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-= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=-


Restore RS's forum rank text [Awaiting Approval]
  17% (15)
Apologize for being a snivelly little bitch
  7% (6)
Ban the asshole mod
  9% (8)
Ban the asshole ResidentSadist
  8% (7)
RS is an ass and even he believes in "calling a spade a spade"
  4% (4)
Stop abusing mod privileges, there has already been enough of that
  19% (16)
Post to FetLife - whine about this in their Collarme Refugeess group
  5% (5)
Flashback to the days when Arpig used to have 86 socks posting
  8% (7)
Have frenzied masturbation fit and post 86 sexting threads of your own
  4% (4)
Laugh at drama lamas, get cookies & go watch TV like RS just did
  14% (12)


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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/26/2015 10:19:08 AM   
OsideGirl


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ORIGINAL: Spiritedsub2


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ORIGINAL: M38284

Apologies. No clue what happened there, but it's being fixed ASAP.


Given the minuscule number of people with the ability to make the change that was made on RS's avatar, that seems highly unlikely.


Even the Mods don't have that ability. It takes the very top tier admin access to do that.

And I agree with everyone else - RS didn't deserve that.


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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/26/2015 10:28:38 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ShoeDivaManko N

Not trying to invalidate feelings entirely but it's a HUMAN mistake. I think people are overreacting a tad.

It was not a mistake. It was a deliberate action done with a purpose and while the motive is unknown, it should not be misconstrued as a mistake.



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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/26/2015 10:36:42 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ShoeDivaManko

Not trying to invalidate feelings entirely but it's a HUMAN mistake. I think people are overreacting a tad.


So, you think someone accidentally went into RS's profile, accidentally deleted what was written there and then accidentally wrote "RS - Don't be an ass"?

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/26/2015 10:49:46 AM   
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ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: ShoeDivaManko

Not trying to invalidate feelings entirely but it's a HUMAN mistake. I think people are overreacting a tad.


So, you think someone accidentally went into RS's profile, accidentally deleted what was written there and then accidentally wrote "RS - Don't be an ass"?


I think someone made the mistake of thinking the joke was appreciated. I would like to see these forums and site continue to run as always despite that though.

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/26/2015 10:57:48 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: BitaTruble


quote:

ORIGINAL: ShoeDivaManko N

Not trying to invalidate feelings entirely but it's a HUMAN mistake. I think people are overreacting a tad.

It was not a mistake. It was a deliberate action done with a purpose and while the motive is unknown, it should not be misconstrued as a mistake.


And by the way, it did not get fixed. The insult was removed, but now it says "insane", the generic one, instead of what it said before the "mistake", which was [awaiting approval].

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/26/2015 11:03:04 AM   
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Yes, and spiritedsub2 you also forgot to mention that the way it was asked was "fix it cunt." There's that too but let's all glaze over our flaws as always and blame the Mods.

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/26/2015 11:12:02 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ShoeDivaManko

Yes, and spiritedsub2 you also forgot to mention that the way it was asked was "fix it cunt." There's that too but let's all glaze over our flaws as always and blame the Mods.


Where was that said? (and it's an honest question, not snarky)

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/26/2015 11:23:51 AM   
ShoeDivaManko


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quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

Where was that said? (and it's an honest question, not snarky)


Hey OsideGirl, glad you're back. I was referring to this:
quote:

Maybe the mod who changed the RS forum rank was just an immature little cunt in which case..that's the cunt pot calling the asshat a kettle or..something like that.

While you are fixing stuff ASAP, you might want to at least take a look at the urgent ticket I sent in about the fella talking about minor children. Time to fuck with RS.. But no time to look at urgent tickets regarding minors. That is one fucked up priority.


Honestly it wasn't directly said but at the same time do you realize a lot of vehemence between Mods and members is one sided, right? I cannot help but feel that some of you (though not all) take advantage of the Moderators' need to remain somewhat impartial even in this environment which is not entirely friendly.

< Message edited by ShoeDivaManko -- 9/26/2015 11:24:02 AM >

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/26/2015 11:30:32 AM   
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That's right. You doctored his comment; he didn't say it. Drama-mongering much?

