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"Hang on I need to get my cock hard".... :( - 4/12/2015 10:33:02 AM

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Does that mean he's no longer sexually attracted to me?

I've been talking to this amazing older guy ON THE PHONE for like 4 months now. We talk about 2-3 times a week and for several hours at a time, like 11pm - 5am. Only about 20% of the conversation is about sex.

We could never meet irl though.

Many times, he'd be able to get hard just at the sound of my voice and that's what turns me on. He is so clever and has an amazing imagination.

The other day we were about to have phone sex and he said "I need to get my cock hard first".

That was like a massive smack in the face for me. Am I now just too routine for him that he's no longer sexually attracted to me?

Do other girls feel insulted too if they're in the company of a guy and he has to rub his own cock to get hard?

RE: "Hang on I need to get my cock hard".... :( - 4/12/2015 11:02:23 AM

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Does that mean he's no longer sexually attracted to me?

I've been talking to this amazing older guy ON THE PHONE for like 4 months now. We talk about 2-3 times a week and for several hours at a time, like 11pm - 5am. Only about 20% of the conversation is about sex.

We could never meet irl though.

Many times, he'd be able to get hard just at the sound of my voice and that's what turns me on. He is so clever and has an amazing imagination.

The other day we were about to have phone sex and he said "I need to get my cock hard first".

That was like a massive smack in the face for me. Am I now just too routine for him that he's no longer sexually attracted to me?

Do other girls feel insulted too if they're in the company of a guy and he has to rub his own cock to get hard?

You've never been in the company of the guy.

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RE: "Hang on I need to get my cock hard".... :( - 4/12/2015 11:28:37 AM

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ORIGINAL: Daddyslilgirlx

Does that mean he's no longer sexually attracted to me?

I've been talking to this amazing older guy ON THE PHONE for like 4 months now. We talk about 2-3 times a week and for several hours at a time, like 11pm - 5am. Only about 20% of the conversation is about sex.

We could never meet irl though.

Many times, he'd be able to get hard just at the sound of my voice and that's what turns me on. He is so clever and has an amazing imagination.

The other day we were about to have phone sex and he said "I need to get my cock hard first".

That was like a massive smack in the face for me. Am I now just too routine for him that he's no longer sexually attracted to me?

Do other girls feel insulted too if they're in the company of a guy and he has to rub his own cock to get hard?

Did anyone else hear the old commercial jingle "Reach out. Reach out and touch someone."

OP. You are on the phone with a guy, not in the same room as him. It would be a feat to behold if he didn't have to stroke his own cock to get hard and you could do it for him.

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RE: "Hang on I need to get my cock hard".... :( - 4/12/2015 12:19:17 PM

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ORIGINAL: Daddyslilgirlx

Does that mean he's no longer sexually attracted to me?

I've been talking to this amazing older guy ON THE PHONE for like 4 months now. We talk about 2-3 times a week and for several hours at a time, like 11pm - 5am. Only about 20% of the conversation is about sex.

We could never meet irl though.

Many times, he'd be able to get hard just at the sound of my voice and that's what turns me on. He is so clever and has an amazing imagination.

The other day we were about to have phone sex and he said "I need to get my cock hard first".

That was like a massive smack in the face for me. Am I now just too routine for him that he's no longer sexually attracted to me?

Do other girls feel insulted too if they're in the company of a guy and he has to rub his own cock to get hard?

Did anyone else hear the old commercial jingle "Reach out. Reach out and touch someone."

OP. You are on the phone with a guy, not in the same room as him. It would be a feat to behold if he didn't have to stroke his own cock to get hard and you could do it for him.

You never know, she could be composed of a memetic poly-alloy. We've seen stranger things around here.

Jus sayin

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RE: "Hang on I need to get my cock hard".... :( - 4/12/2015 12:23:08 PM

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I don't do phone sex, it makes me feel awkward- I'm certain any man would feel like they were pulling teeth with me.

My guy, in bed, on occasion has had to work on here and there. It is nothing to be insulted by- it doesn't mean anything beyond that that day he had to stroke himself a couple times. Personally? He probably has had to every time and just not told you.

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RE: "Hang on I need to get my cock hard".... :( - 4/12/2015 12:31:12 PM

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I don't do phone sex, it makes me feel awkward- I'm certain any man would feel like they were pulling teeth with me.

My guy, in bed, on occasion has had to work on here and there. It is nothing to be insulted by- it doesn't mean anything beyond that that day he had to stroke himself a couple times. Personally? He probably has had to every time and just not told you.

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RE: "Hang on I need to get my cock hard".... :( - 4/12/2015 2:14:57 PM

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Does that mean he's no longer sexually attracted to me?

I've been talking to this amazing older guy ON THE PHONE for like 4 months now. We talk about 2-3 times a week and for several hours at a time, like 11pm - 5am. Only about 20% of the conversation is about sex.

We could never meet irl though.

Many times, he'd be able to get hard just at the sound of my voice and that's what turns me on. He is so clever and has an amazing imagination.

The other day we were about to have phone sex and he said "I need to get my cock hard first".

That was like a massive smack in the face for me. Am I now just too routine for him that he's no longer sexually attracted to me?

Do other girls feel insulted too if they're in the company of a guy and he has to rub his own cock to get hard?

Why could you never meet IRL?

