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yourshades -> Whats a guy got to do ! (3/20/2015 12:24:18 PM)
If you look at my profile you will know I'm honest and very serious . If you can give me any tips it would be much appreciated ....or even take me under your wing ? xx

Moderator3 -> RE: Whats a guy got to do ! (3/20/2015 12:28:54 PM)
[:)] You can start by reading your email from me and then I am sure the forum users will have some 'tips'. Enjoy your time here.

Kittenluv954 -> RE: Whats a guy got to do ! (3/20/2015 12:34:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: yourshades If you look at my profile you will know I'm honest and very serious . If you can give me any tips it would be much appreciated ....or even take me under your wing ? xx oh brother, here we go. you read the book and watched the movie? what exactly does that mean, you have studied and are ready for your exam? lol. appears you are seeking "anyone and everyone", try not to be so discriminate. lastly, add some pics of yourself. as far as someone taking you under their wing, I am CERTAIN you could benefit from this. try seeking a mentor here or on Fetlife, there are groups specifically designed to help new people find guidance. good luck.

RockaRolla -> RE: Whats a guy got to do ! (3/20/2015 12:56:33 PM)
First tip: Stop expecting someone to take you under their wing. The book and movie were works of fiction, and should be treated as such. They are not the handbook for this or any lifestyle. Second tip: Read more. Learn more. Go for non-fiction. Avoid movies and avoid "trainers," and go for books. This way you'll get a better understanding of what you like/want, and learn some safety. You'll find there's more to BDSM than getting whipped and laid. Third tip: Once you have a better understanding of what you want, go out and meet people. You can certainly find munches while you're in step 2, but I wouldn't recommend looking for that perfect Mistress at that time. Meet some friends, learn more things. Take relationships SLOWLY and don't let sub frenzy get to your head because that's a path to disaster. Fourth tip: Approach potential partners as human beings, not kink dispensers. This goes whether you want to play or have a real relationship. Either way, you're going to have to do the work in pursuing, not let people come to you.

DaddySatyr -> RE: Whats a guy got to do ! (3/20/2015 1:05:54 PM)
"Whats a guy got to do !" Besides walking on water, having a 10 inch pecker, and a six-figure bank account? Michael

GoddessManko -> RE: Whats a guy got to do ! (3/20/2015 1:10:14 PM)
Oh wonderful, a 50 shades fan. This should go well. [8\|]

Kittenluv954 -> RE: Whats a guy got to do ! (3/20/2015 1:23:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DaddySatyr "Whats a guy got to do !" Besides walking on water, having a 10 inch pecker, and a six-figure bank account? Michael sounds like more woman hate from our favorite woman hater. or someone is just angry they don't have any of these things.

yourshades -> RE: Whats a guy got to do ! (3/20/2015 5:02:45 PM)
Thank You .....that is good advice . I will make some changes .

JstAnotherSub -> RE: Whats a guy got to do ! (3/20/2015 5:06:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RockaRolla First tip: Stop expecting someone to take you under their wing. The book and movie were works of fiction, and should be treated as such. They are not the handbook for this or any lifestyle. Second tip: Read more. Learn more. Go for non-fiction. Avoid movies and avoid "trainers," and go for books. This way you'll get a better understanding of what you like/want, and learn some safety. You'll find there's more to BDSM than getting whipped and laid. Third tip: Once you have a better understanding of what you want, go out and meet people. You can certainly find munches while you're in step 2, but I wouldn't recommend looking for that perfect Mistress at that time. Meet some friends, learn more things. Take relationships SLOWLY and don't let sub frenzy get to your head because that's a path to disaster. Fourth tip: Approach potential partners as human beings, not kink dispensers. This goes whether you want to play or have a real relationship. Either way, you're going to have to do the work in pursuing, not let people come to you. What she said. Good luck!

DarkSteven -> RE: Whats a guy got to do ! (3/20/2015 5:43:00 PM)
Okay. Here's your profile: Hi , Thank you for taking the time to view you profile. I appreciate its all about you but I have to say something here. This is my moment to explore and experience what may be waiting for me . Please guide me into your world of pleasure and desire. I want to learn and to please you , to be moulded to your ways. I work shift so am available to chat and meet on week days and week ends . Im happy to travel or accommodate in my home or hotels. Please consider me? Here's mine: I am a man and a Dominant and consider the two to be intertwined. While I've been in the scene for a few years, I am not a heavy player. I frequently attend Scarlet Moons, the House of Guilty Pleasures, Skales, and the Longmont munch. I'm a 59 year old, 5'9", man, dark and good looking. I have a sense of humor and an education (two Master's degrees) and can talk about business, mythology, engineering, silent movies, linguistics, or comparative theology. And lately, bees and beekeeping. I don't smoke and don't use illegal drugs. I don't drink either. Yeah, I'm just a kinky Boy Scout. I love spanking, breast play, and sex. My hard limits include sex with children and animals, blood, breath play, scat, and severe pain. I wrote mine with several things in mind: 1. I reference local venues. This gives me some credibility and states that I'm active in the local community. 2. I list the topics I can talk knowledgeably about. Women like conversation, so let them know you're down for that. 3. I list that I'm straight edge. Then I add a joke to dispel any impression that I'm a humorless fanatic. 4. I probably shouldn't have done it, but I briefly list the kink stuff. I really wish that I could show some pics of me doing sports, working on cars, or playing an instrument. Unfortunately, I don't do any of those. If you do, by all means post those pics. The basic rule is that you want a woman reading it to think, "Dang! That guy sounds like he'd be fun to be with!"

yourshades -> RE: Whats a guy got to do ! (3/20/2015 6:00:35 PM)
You sound like a magician or some type of communication expert .....ill try that ..... thanks you !!!

Baroana -> RE: Whats a guy got to do ! (3/20/2015 6:03:20 PM)
Well... we tried.

NookieNotes -> RE: Whats a guy got to do ! (3/21/2015 4:47:00 AM)
Your profile is definitely improved. Images of you, the real you, even if not identifiable will help. Knowing that you want a mistress by April immediately turns me off. I take quite some time to get to know my potential partners, and take 6 months (and longer) to collar someone. It's like saying (to me) that you want to be engaged by April. Good luck!

LookieNoNookie -> RE: Whats a guy got to do ! (3/24/2015 6:05:25 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DaddySatyr "Whats a guy got to do !" Besides walking on water, having a 10 inch pecker, and a six-figure bank account? Michael OMFG LOL....LOOOOOVE your image thing (whatever they call that). So incredibly awesome.

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