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MalcolmNathaniel -> I need a word right now: (3/27/2015 12:23:57 PM)
And I've forgotten what it is? What do you call the period of depression when a sub and a dom separate. I know there is a word for it but it escapes me and I have little time to find out. I need to know for a friend.

DaddySatyr -> RE: I need a word right now: (3/27/2015 12:41:58 PM)
Mourning? Sub Drop? I'm not being a smart-ass. I'm not sure exactly what you're asking? Michael

DaddySatyr -> RE: I need a word right now: (3/27/2015 12:47:23 PM)
Are you referencing the five stages of grief? Michael ETA: Well, I tried. Peace, M.P.C.

JVoV -> RE: I need a word right now: (3/27/2015 1:13:39 PM)
Separation anxiety?

Awareness -> RE: I need a word right now: (3/27/2015 1:36:01 PM)
A specific word doesn't immediately come to mind, but I often wonder about the failure of Dominants or Masters to prepare their sub for a transition to normal autonomy. This is more of an issues for slaves than subs, but when someone's entire sense of autonomy is redirected toward another individual, I believe that in the event of a separation it's incumbent upon that individual to attempt to transition them back toward full autonomy and self-determination. This may not always be possible, especially if there's deep emotional entanglement, but it does strike me as something that is often poorly addressed.

DarkSteven -> RE: I need a word right now: (3/27/2015 1:37:45 PM)
After a breakup, some depression is natural. I don't know of any D/s specific term or concept.

GoddessManko -> RE: I need a word right now: (3/27/2015 1:49:47 PM)
It's very devastating for some no matter which side of collar. I agree there should be a transition period back to autonomy or he's irresponsible and undeserving of being a Dominant. That is unless there is some sort of emergency situation (a real one) preventing it.

petitespot -> RE: I need a word right now: (3/27/2015 1:54:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MalcolmNathaniel What do you call the period of depression when a sub and a dom separate. Hell

DerangedUnit -> RE: I need a word right now: (3/27/2015 1:58:09 PM)
Monday

Awareness -> RE: I need a word right now: (3/27/2015 2:03:14 PM)
This reminds me of the time I mentioned Steak and Blowjob Day to a sub I was with. She squinted at me and said, "Well that's Thursday isn't it?"

Kana -> RE: I need a word right now: (3/27/2015 6:00:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MalcolmNathaniel And I've forgotten what it is? What do you call the period of depression when a sub and a dom separate. I know there is a word for it but it escapes me and I have little time to find out. I need to know for a friend. Chrysalis

DerangedUnit -> RE: I need a word right now: (3/27/2015 7:01:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Awareness This reminds me of the time I mentioned Steak and Blowjob Day to a sub I was with. She squinted at me and said, "Well that's Thursday isn't it?" Haha I was with someone that did day of the week foods(the blow job part was everyday...) one day he was like... "I think it's time for a special treat, let's have lasagna today" I squealed and fell to the ground clutching at his pants "lasagna on wednesday! That's a whole day early! How will I function! The schedule, the routine! Ruined! Ruined!" He wasn't too happy about that 😆

dcnovice -> RE: I need a word right now: (3/27/2015 7:08:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DerangedUnit quote: ORIGINAL: Awareness This reminds me of the time I mentioned Steak and Blowjob Day to a sub I was with. She squinted at me and said, "Well that's Thursday isn't it?" Haha I was with someone that did day of the week foods(the blow job part was everyday...) one day he was like... "I think it's time for a special treat, let's have lasagna today" I squealed and fell to the ground clutching at his pants "lasagna on wednesday! That's a whole day early! How will I function! The schedule, the routine! Ruined! Ruined!" He wasn't too happy about that 😆 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Seg5WAq65n8

DerangedUnit -> RE: I need a word right now: (3/27/2015 9:44:20 PM)
That reminded be of another movie scene... but I suck at YouTube and could only find this https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=fgYr6hF3XDQ Which of course ends exactly at the part I wanted.... grrr, script goes like this: Make me something to eat. - What would you like? - Steak. We don't have any meat. I come home and you got nothing to fucking eat? We have bacon. We have lots of bacon. I can make you bacon and eggs.

ResidentSadist -> RE: I need a word right now: (3/27/2015 11:33:00 PM)
Stalking I had left my suit on the clothes hook in the back of my car. Found it sliced neatly into 1 inch strips.

JVoV -> RE: I need a word right now: (3/27/2015 11:37:46 PM)
Temporary restraining order. Can we have this moved to Games? [:D]

CelticPrince -> RE: I need a word right now: (3/28/2015 3:59:08 PM)
Regret CP

DesFIP -> RE: I need a word right now: (3/28/2015 6:28:38 PM)
Depression, heart break, grief. But there's nothing special about this. Any loss will cause these feelings.

LookieNoNookie -> RE: I need a word right now: (3/28/2015 7:22:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MalcolmNathaniel And I've forgotten what it is? What do you call the period of depression when a sub and a dom separate. I know there is a word for it but it escapes me and I have little time to find out. I need to know for a friend. Depends on the player but, I'll play my side....."sub drop".

Awareness -> RE: I need a word right now: (3/28/2015 7:39:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DerangedUnit Haha I was with someone that did day of the week foods(the blow job part was everyday...) one day he was like... "I think it's time for a special treat, let's have lasagna today" I squealed and fell to the ground clutching at his pants "lasagna on wednesday! That's a whole day early! How will I function! The schedule, the routine! Ruined! Ruined!" He wasn't too happy about that 😆 Of course the proper response to that is a slow clap followed by "I'm sure the Academy will recognise you come Oscar time."

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