From: Western MD
I think it must be probably normal, but just in case it's not, I wanted to know if it's normal that you get zero CS emails over a period of more than a year?
The first time I tried to pull up your profile OP, I couldn't access it, because your situation seems quite abnormal even for an older male switch.
Ok, you do ramble a bit much, but so do many of us. What stands out to me the most is your lack of discrimination in what you're seeking. Being overly flexible is not always a good selling point. You've cast your net so wide that you're not catching anything.
You don't list yourself as bisexual but it's apparent from what you're seeking that you are. You also sound as if you don't care whether you would take precautions on who you fluid-bond with, whether they're married or fooling around with everybody and anybody. This is just the overriding impression I get. You might as well put a big red slash across your profile.
If you're primarily interested in female bottoms since you say you're more comfortable Topping, then your profile has zero appeal to them. (Even if you were more bottom-leaning, it would still not be appealing to a female Top unless she were on the hunt for new clients, and you don't fit the target market for a pro Top.)
You're a senior male and you should have something to offer a woman besides NSA play, which they can find just about anywhere. What kinds of contact messages are you sending out? Brief, insipid one-liners? Your entire autobiography in one fell swoop? Nix for either one of those approaches.
If you're sitting around waiting to get contacted first, then you'll be waiting empty-handed on this site for many more years to come. At the very least, fill out your Interests listing and sprinkle some vanilla activities in there, for Pete's sake.
Edit - Sorry, I wasn't logged in so I couldn't see that you had listed your Lives For and Loves. Ugh. . . a Lives For means this is a need you can't do without, nearly a dozen BDSM items. You honestly can't live without these things, or this is where your head is at and nothing more? Not one single vanilla activity to lend insight into you as an individual. Tsk, tsk.
< Message edited by dreamlady -- 6/12/2015 5:00:44 PM >