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Question - 7/12/2006 7:29:07 PM   
ChinaKat


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So i was hoping to find some goldmine of information, but thusfar i've struck out.....
    Anyone know any good resources for practicing BDSM while pregnant......
    i was *really* hoping on finding at least something .... things one overlooks or doesn't even realize that could be a danger/factor.
    Thanks :)
       ~j
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RE: Question - 7/12/2006 7:57:02 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ChinaKat

So i was hoping to find some goldmine of information, but thusfar i've struck out.....
    Anyone know any good resources for practicing BDSM while pregnant......
    i was *really* hoping on finding at least something .... things one overlooks or doesn't even realize that could be a danger/factor.
    Thanks :)
       ~j


Hi j,

Try here for a bit of information from the Citidel in San Francisco's Tribe page:  http://sfthecitadel.tribe.net/thread/c680f83f-6d4b-4e79-b0be-10bfc6147931

~Holly




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RE: Question - 7/12/2006 7:57:10 PM   
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Hello ChinaKat.

It's commendable that you care enough for yourself and your wee one inside to ask this question.

I don't know how much of a help this will be. When I became pregnant many years ago, my ex-husband and I ceased "playing" at all. Just didn't want to take any chances. Mostly we were into bondage games at that time, nothing that really caused exertion. My personal feeling is that even if you go very lightly with some play, this may cause some distress to the wee one inside.

Maybe someone else had a different experience and opinion that could help you.

Best of luck and health to you.

Lily.

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RE: Question - 7/12/2006 8:08:19 PM   
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Don't suppose your Dr. is kink aware do you.  Perhaps leveling with the Dr. would get some more info.  Of course Dr. may faint also and then discharge you.  Congrats on the babe and take care of yourself and the little one.  When i was pregnant i was too ill to want to do vanilla so can't help but have heard others on here that are pregnant that might have info.  Might try castle tower to see if there is anything about it there.

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RE: Question - 7/12/2006 11:02:29 PM   
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I won't assume that you're already pregnant just because you're inquisitive about safe practices during a pregnancy... I really could do that, and usually would, but, I'm in a mood and can get pissy whenever someone points such thing out to Me. lol
   We can pray or burn offerings, I recommend the corner crack dealers, to whatever deity or demon that you might communicate with, but, I figure that the best course of action to recommend is FIND a kink friendly professional, if that's impossible, how about presenting your asscheeks with visible handprints whenever you go for an OB/GYN and especially any PROCTO exams. I figure if they don't flip and flame your honey they should be cool with that much at least.
 Actually, by informing your doctor of your alternative practices can arm him against any future need to involve the authotities at all. Some states have ord's that make it mandatory for them to report any damages that they believe might be the result of abuse or assault. By informing them they can also give some thought to possible games that should be avoided, moderated, and if they're really creative you might find some new friends to help with imaginative ideas dreated for you and the munchkin. heheheheeee
   I've practiced some breast play, dilations, suspension for effect, more than length of time or joint stretching, genital torture should be done well before the next appt, and be wise-don't dorkup and go for an exam with blue, black,  purple labia' and clamps still attached. Circulation should NOT be compromised, in My opinion. Breath play should NOT be indulged at all since the effects of oxygen deprivation has an accumulative effect and is irreversible. I will no longer practice it on anyone that, I'm not trying to chokeout for touching My Bike.
  Binding of limbs, especially after you start some weight and water retention is possible, but the odds are that you shopuld modify the rope stricture-strength.
  I'm kinda-sorta fixiated on fine asscheeks and I remembered an old Doc' friend that cautioned Me about being aggressive when taking My lust-driven ways with willing honeys bungholes and causing a possible hemmorrhoid by bursting a small vessel. A lot of women develop life threatening diseases during pregnancy, diabetes is possible, hypertension another, especially once an dietary plans are tossed because a kosher pickle pizza at three am is an imperative. weg
  Don't cheat the rugrat, inform your doctor of any changes, make notes, I doubt that they have time to read your journal, but your journal can be reviewed for changes and symptoms . Just change the font color whenever you're making notations that concerns your changing girth, weaknesses, lack of appetite, blurry vision, monster munchies that are no longer controllable, mood swings are important, what woman could posssibly relenquish her right to hormone shuffle. lol Depression can be dangerous, but treated.
  I pray that, I might have given you a bit of aid.
Gentry

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RE: Question - 7/13/2006 4:03:42 PM   
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quote:

Anyone know any good resources for practicing BDSM while pregnant......


We've had a few threads on here that might be helpful:

discipline during pregnancy

Pregnancy and the Lifestyle

Unplanned pregnancy....D/s view

Pregnancy

Domming while pregnant?


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RE: Question - 7/16/2006 1:51:14 PM   
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Tread carefully and do some light play if you feel the strong need to play.That lil one has no choice in the choices you make right now. So think of them.
with respect,
lily, collared and owned slave of Master Curios
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RE: Question - 7/18/2006 12:01:55 PM   
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Try the sub-shop website. The lady that runs it, Autum, has several sections of information and one of them pertains to pregnancy.

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