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Hard to find real owners in a foreign country - 7/15/2006 5:57:13 AM

MaleServant35

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Hello: I would like to ask a question to all Masters, Mistresses and Couples: Why is it that when a bi male slave from another country (Mexico) puts an ad in collarme, alt, or any other personal ad web page, asking or looking to serve 24/7 full time, as a servant, domestic chores, with a visa, health insurance etc., has very few answers, BUT when a female slave also from Mexico, who is bi, has a visa, insurrance and looks for a 24/7 situation, gets alot of responses? Both are from Mexico but for the male the ones who response are either gay masters or people that ask him about visa, work papers and legal status if coming to the US or other country, but in the female slave case, that doesnt happend, there is even people that offer to get her in their country, dont worry about legal status and they dont care about insurrance. With this facts, becayuse they are facts we could say that the BDSM community is racist as it prefers a woman over a male even though we live in a new era where male and female should be equal. mmmmmh, its a good thread to thinkl about it. Anyway, I ask this because I am a male who is a slave and I wonder if I ever will be in service with such competition.
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RE: Hard to find real owners in a foreign country - 7/15/2006 6:02:42 AM

MHOO314

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sadly the ratio of male submissives to Mistress' now ranks about 40 to 1----

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RE: Hard to find real owners in a foreign country - 7/15/2006 6:25:07 AM

LotusSong

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How many countries have you applied to?

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RE: Hard to find real owners in a foreign country - 7/15/2006 6:44:34 AM

IronBear

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How long has your adds been running....

Anyone got the number for the S/SPS so the handlers can impound wandering sub/slaves untill an owner can be found???

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RE: Hard to find real owners in a foreign country - 7/15/2006 7:19:54 AM

Caretakr

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Shrugs, females are more in demand.

Supply ratios, and all of that jive.

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RE: Hard to find real owners in a foreign country - 7/15/2006 7:34:04 AM

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It's quite possible that the demands of the individuals libido's causes them to dictate what gender is most useful to their purposes and practices.
As the Master of Viking House, I have My own preferences, but My past experiences have shown Me repeatedly that an able male slave is most always a great addition, especiallf if he's service oriented and not just another hornydawg. you're free to contact us if your desire is indeed ensalavement and service, but, I have to ask if you think that just service will be enough for the new owners, do they require you to earn a living and contribute to the upkeep of the House and owners comforts, do they intend to meet your expectations or simply disregard your deeper needs? Questions are good and should be asked.
If you still wander why someone would pick a female over a male, if all things were equal, I'd say that you may not have sold yourself very well, and there's the ever present fantasys in their minds that are more complete with her in the starring role of pleasure slut.
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ORIGINAL: MaleServant35

Hello: I would like to ask a question to all Masters, Mistresses and Couples: Why is it that when a bi male slave from another country (Mexico) puts an ad in collarme, alt, or any other personal ad web page, asking or looking to serve 24/7 full time, as a servant, domestic chores, with a visa, health insurance etc., has very few answers, BUT when a female slave also from Mexico, who is bi, has a visa, insurrance and looks for a 24/7 situation, gets alot of responses? Both are from Mexico but for the male the ones who response are either gay masters or people that ask him about visa, work papers and legal status if coming to the US or other country, but in the female slave case, that doesnt happend, there is even people that offer to get her in their country, dont worry about legal status and they dont care about insurrance. With this facts, becayuse they are facts we could say that the BDSM community is racist as it prefers a woman over a male even though we live in a new era where male and female should be equal. mmmmmh, its a good thread to thinkl about it. Anyway, I ask this because I am a male who is a slave and I wonder if I ever will be in service with such competition.
thanyou
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