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RE: Which Side Do You Lean More Towards? - 8/3/2016 8:28:45 PM

porcelaindoll2

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It depends who I am with, but as a rule I tend to lean more submissive. This is because my switch husband leans more dominant.

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RE: Which Side Do You Lean More Towards? - 8/5/2016 12:49:27 AM

ShaharThorne

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Not in a relationship now but when I have my own household I am Domme but submissive if there is a good Dom that treats me like an equal and a human being, not just something to toss around. I stop feminizing cds and sissy boys because they were do-mes, getting what THEY wanted, not what I wanted.

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RE: Which Side Do You Lean More Towards? - 9/27/2016 3:49:34 AM

Gr8tlife

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I like to be dom 95% of the time.......but........there is an occasion where it just feels good to flip to the other side.

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RE: Which Side Do You Lean More Towards? - 9/27/2016 5:58:26 AM

WickedsDesire

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Some answers, of mine, I like/wish to correct with different, sometimes better answers, other times elaborate, which is why I prefer the word rainbow - which was inferred by most on here and I am pleasantly surprised *smiles. BondageersT sometimes if I feel I have been overly harsh, or cryptic, with an op, (despite underlying reasons) I will also correct. I am frankly delighted with many peoples answers.

I am not a fan of absolute labels and many peoples interpretations of them still me fill me with woe
1. How long is a bit of string
2. What is a bit of string to me or anyone

ive told many true stories over the epochs, I will nor re-tell the one, or two for now.

Best sex I have ever had was with dominant - worst sex with submissives - I exempt one. I can also argue i exempt 1 switch

Play without sex, sexual element is something I do no do I believe it deeply personal and intimate. I am aware many female dominants, and to a lesser extent some male dominates enjoy.

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RE: Which Side Do You Lean More Towards? - 9/27/2016 9:00:47 PM

HoneyBears

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quote:

ORIGINAL: WickedsDesire

Best sex I have ever had was with dominant - worst sex with submissives - I exempt one. I can also argue i exempt 1 switch

Play without sex, sexual element is something I do no do I believe it deeply personal and intimate. I am aware many female dominants, and to a lesser extent some male dominates enjoy.

This is no skin off of our noses, but out of curiosity, why do you think that was so for you?
We tried to glean it for ourselves in the sentence which follows. Could you please clarify what you meant, because it sort of comes off as contrary to what you may have intended to say.

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RE: Which Side Do You Lean More Towards? - 10/3/2016 5:21:21 PM

OsideGirl

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It's funny, we were just discussing this today. It seems like the majority of male switches show a photo that indicates bottoming or submission.

I know that I've been contacted by a male switch that had previously contacted a Fem Domme friend of mine. He told her that he was mostly submissive and he told me that he was mostly Dominant.

I wonder if some of the male switches list it simply to get more action.

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RE: Which Side Do You Lean More Towards? - 1/8/2023 8:54:19 PM

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