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ORIGINAL: TheGirlRescuer


A question for all of you females out there who seek older men.

How old is old? is there a minimum age? or is it simply older than yourself?

Is it when they graying begins? Retirement begins? The age of your own father?

where does that line begin for you?

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ORIGINAL: MojoDaddyMarine

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

I really don't care about age, I just hate hypocrisy about why they want such young ones.

My recent ex is 12 years younger than me and I would never say, oh I picked him to nurture him through this world.

No, he was fucking hot and awesome in bed and he just appeared in my life.

My problem was that he was not intellectually stimulating to me and we were not compatible at all except for in the sheets.

Someone asked for opinions. - REDACTED -

She wasn't talking to you.

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

Well, I would hope she would have done and seen a lot at an older age. Young women also have done and seen a lot.

It's such bullshit, just admit older women are challenging to SOME men and stop the pretentious crap about about nurturing.

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

OP, your answer is geared toward relationships. I tried relationships with much younger women twice and they both failed early because we could not relate to each other. If the young lady keeps in contact with her age-peers, I am not aware of what's happening in the worlds of 20somethings.

That said, as far as casual nonsexual play at parties goes (bondage, spanking, etc.), I find that my age is an advantage. Young women feel that my age and experience is a plus when playing, and women my age and older feel much more comfortable with a geezer like me. Life is good. [:)]

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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant





That is way too subjective. Let's tighten the noose a bit.

Hey, bitches, sluts, whores, and all you yummy /s types that I drool over...

What is your maximum age difference in dating/playing/boinking?

Jus wunderin

P.S. My grandmother, RIP, was dating a guy three years younger than me when she was in her 60's. He was bi, wild, and brought her boy toys to play with. I really wish she would've married him.

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What is your maximum age difference in dating/playing/boinking?

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ORIGINAL: Musicmystery

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

OP, your answer is geared toward relationships. I tried relationships with much younger women twice and they both failed early because we could not relate to each other. If the young lady keeps in contact with her age-peers, I am not aware of what's happening in the worlds of 20somethings.

That said, as far as casual nonsexual play at parties goes (bondage, spanking, etc.), I find that my age is an advantage. Young women feel that my age and experience is a plus when playing, and women my age and older feel much more comfortable with a geezer like me. Life is good. [:)]

This. Playing is one thing, a relationship another.

I've had relationships with a 16 year difference both ways (not a rule, just happened that way). And ultimately, we were just too different.

As we grow older, though, the gaps shrink -- 5 years is HUGE when you're 13 and 18, while nothing when you're 40 and 45.

My girl and life partner is 12 years younger. We don't even notice the difference, but that's because we have an extraordinary amount of things, particularly life outlooks/philosophies, in common. It's easy and comfortable.

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Ja, even old men are going to want you to dress up as a geisha time to time.

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ORIGINAL: camille65

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ORIGINAL: Musicmystery

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

OP, your answer is geared toward relationships. I tried relationships with much younger women twice and they both failed early because we could not relate to each other. If the young lady keeps in contact with her age-peers, I am not aware of what's happening in the worlds of 20somethings.

That said, as far as casual nonsexual play at parties goes (bondage, spanking, etc.), I find that my age is an advantage. Young women feel that my age and experience is a plus when playing, and women my age and older feel much more comfortable with a geezer like me. Life is good. [:)]

This. Playing is one thing, a relationship another.

I've had relationships with a 16 year difference both ways (not a rule, just happened that way). And ultimately, we were just too different.

As we grow older, though, the gaps shrink -- 5 years is HUGE when you're 13 and 18, while nothing when you're 40 and 45.

My girl and life partner is 12 years younger. We don't even notice the difference, but that's because we have an extraordinary amount of things, particularly life outlooks/philosophies, in common. It's easy and comfortable.

Yes it does shrink (the difference inherit in a large age gap) but for me at least it has widened once more. My Owner is 15 years older than me. When I was forty, his fifty-five was nothing.. just my awesome slightly older Owner. Now however I'm half a year shy of fifty, he is now sixty-five and he is slowing down. I'm not slowing down.

I can't help but think to ten years in the future, I will be not quite sixty but he will be seventy-five.

I've a dread about the future that I didn't have in years past. I feel like I'm coming into my rather late prime while he is exiting his prime.

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ORIGINAL: shiftyw

Full disclosure- i also tend to think men age well. Get sexier, etc. my celeb crushes have always been old guys and my current guy tells me all the time how weird it is I think christoph waltz is sexy as fuck.

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But another aspect for me is, younger guys and many more guys my age give way more weight to what I look like than an older guy would ( this is a generalization and far from proven and just my experience etc.). As someone who struggles with their appearance I feel a lot more comfortable around someone who doesn't need perfection and with a few exceptions, that has been older men.

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ORIGINAL: Musicmystery
That's going to vary widely person to person. I know 50 year olds who look dead. And I know 90 year olds who vacation by biking across Denmark.

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ORIGINAL: shiftyw

Full disclosure- i also tend to think men age well. Get sexier, etc. my celeb crushes have always been old guys and my current guy tells me all the time how weird it is I think christoph waltz is sexy as fuck.

But another aspect for me is, younger guys and many more guys my age give way more weight to what I look like than an older guy would ( this is a generalization and far from proven and just my experience etc.). As someone who struggles with their appearance I feel a lot more comfortable around someone who doesn't need perfection and with a few exceptions, that has been older men.

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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Ja, even old men are going to want you to dress up as a geisha time to time.

Fortunately, I have not met one that expects me to do so. I'll force him to accompany me and paint his face like a geisha too.

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ORIGINAL: Musicmystery
That's going to vary widely person to person. I know 50 year olds who look dead. And I know 90 year olds who vacation by biking across Denmark.

The hottest man I ever seen in my life is 50.

But the problem is also, my dad looks 10 years younger than his age and a very attractive man, as in, he still gets alot of ladies attention. I just don't want a guy that looks older than him.

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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant

They're all ego stroke for me, I don't care how old or young she is. I am with her because she is exceptional in at least one way, and I will treat her like a queen... all she needs to do is let me rule her and I will be her slave.

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ORIGINAL: MojoDaddyMarine

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

I really don't care about age, I just hate hypocrisy about why they want such young ones.

My recent ex is 12 years younger than me and I would never say, oh I picked him to nurture him through this world.

No, he was fucking hot and awesome in bed and he just appeared in my life.

My problem was that he was not intellectually stimulating to me and we were not compatible at all except for in the sheets.

Someone asked for opinions. Evidently You have issues that make you predisposition to not appreciate mine. I met my sub, not online, not through a dating site. I met her through everyday life, where she learned of my experience in the lifestyle, she initiated a discussion with me about her curiosity and we moved forward from there. I have had older submissives, and am here to share my point of view on the subject as to how the differences in their ages had an influence on me. Stop being so NEGATIVE towards an opinion because of your own insecurities.