I never had your problem because I am only with men I can actually reach out and touch.

Of course he had to touch himself, you are not in his actual presence. Silly question.

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RE: "Hang on I need to get my cock hard".... :( - 4/12/2015 2:35:12 PM

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You feel insulted because he would "rub his own cock"? Seriously, who do you think had their dick in their hand while previously cumming during phone sex with you? What are you talking about, this seems completely illogical???

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RE: "Hang on I need to get my cock hard".... :( - 4/12/2015 2:43:53 PM

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ORIGINAL: Daddyslilgirlx

Does that mean he's no longer sexually attracted to me?

I've been talking to this amazing older guy ON THE PHONE for like 4 months now. We talk about 2-3 times a week and for several hours at a time, like 11pm - 5am. Only about 20% of the conversation is about sex.

We could never meet irl though.

Many times, he'd be able to get hard just at the sound of my voice and that's what turns me on. He is so clever and has an amazing imagination.

The other day we were about to have phone sex and he said "I need to get my cock hard first".

That was like a massive smack in the face for me. Am I now just too routine for him that he's no longer sexually attracted to me?

Do other girls feel insulted too if they're in the company of a guy and he has to rub his own cock to get hard?

Why could you never meet IRL?

I never had your problem because I am only with men I can actually reach out and touch.

Of course he had to touch himself, you are not in his actual presence. Silly question.

umm we can't meet irl because he lives to far away and we both just wanna be really good friends and we kinda don't wanna meet cos we both enjoy the mystery and imagination too much.

I mean, obviously he stroked himself, but I guess what I wanna know is whether guys just get a full hard-on without touching?

or do they have to rub it to get it fully hard? or do they only get fully hard without touching if they're super turned on?

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RE: "Hang on I need to get my cock hard".... :( - 4/12/2015 2:48:28 PM

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Does that mean he's no longer sexually attracted to me?

I've been talking to this amazing older guy ON THE PHONE for like 4 months now.

Just how old is this amazing older guy?

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RE: "Hang on I need to get my cock hard".... :( - 4/12/2015 2:50:57 PM

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he's 40

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RE: "Hang on I need to get my cock hard".... :( - 4/12/2015 3:09:33 PM

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he's 40

Hmmm... I must be from good gladiator stock.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y09kqOVE4HE

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RE: "Hang on I need to get my cock hard".... :( - 4/12/2015 3:14:22 PM

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he's 40

Hmmm... I must be from good gladiator stock.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y09kqOVE4HE

umm i don't like thems

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RE: "Hang on I need to get my cock hard".... :( - 4/12/2015 6:18:04 PM

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I understand. Your relationship is based off of words and your voice. It makes you feel sexy when you can arouse him with just your voice. You asked, however, if other women get their feelings hurt when they are in the company of their men and ...

Those posting are answering from real life/in person experience and so aren't understanding your point.

Men aren't machines, and they aren't always going to be aroused by the same exact things every time. I know it may seem like their cocks are on auto pilot most of the time but nope. I know, shocking but there you have it.

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RE: "Hang on I need to get my cock hard".... :( - 4/12/2015 6:36:29 PM

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Hard to say without knowing the flow of conversation beforehand.

Your voice may still effect him in his happy places. But talking about unsexy things in between that first hello and getting down and dirty may just leave him deflated.

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RE: "Hang on I need to get my cock hard".... :( - 4/12/2015 11:46:18 PM

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Don't take it personally. Most guys need time to work up to arousal just as most women need to as well. This increases with age is my guess. Even people in real life relationships don't get hard instantly all the time. As far as I understand it, arousal is triggered by hormones both internally and externally. When you take away the external factor, I can see why it would require more to work up to. Honestly I am having a hard time believing he has been able to do so thus far already but will take your work on it. Bottom line, it's not you at all.

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RE: "Hang on I need to get my cock hard".... :( - 4/13/2015 12:01:15 AM

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I've always been very into voices. Ladies that can sing score extra "hotness" points.

Even at my advanced age, there are ladies that can get me harder than Chinese arithmetic by just whispering in my ear, but it doesn't happen nearly as often as it used to.

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RE: "Hang on I need to get my cock hard".... :( - 4/13/2015 5:42:54 AM

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Human sexuality is influenced by a lot of factors. And, strange as it may seem, his cock's reactions are not all about you.

Shocking, I know!

Here are somethings that can affect the sexual arousal response in both men and women:

Age
Physical Fitness
Testosterone production (yes, for men and women, both)
Sleep
Stress
Distraction
Blood Pressure
Allergic Reactions to Foods
Illness
Pain
Intuition
Husband/Wife (the NOT you...)
The Sun, Moon And Stars and how they are aligned...

I rarely take it personally when there are flagship issues. I know I'm hot as hell to those I'm with, so why would I worry?

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RE: "Hang on I need to get my cock hard".... :( - 4/13/2015 11:00:21 AM

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Would you prefer that he lie and not tell you he wasn't hard already? That way you could hold onto to the idea that he is so turned on by your voice that he needs nothing else but your voice. If that is the case then have a talk with him and explain that that is what you need.

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RE: "Hang on I need to get my cock hard".... :( - 4/13/2015 2:22:01 PM

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It happens, even in person. It rarely has to do with you. He could be tired, stressed, hungry, whatever.

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