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RE: Hi - 10/28/2015 9:52:23 AM

LuminousFire

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Oh goodee a good one. But the answer is not simple.
1. I knew a girl where a man moved in with her same day. It did not end well and this is one I cannot go into details.
2. I knew people who could not go a moment; let alone a day, week, month many months without the company of another.

They have insatiable needs the need to be needed, or wanted. And that’s all that matters to them. I feel sorrow for them. They are what they are and all they can ever be. In some ways I accept them (all even).

Love at first sight exists why I myself have felt it thrice, once with all cats, all muffins, and cheap delicious Chardonnay with the rank perfume additives

I presume you have seen him, spoke to him at length on his phone and know him to be who and what he says.

Then you must meet if your loins long for him that much and take it from there. Meet in a safe location and avoid haunted mansions and castles and woods.

Explain why you feel like that about him and have you ever felt that way about anyone before.

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RE: Hi - 10/29/2015 6:30:38 AM

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I have met a wonderful guy online and only known him for 4 days and we click and now I want to know if its to soon to move in or meet him or should I wait a few months and get to know him more there is a guy on here that is just a little worried for me thinking im going to fast
Thank you if you can help me that would be great.

Yes. It's way too soon. You're experiencing new feelings which make you feel good, but that doesn't mean the person giving them to you is a good person.

Slow, right down. Bad things have happened to women who don't take this very slowly and very carefully. Many predators lurk online and women who are newly exploring this world are fresh meat for them.

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RE: Hi - 10/29/2015 6:27:26 PM

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take your time there is no rush look for what you need and want be not afraid to say what you want and like. check him out find out about him ask for references and call them.
if you are afraid to tell him something then chances are that it is not right for you

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RE: Hi - 10/31/2015 4:21:49 AM

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ORIGINAL: smallgirl34

I have met a wonderful guy online and only known him for 4 days and we click and now I want to know if its to soon to move in or meet him or should I wait a few months and get to know him more there is a guy on here that is just a little worried for me thinking im going to fast
Thank you if you can help me that would be great.

If you had a daughter and she came to you and said "hey mom, I just met a guy online four days ago and now I'm gonna pack all of my shit up and move in with him." would you be happy about that?
Or would you smack her upside the head and say wtf?

Even puppies should have some working brain cells, common sense and self preservation.

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RE: Hi - 10/31/2015 10:28:28 PM

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It appears that she has ignored all our advice.

Her profile says so.

100+ years of experience in the lifestyle ignored.

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RE: Hi - 10/31/2015 10:42:38 PM

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It appears that she has ignored all our advice.

Her profile says so.

100+ years of experience in the lifestyle ignored.

Unfortunately Ron, as we have witnessed many times on these boards, you can't fix stupid.

I wonder how long it'll be before we see her here again, maybe under another nick, wailing that she moved in with a nice guy and it all went tits-up and now she's stuck and don't know what to do.

Why ask if you've already made up your mind what you're going to do??
Beats the fuck outta me that's fer sure!!

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RE: Hi - 10/31/2015 11:03:54 PM

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Yeah... I can see now she is "owned". Hopefully she at least met the guy face to face first before installing the shackles

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RE: Hi - 11/1/2015 3:09:50 AM

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This may sound naive, but how do people manage to move within days, not to mention that the owner lives in another state? Lease, mortgage, furniture, bills, job...

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RE: Hi - 11/1/2015 4:45:36 AM

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This may sound naive, but how do people manage to move within days, not to mention that the owner lives in another state? Lease, mortgage, furniture, bills, job...

We've moved 3 times in the last 6 years.
For the last 2 moves we've had the kids.
The longest time we've taken is 2 days.

When we got this place, we had to wait for 2 weeks before we knew whether we'd got it or not.
Got a phone call on the Thursday morning, met the agent at the house that same afternoon, signed the agreement and started moving on the Friday.
As the OH and the kids were busy packing, I booked the van and spent all afternoon contacting people by email/phone with the new address. I got the ISP to switch the service over the weekend so we'd be up and running for Monday morning.
I picked up the van late Friday afternoon and we spent the whole weekend shifting our stuff.
Most of it just got dumped in roughly the right rooms at the new place and by late Sunday evening we finished mopping the floors of the old place, locked up, and dropped the keys off to the landlord.
Sunday night was spent crashed out on mattresses at the new place - all moved and done.
It took another month or so to get everything put where we wanted it, but the moving took just 48 hours.

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RE: Hi - 11/1/2015 4:54:05 AM

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We're thinking of putting the house on the market and there is just so much that needs to be done or else you just don't get a good price...

Having lived in the US, you tend to sign a lease and leave a deposit, if you flunk out on your rent payment you lose the deposit and your credit rating takes a massive hit, makes it damned hard to rent from anywhere else again...

That's why I'm a bit surprised how people can meet somebody and a few days later move in with that person.

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RE: Hi - 11/14/2015 8:28:01 PM

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ORIGINAL: smallgirl34

I have met a wonderful guy online and only known him for 4 days and we click and now I want to know if its to soon to move in or meet him or should I wait a few months and get to know him more there is a guy on here that is just a little worried for me thinking im going to fast
Thank you if you can help me that would be great.

How old are you? Where the hell are your parents? Surely you must be wicked young because you do not seem to have a drop of common sense.
Whatever the hell you think you're doing, you need to s-t-o-p. Youre going to end up on one of those fucking missing flyers....HAVE YOU SEEN.....

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