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InkedupKitty -> It's complicated (2/21/2015 11:33:57 PM)
Trying to ease him into tying me up and taking me but it's harder than I thought. I have rope, Wrist/ankle cuffs Ball gag Leash and collar ^^ any more light stuff I could introduce him to? Don't want to scare him off so I'm trying to keep it very simple.

DaddySatyr -> RE: It's complicated (2/21/2015 11:36:00 PM)
A lot of the adult toy stores are selling cheaper, lightweight, floggers (at least around here, they are), but why not just talk to him about it? maybe he has some ideas that he's never felt safe giving voice to, before? Michael

InkedupKitty -> RE: It's complicated (2/21/2015 11:44:47 PM)
I have a soft velvet type flogger :) It's quite nice, but he's never looked at it, he prefers the cuffs x

DaddySatyr -> RE: It's complicated (2/21/2015 11:56:10 PM)
Well, I re-iterate: communication is key. Tell him what you like and ask him what he'd like to try. Michael

InHisHeart -> RE: It's complicated (2/22/2015 4:38:16 AM)
I agree with DS, communication is the key. Tell him what you want, what you like, let him know why you like it, what you get out of it and find out his likes/dislikes and why he likes or dislikes X,Y or Z.

GotSteel -> RE: It's complicated (2/22/2015 8:46:36 AM)
When I've seen these introducing the partner threads go wrong it's often comes down to trying to push things that are fun for you but not them into the relationship. For example what does trying you up do for him, what will he get out of it? Perhaps a leashed blowjob (if he's into blowjobs) would be a good place to start, if he can see that the leash allows him to control the blowjob, getting exactly what he wants, that might really help moving forward. Making sure that these activities are a lot of fun for him is the sort of thing that will be really important to have a hope of succeeding.

MasterfulDonald -> RE: It's complicated (4/5/2015 5:57:55 AM)
If you've not seen this before, it's a humorous video about a woman trying to teach her boyfriend to get into piss play. It's all about the negotiation. I know that's not what you're into, but the concept is the same. https://vimeo.com/18107149

phaedrehills -> RE: It's complicated (4/5/2015 6:11:39 AM)
it was a great video :)

Soyokaze -> RE: It's complicated (4/8/2015 3:45:40 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterfulDonald If you've not seen this before, it's a humorous video about a woman trying to teach her boyfriend to get into piss play. It's all about the negotiation. I know that's not what you're into, but the concept is the same. https://vimeo.com/18107149 Them talking about how he's supposed to know if she really wants things to stop and I'm like "Silly vanillas that's what safewords are for."

kittenheels1968 -> RE: It's complicated (4/18/2015 1:22:58 AM)
bondage tape, its shiney, comes in bright colours, and only sticks to itself, so iit doesn't cause any damage, and as its on a roll he can have fun wrapping your boobies up with it, or wrapping it around your mouth, you can even make cute undies out of it if you are artistic, then wear it to go out! (if you make a body suit you cant remove it easily to pee, so thats an added bit of fun)

ResidentSadist -> RE: It's complicated (4/27/2015 7:48:56 AM)
A light slap & tickle bag usually includes: Blindfold feather or fur mitten Paddle flogger Candle(s) Nipple clamps or those nipple suction cups Cock ring You already have: rope cuffs Ball gag Leash & collar

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