profiles to gage whether you might be what they say they are seeking, as well as journal entries to find out as much as you can about her as a person. Too often, we end up feeling like newbies think we're here to be their instant fetish & kink delivery systems instead of getting the same degree of consideration that a vanilla lady would get on a vanilla dating site, at the very minimum. Would you or any other respectful man start hitting up a vanilla lady for sex and not make any effort to date her first? (Not that you would be such a tool, but if you expect insta-Domming or instant sub training from a lifestyle Domme, chances are this will be off-putting.)
It may not seem that way at first, but it isn't all about whether you're a good fit, but also about whether a Domme is a suitable fit for you. For example, I'm not sadistic. As far as I'm concerned, I don't need to be contacted by masochists who should be looking for a Sadistic Domme in the first place, not just any Dominant woman to scratch their itch(es).
Best of luck.
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