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/26/2015 11:36:35 AM   
ShoeDivaManko


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LOL drama mongering. Right, because that totally was a friendly request and you people are perfectly innocent victims. And Bita said it, not RS. Apologies if that was inferred RS. Spiritedsub2, I'm house shopping and just switching tabs between that. That's the extent of it.

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/26/2015 11:40:56 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ShoeDivaManko

do you realize a lot of vehemence between Mods and members is one sided, right?


I know it is. The reality is that in any situation where the person doing the moderating is anonymous, people will assign their own biases to the moderator actions. "Oh, they removed my post post about Obama, they must be a lefty liberal" In most cases, the assumptions are wrong.

However, in this particular case, while I can find it believable that someone used bad judgement and thought it was funny, I wouldn't label it a mistake. Also, considering the incredibly small pool of people capable of changing the titles on forum display, it shouldn't be a large mystery for the staff to determine who made the change.






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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/26/2015 11:44:08 AM   
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RS..i think you are the bees knees, even when we dont agree. No you didnt deserve it...your frustration has been palpable, you have more than reason to be pissed.



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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/26/2015 11:47:49 AM   
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Holy ever loving phuck!

Most of you are smarter than me. How do people smarter than me fall for stupidity?

By definition, a mistake is something that happens without intent. It's not about opening Administrative access to specifically go and change something. Look the word up. The definition is, precisely: "to be wrong about."

Somebody specifically went in and changed it. You think it's funny? That's great! As the saying goes, if you stand for nothing, you will fall for anything.


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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/26/2015 11:48:23 AM   
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That's fair OsideGirl, I meant that thinking it was a joke was a mistake, not the actual changing of his name. But to be frank, the options of the reason were: "you are lying or he/she is a cunt". Not much wiggle room for objectivity is there?
GTSY LadyPact. :)

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/26/2015 12:03:53 PM   
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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/26/2015 12:07:38 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: ShoeDivaManko

That's fair OsideGirl, I meant that thinking it was a joke was a mistake, not the actual changing of his name. But to be frank, the options of the reason were: "you are lying or he/she is a cunt". Not much wiggle room for objectivity is there?
GTSY LadyPact. :)

Hi. It's nice to see you, too. Damn shame it has to be on an occasion where our opinions differ.



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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/26/2015 12:30:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: dcnovice

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As Sigourney Weaver (playing First Lady Ellen Mitchell) says in Dave, "There's no mistake, Bill. When you veto someone's funding that is not a mistake. When you hurt someone intentionally that is not a mistake."

Bravo!!!



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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/26/2015 12:38:54 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Greta75

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ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist
If this is bait to draw me and burn me on the same stake as her, you are barking up the wrong tree. I was not privy to her thoughts or actions concerning individual forum members, but Mod3 and I have had several talks about CollarChat and how to fix some of the software and policy problems. She was interested in making a presentation about it to Eric that previously either disappeared at the hands of VAA or went unacknowledged due to his disability. She was working on that.

Actually I read somewhere maybe in fetlife, someone else who knows mod3 in real life says she's really a nice person and some of the fetlife complains about her seems totally the opposite of her real life character.


If Mod3 is who I think she is, before she was a mod she decided to stalk me on the forum here, making insulting comments (which apparently didnt break the rules), etc.. trying to induce me into getting mad and insulting her back and get myself banned.. I just ignored her and she finally got the message & stopped (she went on to do that to others tho).. If some people think she is nice in real life, well.. all I can say is people tend to show their true colors online and just cuz she is "nice" in person doesnt mean she cant turn on you at at some point.. Oddly enough, a while back there was some curfluffle on one of the threads and she sent me a very strange (polite) email.. I had no idea what she was talking about and if she was trying to be friendly/nice and all that, that ship sailed long ago.. I did not reply to it.. I tend not to want to spend time with people that show Dr Jeckyl-Mr Hyde type personalities.. I leave that to others..

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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/26/2015 12:57:22 PM   
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*waits for the plot twist, where the evil twin that was killed in the car crash is replaced by the "unknown" triplet that is really the baby daddy*



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RE: -= Stop it, RS. Dont be an ass=- - 9/26/2015 1:15:52 PM   
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ORIGINAL: ExiledTyrant

*waits for the plot twist, where the evil twin that was killed in the car crash is replaced by the "unknown" triplet that is really the baby daddy*



You really sure you want to go this path?



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