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A NOT SO POSITIVE EXPERIENCE COLLARSPACE - 1/19/2015 12:09:32 PM

concupiscent1

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I have been a member of CollarME site since 2004 but left for a while just before CollarMe went belly up. I came back here less than a week ago and threw up a profile with 14 photos (primary photo is shown here now).

Today, 1/19/15 at 12:16pm I received an email from CollarSpace "support" that said:

We needed to remove your primary photo from your profile.

Reason: This photo may not be used as your primary photo. It may (or may not) be acceptable as a secondary photo.

IMPORTANT NOTE: If you have other photos on your profile, none of them will be visible until you have an approved primary photo.

To make your other photos visible, please make sure to submit another photo for your primary photo.

WOW...a kink site that finds this photo too explicit! Laughs hard...really CollarSpace? You'd better practice EQUAL OPPORTUNITY because there are a myriad of primary photos on this site that are far more explicit. I will delete my account and take it somewhere where people and rules are more in line with the subject matter of the site and its members.

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RE: A NOT SO POSITIVE EXPERIENCE COLLARSPACE - 1/19/2015 12:22:17 PM

GoddessManko

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It is TOS, I don't understand why you're disgruntled.

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RE: A NOT SO POSITIVE EXPERIENCE COLLARSPACE - 1/19/2015 1:10:05 PM

DarkSteven

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Good Lord, woman. You left the site rather than swap out photos?

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RE: A NOT SO POSITIVE EXPERIENCE COLLARSPACE - 1/19/2015 1:15:32 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: concupiscent1

I have been a member of CollarME site since 2004 but left for a while just before CollarMe went belly up. I came back here less than a week ago and threw up a profile with 14 photos (primary photo is shown here now).

Today, 1/19/15 at 12:16pm I received an email from CollarSpace "support" that said:

We needed to remove your primary photo from your profile.

Reason: This photo may not be used as your primary photo. It may (or may not) be acceptable as a secondary photo.

IMPORTANT NOTE: If you have other photos on your profile, none of them will be visible until you have an approved primary photo.

To make your other photos visible, please make sure to submit another photo for your primary photo.

WOW...a kink site that finds this photo too explicit! Laughs hard...really CollarSpace? You'd better practice EQUAL OPPORTUNITY because there are a myriad of primary photos on this site that are far more explicit. I will delete my account and take it somewhere where people and rules are more in line with the subject matter of the site and its members.

Well, I guess the site owners' kids aren't going to college, after all. I mean, when you take your money elsewhere... LOL

Look, your OP is so rude to the hosts. We're visitors under someone else's roof here... freely welcomed, and all they ask is that we respect the rules they've set in their "house." They aren't telling us what to think, or what to say or what to do in our lives... the limitations on guests reflects the needs of the many and not on any one special visitor. There are legal and financial concerns involved with these decisions and who are we to dictate what risks others should take with their business? Our job is to say, "Thank you."

Have some class!

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RE: A NOT SO POSITIVE EXPERIENCE COLLARSPACE - 1/19/2015 1:15:50 PM

DaddySatyr

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I remember, back in the old days, I would constantly get the red fonted: "Who's Viewing Me" on the buttons on my profile.

There'd be no new viewers, there. Within 24 hours, I had a photo removed for one reason or another until I put my foot down and said: "Tell me what TOS I am violating, please?"

"Well, it's a copyrighted image" (Who knew a photo of POTUS wasn't public domain? Actually, it is, by definition).

Another photo was a "copyrighted" image (it was an image of me so ... I'm not sure how that worked since I'm not famous and no photos with me as the subject are copyrighted).

It was people, fucking with me because they didn't like me.

I said all of that to say this: OP, if you leave, you've let an asshole beat you. Stick around and make 'em angry. It's fun to live in peoples' heads ... rent free.

Michael

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RE: A NOT SO POSITIVE EXPERIENCE COLLARSPACE - 1/19/2015 1:19:16 PM

concupiscent1

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DarkSteven...I haven't left this joke of a site yet...I'm letting all of the friends I have made here since 2004 know about the degree of censorship and am gathering the ID's of primary photos FAR MORE EXPLICIT than my primary photo was and will post them to my profile.

I am absolutely stunned by the judgmental administration of this site when it comes to members, but laugh when all the advertising photos are FAR MORE Explicit and the site is filled with scammers, financial femdom's...double standards will make this site even more a joke than what it apparently is becoming.

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RE: A NOT SO POSITIVE EXPERIENCE COLLARSPACE - 1/19/2015 1:22:13 PM

concupiscent1

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Michael...

I guess I am SO disappointed and SO stunned by the judgmental people...I'm not so sure this site is worth fighting with or worth fighting for.

I am absolutely stunned...I violated NO copyrights...I took theses photos and can and will prove with State Photo ID that ALL 14 photos they took down were of me.

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RE: A NOT SO POSITIVE EXPERIENCE COLLARSPACE - 1/19/2015 1:22:15 PM

SweetnStormySub

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Just another flounce...

This was meant to go to OP.

< Message edited by SweetnStormySub -- 1/19/2015 1:24:56 PM >

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RE: A NOT SO POSITIVE EXPERIENCE COLLARSPACE - 1/19/2015 1:31:05 PM

GotSteel

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quote:

ORIGINAL: concupiscent1
I guess I am SO disappointed and SO stunned by the judgmental people...

You're not the first and I wonder if that's where at least some of the regular posters defensiveness comes from.

P.S. I haven't seen any of your pictures so I don't want to comment on them. I will say that I'd prefer not to have explicit photos in the forums so I can safely access this site on my phone hence I'm in favor of the TOS, but you have a really good point about the explicit advertising.

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RE: A NOT SO POSITIVE EXPERIENCE COLLARSPACE - 1/19/2015 1:34:26 PM

GoddessManko

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quote:

ORIGINAL: concupiscent1

Michael...

I guess I am SO disappointed and SO stunned by the judgmental people...I'm not so sure this site is worth fighting with or worth fighting for.

I am absolutely stunned...I violated NO copyrights...I took theses photos and can and will prove with State Photo ID that ALL 14 photos they took down were of me.

To be honest, I think they do these things randomly. I did report a pic stealer to support and nothing was done about it yet my cartoon photo was taken down. I don't know what system they use for pic stealers but it was abhorrent for me (an athlete) to see one of my female BB favorites on the raunchiest profile I ever read so had to report it.
It's fine to get butt hurt over something like this but there was a point in time when if people didn't see my picture and heard my voice would ask me if I was Asian.
Authenticity is in some ways (without proof or examination) undetectable online so it was probably a precautionary measure.
Edited because WHOOPS! I see you now and you are rocking it! They might be much for the feint of heart (the genitalia focused ones). I can see how a spread eagle pic might not be the best for main pic. But your pics are great, love them.

< Message edited by GoddessManko -- 1/19/2015 1:38:24 PM >

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RE: A NOT SO POSITIVE EXPERIENCE COLLARSPACE - 1/19/2015 7:39:03 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: concupiscent1
I guess I am SO disappointed and SO stunned by the judgmental people...I'm not so sure this site is worth fighting with or worth fighting for.

Have you given fetlife a try?

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