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SapphireServant -> Tea Meet for The Doms and Masters (10/15/2015 5:33:11 PM)
Hello, please allow me to introduce myself, I am the Sapphire Servant. It is a pleasure to meet you. I am not seeking a Dom at the moment, but I would like to get to know the ones that are here. Please tell me about yourself as a Dom/Master and why you do what you do. (What do you do?) And what you think a new Sub like me should know before commiting to anyone. I am more than willing to listen. With respect, -The Sapphire Servant (Please no examples/ anything graphic or nudes, I beg of you, I may scratch out my eyeballs...Let's just drink tea and chat.) ~Serves tea~...~and cookies~...~and chocolate~...~sits down quietly~ (Sorry, I have a sweet tooth!)

DesFIP -> RE: Tea Meet for The Doms and Masters (10/15/2015 9:02:44 PM)
You should know yourself. What do you need in a partner and what you cannot tolerate. You should read about different styles, do you want punishment or do you respond better to positive reinforcement? You need to figure out what you're interested in playwise as well. For example, I'm into bondage and not pain. Knowing this allowed me to not waste my time talking to sadists, and focus on riggers instead.

SapphireServant -> RE: Tea Meet for The Doms and Masters (10/16/2015 12:01:00 PM)
You are right, I really should clarify what it is I want. But for now I'll just ask others that question. XD Take that anyway you wish. ;-)

Missokyst -> RE: Tea Meet for The Doms and Masters (10/16/2015 12:03:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SapphireServant (Please no examples/ anything graphic or nudes, I beg of you, I may scratch out my eyeballs...Let's just drink tea and chat.) ~Serves tea~...~and cookies~...~and chocolate~...~sits down quietly~ (Sorry, I have a sweet tooth!) acck.. eyeball wash!

SapphireServant -> RE: Tea Meet for The Doms and Masters (10/16/2015 4:03:40 PM)
Well, at least two people came. XD. I'm such a dumb noob. :-P

TNDommeK -> RE: Tea Meet for The Doms and Masters (10/16/2015 6:38:40 PM)
everyone has to start somewhere, no worries. Welcome

DarkSteven -> RE: Tea Meet for The Doms and Masters (10/16/2015 9:25:38 PM)
Hi there! The first bit of advice for you is that the lifestyle isn't about kink. It's about people. Go to munches. Especially look at couples/families and observe their interactions. What kinds of interactions/dynamics/people do you feel drawn to?

SapphireServant -> RE: Tea Meet for The Doms and Masters (10/16/2015 10:11:00 PM)
Thanks for the welcome, guys! [:)]

LuminousFire -> RE: Tea Meet for The Doms and Masters (10/21/2015 8:50:00 AM)
Coffee and cake uncut as I like it in its untainted original slab form. Do people still drink tea, and wonders what became of coffee with chicory and bovril (if you are younger than 40 you will probably not know what that is) and...we were poor back in those days What do people want What type are these people; are they nice people, good people, bad people, single people, attached people, married people, aliens hybrids from outer space hails the lizard king. Do they want/give love, compassion, cruelty and so on There are many types of people, near infinite perhaps, and no two (quantum malarkey) want the same thing. What if my minds want something that cannot possibly exist – should it have the capacity to compromise? Or should I just get some more cats

SapphireServant -> RE: Tea Meet for The Doms and Masters (10/23/2015 5:32:14 AM)
Cats are always the best answer. Raises cup of chamomile tea ☕🙋😉

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